What happened to the flowers?

[BigTex77]

Great thread and has really made me think about how gifts can be a great addition to an experience. Thanks to all the ladies that posted and thank you Jules for starting the thread!

[BLM69]

A gift can be given after a few sessions with the same provider, It should not be expected if you're just visiting for the first time.

I also think flowers are way too personal as a gift and should be given to a special someone such as a SO. Just my opinion on the matter.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Caleb

It really surprised me to learn that ladies kept the gift cards. I thought these would hit the trash long before the flowers did, but you are not alone in your card collection. Note to self: the effort in selecting a card is noticed.




I'm sure many think you are just being funny, but I have seen the rather large bag of Whataburger ketchup, the spicy variety if memory serves. When shown to me, it was described as one of the most thoughtful gifts she had ever received, though she would not say who it was from. Miss that girl!

What did she do with the 25 lb bag of horse crackers?

[zebra]

Jules,

I read a ladies Eccie & P411 profile if they bother to fill it out and if I see their favorite flower in their profile I always try to bring their favorite fresh cut flowers to the appointment. It's just a nice touch, maybe it's old fashioned but a lot of ladies do appreciate it and it always brightens their day. And if you want a Provider to remember you, this is probably a pretty good one but the absolute best way to get them to remember you is to make sure they orgasm a half dozen times before the main event...

[pmdelites]

one more thing, if you give a card to a woman or attach a small card to a gift, regardless of what you write [those lovely mushy notes], DO NOT sign your real name!!!!!
you could use your hobby name or initial of hobby name or even leave it blank.

remember to keep things discreet. putting your real name on a card you give to a provider is NOT discreet.

hugs and kisses,
pmd

[OldGrump]

Originally Posted by pmdelites

one more thing, if you give a card to a woman or attach a small card to a gift, regardless of what you write [those lovely mushy notes], DO NOT sign your real name!!!!!
you could use your hobby name or initial of hobby name or even leave it blank.

remember to keep things discreet. putting your real name on a card you give to a provider is NOT discreet.

hugs and kisses,
pmd

That is such a great reminder. I can't say how many times I almost ended a PM or email with my real name.

[Caleb]

Originally Posted by pyramider

What did she do with the 25 lb bag of horse crackers?

Haha - 25lbs, really?? I have no idea. That, sir, is truly hysterical.

[Kendall4U]

I have been extremely fortunate with the gentleman that I have seen. I have received my favorite flowers on several occasions hand delivered and just sent out of the blue with no session involved, given my favorite perfume at least 3 different times, jewelry, had a cake baked for me, various gift cards, sweet tea, lingerie, lunches, wines, Kettle One vodka, Patron. I even had a gent that wanted to see me, but I was at my kiddos volleyball game. When I got home I received a pm that asked me to look on my door step, I had a nice bottle of wine, raspberry chocolates and the sweetest card. You all know who you are! I know I have already "thanked" you privately, but now I am doing so publicly. I truly appreciate you taking the time to do some research and make me feel so special.

[demsrsb]

I'm still here Jules! I bring at least one gift to every visit with anyone I see. Old fashioned I guess.

[Jules Jaguar]

wow I am overwhelmed at the responses here... so glad to know that there are still hobbyists that enjoy the romance aspect of the hobby. You would be surprised at how small of a gesture can make our day or even week

Keep it up guys and thank you so much to everyone that has participated thus far

[berkleigh]

Originally Posted by Reese Foster

You know that I want you
And you know that I need you
I want it bad, your bad romance!

You and Me could write a Bad Romance!!!
Rah, ah, ah, ahhhhhhhhhh!!!

LMFAO!!!

[Daniel1965x]

Yes; Bad providers have ruined it. But you're definitely an exception.

[Jules Jaguar]

Originally Posted by Daniel1965x

Yes; Bad providers have ruined it. But you're definitely an exception.

Thank you very much and that is too bad... Hopefully this is a reminder that there are still generous guys out there and appreciative ladies out here

[Sir Lancehernot]

I don't want to wee-wee in anyone's Wheaties here, but, since we have a good discussion going, I'll mention something here that I mentioned a few months ago: This is the only business I'm aware of where it's more commonly accepted for the client or buyer to bring gifts to the seller. Usually, it's the seller who provides gifts as a thank-you to the client for business or an inducement for future business. In the Hobby, it's more like the buyer is bringing a gift to the seller as a way of saying, "Thank you for allowing me to purchase your services." Huh? Guys, the gifts are flowing the wrong way!

Having said that, I'm just as guilty, though with less frequency and opulence, of bringing gifts to providers, and more or less for the reason I just mentioned: as a way of saying thank you for allowing me to pay money to spend an hour or so in your company.

Yeah, I know.

[NearHauteRed]

Originally Posted by Daniel1965x

Yes; Bad providers have ruined it. But you're definitely an exception.

Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

Thank you very much and that is too bad... Hopefully this is a reminder that there are still generous guys out there and appreciative ladies out here

They are just harder and harder to find, especially the appreciative providers. I have never met Jules, but from her posts, I can gather she is one of the good ones!