Have you ever fallen for a client?

[Gentlemen Rendezvous]

How would a client know?
What would be the sign?

- unsolicited emails and phone calls
- angry text about not seeing them frequently enough
- telling them they want to them to see them off the clock
- telling them to come spend the weekend with them, as a real life capacity
- being introduced to family members
- statements of love and affection

What would be the sign for client, hypothetically ?

[oldbutstillgoing]

And your post added so much value to the topic at hand. Thanks. I bet you get dissapointed a lot too.

Originally Posted by LickHer

LMAO! The OP asked PROVIDERS if they've ever fallen for a client, yet the post is 5 pages long with only about 4 providers answering and dozens of clients answering... Too funny. I clicked on actually hoping to see what providers felt, but was sorely disappointed. Jut sayin'

All I can add as a guy is love can happen anywhere. Being in the hobby does not completly preclude meeting and falling in love with someone. But it sure makes it damn hard. I have dated 2 providers over the years. Neither progressed to the point we wanted to give up our lives and start all over together. It might have with one of them but it was long time away from that. There were a lot of issues that would have need to be worked out and it never got that far.

[Guest050619-1]

Originally Posted by Hercules

Unfortunately most of the ladies who've claimed love did so with a price tag on it. I used to cherish it when a lady said she loved me. When a lady says it now I immediately wonder how long it'll be before I get hit up to loan/give $$$.

Herc, you totally nailed it, (per my own feelings / opinion). I dated & lived with a young lady during my college yrs (early 70's) and neither of us had a nickel to our names. We were happy, life was great and we were totally in love. Ever since that relationship, I've felt the L word has had an odd attachment to money....in particular, the income I produced and how it could directly impact the circumstances of the women who "loved me".

If (Bill Murray's) Ground Hog Day premise was not just a fantasy, I'd gladly hang out in the Spring of 1973 again and again and again.......

[vixstudios]

if any type of emoutions are involved there is always a chance for that spark.. If people can fall in Love playing warcraft or borderlands then it can happen anywhere... Cept for orlando bloom, that chick from lost broke him good

[berkleigh]

Originally Posted by DonAsher

Dont worry ladies, its not actually TRUE LOVE on your part less your giving up the starfish. Ijs

Either it was "True Love" or I am slippin'... lol

Whatever it was, I FINALLY gave up the Starfish

Lucky him.

[DonAsher]

Originally Posted by berkleigh

Either it was "True Love" or I am slippin'... lol

Whatever it was, I FINALLY gave up the Starfish

Lucky him.

I guess true love can make you slip. Regardless....+1000

[pyramider]

The ladies often fall in love with me ... 1.3" at a time.

[Kendall4U]

I think if everyone were to actually be honest, there have been times we have all "fallen" for someone in the hobby. Not necessarily love, but things can get confusing. I have actually had to put things back in perspective at least once. Sometimes feelings can get the best of us. It's a game and there is always going to be a winner and a loser. Proceed with caution and treat others as you want to be treated.

[pyramider]

Where is the fun in that?

[berkleigh]

Originally Posted by DonAsher

I guess true love can make you slip. Regardless....+1000

Or Vodka . . . lust and Vodka . . .like I said, Lucky Him!

True Love does not exist, not this time

Next . . .

[Laura Lynn]

Originally Posted by Kendall4U

I think if everyone were to actually be honest, there have been times we have all "fallen" for someone in the hobby. Not necessarily love, but things can get confusing. I have actually had to put things back in perspective at least once. Sometimes feelings can get the best of us. It's a game and there is always going to be a winner and a loser. Proceed with caution and treat others as you want to be treated.

And now you know why this awesome lady is my ATF!! Beauty and Brains

I developed a couple of crushes, both this year. I'm not sure why it has happened 2x this year, as I've always been able to separate fantasy from reality. One in particular, I fell a little harder than I probably should admit. He quit the hobby after being in it only a short time to work things out with his SO, which is exactly as it should be. The other crush fell for a different provider. I have never told either of these gentlemen my feelings. It's just not my place.

[SD2011]

I like the answers in this thread. It gives us a tiny peek a little into what's going on inside for a few of you ladies. Thanks

[DonAsher]

Originally Posted by berkleigh

True Love does not exist, not this time

Boooo!

[whitechocolate]

As Kendall as stated, if providers were honest like hobbyist, most would acknowledge the intensity of feelings they have for select clients which can evolve into love. When you make love to clients on a regular basis, you cant help developing feeling of love but most do learn to control their love. You can usually tell who they are in love with if they discuss that client.

[eccienewbie]

Originally Posted by whitechocolate

As Kendall as stated, if providers were honest like hobbyist, most would acknowledge the intensity of feelings they have for select clients which can evolve into love. When you make love to clients on a regular basis, you cant help developing feeling of love but most do learn to control their love. You can usually tell who they are in love with if they discuss that client.

Your post went way beyond what Kendall wrote. She may agree with everything in your post (or not), but you took it at least a couple degrees beyond her post.

Or I could be completely wrong (I often am). In any event, no flame intended. Just an observation.