Community devoid of common courtesy??

[Guest071817-1]

Increasingly I am finding myself stressed out over scheduling issues. Lately many gentlemen are ready to visit asap when making first inquiry about availability. I am always happy to try and work you into my schedule but sometimes that is just not possible and is quite unrealistic. Repeat clients are much more likely to be granted an appointment on short notice. If you have not seen a provider before please at least start by giving your eccie handle and references. Without that basic info it is not possible to verify you. Please do not make us play 20 questions in order to collect this as our time is just as valuable as yours. We all have lives outside of this community that require attention. I understand that time allowed for the hobby can be sparse however a certain amount of time is needed to verify identities as well as be freshened up and looking fantastic for you. Basically please just use some common courtesy and understanding when contacting a provider for an appointment. I believe it can make a huge difference in a positive way for everyone involved! Thanks and I look forward to hearing other's thoughts on the matter!

[Guest101314]

+1

If you are a repeat it's much easier to get a short notice. I take screening very seriously and everyone needs to be screened! Especially since we have some cretin beating the living shit out of our providers.

When first PMing (NOT EMAILING FIRST), please please please include your references guys. PMing is part of my verification process so please do not skip that step.

Thank you guys for understanding!

[MsPrittiKitti]

Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn

When first PMing (NOT EMAILING FIRST), please please please include your references guys. PMing is part of my verification process so please do not skip that step.

Many fail to realize how helpful this would be.
I understand some want to build a rapport/connection prior to meeting. However, if this info is shared in the first correspondence, we're able to conduct screening while getting acquainted.

[Dakota123]

+100!

Some guys just say "HI" in their 1st message...

LOL

that is totally crazy... especially if we havent met!!

Send refs with the FIRST message so we can get that over with....

[Guest101314]

Oh yes. My faves are the ones that text me first "I saw your reviews on eccie and wanted to see your availability". But I don't have any previous text messages or their number saved... oye... Help a sista out! Send refs in your first PM please so we can knock them bad boys out. Only text me if I've GIVEN you my number, yes I realize it's posted everywhere.

I love you guys. Really I do. You just need a spanking every now and again.

[Samcro84]

OK girls I have a questions - what is the preferred amount of time for the following

Time before the requested meeting.

How quickly should we get a message back from you.

How long should we wait before we try another provider, so we don't have multiple requests on same day.

Are the above answers different for returning customers?


Yes guilty of "Hi" on texts, but trying to learn from mistakes.

[Brandy Starr]

I personally don't mind last minute scheduling. It just has to.be realistic such as in a hr or 2. Not 30 minutes before hand. What if my hair isn't done? I'm sure nobody wants to see my natural hair... I call it frizz mode.

[MsPrittiKitti]

Ha! I call it fro mode
Traveler...unfortunately it all depends on the lady youre attempting to contact.
For ex- i know when asking for refs, who doesnt reply, who will, and my fav..those who reply instantly.
Now with that being said...only "you" hold the answer to the questions you pose.
I think it depends on how bad you want to see the lady. If you want to see her badly, you may make excuses for her lack of getting to you quickly, and wait longer (than usual) for a reply. If you getting your pop isnt dependent upon 'who'..then you may not wait so long.

(When i sip wine...i get horny ...and sometimes feel scholarly. ....



Burp. Jk!)

[Guest101314]

Originally Posted by travelerman

OK girls I have a questions - what is the preferred amount of time for the following

I think it differs for everyone but for me....

Originally Posted by travelerman

Time before the requested meeting.

If you are a regular, it could be 30 mins assuming I'm not busy or away from my incall. If I have to screen, it could take days because not everyone is prompt on responding, if at all to reference checks.

Originally Posted by travelerman

How quickly should we get a message back from you.

I think if the girl is available and working, should be within a two hours. If not, she's not available.

Originally Posted by travelerman

How long should we wait before we try another provider, so we don't have multiple requests on same day.

Try to schedule ahead of time if possible. If you don't hear from her within an hour or so, move on to your next desirable.

Originally Posted by travelerman

Are the above answers different for returning customers?

I would say yes, because there is already that familiarity there.

Originally Posted by travelerman

Yes guilty of "Hi" on texts, but trying to learn from mistakes.

Hi texts are perfectly fine if we've already been talking... but right off the top, it's much better to PM. She'll respond if she is available.

[Guest101314]

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[phillyintexas]

Lady V,

What you're asking for is not just common courtesy but common sense. Phil

[brwillis]

Realistic expectations, and some proper planning, can take a gent far.
Thank you for the post, Miss LadyV!

[gfx]

I empathize with both parties (client & provider), and since we are an agency. We try to accommodate both parties by having our ladies ready and on stand-by for short notice requests. We tend to follow "trends"... lunch-time, rush-hour, and after 2am is when we get those "Are you ready right now?" clients.... so we prepare for that in advance.

As far as screening, we have alternatives in place just in case the references have a delayed-response-time.

We had a "fixed" location and clients would call or text something like, "Im outside or I'm 5min away, who's available?" In those cases, we were still able to provide service, but sometimes they had to wait/come back in 10-15 min or come inside and have drink.

Therefore, Independent Ladies please understand sometimes its hard for clients to plan ahead because they don't know when their next availability will be, and when "the stars do align perfectly" they have to act on it asap. Gents please understand Independent providers have a life, family, and other regular clientele so try to be considerate.

What do you think about a client referral program? Even though we strive to be a 24 hour Service, sometimes it is impossible. Since the client is going to move-on down the line and call someone else anyways; you might as well receive some type of incentive or compensation.
"I'm not available, you can either reschedule or call GFX!"
GFX is not available may I refer you to one of our Independent affiliates?"
If this is something you are interested in send me a pm please.

[Samcro84]

Great Idea GFX on the referral program. We all need to remember we are in this together.

Thanks for all the comments to my question. Lady V I did not want to take away from you initial question yours led to mine.

[Netx9]

Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn

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