Eeny, meeny, miny, moe....

[finlay]

More great advise, thanks so much I've always been a little too much on the shy side for here. I love to play, and the risk gets me going too.. but I want to be safe. I'm the quiet one in the corner who has a secret no one at work knows about Your reassurance helps.

Originally Posted by Charlottehoney

I think you need a good photo shoot! That always helps me. Just ask one of your favorites!

Play safe honey!

I have a couple of more photos, but they all show my face, so I took them down. I guess I should load them up in photoshop and blur them out or get creative.

hugs and kisses to you all

[KlassyKelliAnn]

Luscious Leo takes superb pics! She is awesome and the proof is in this forum.....scroll down Coed.

KKA

[Charlottehoney]

Originally Posted by finlay

More great advise, thanks so much I've always been a little too much on the shy side for here. I love to play, and the risk gets me going too.. but I want to be safe. I'm the quiet one in the corner who has a secret no one at work knows about Your reassurance helps.




I have a couple of more photos, but they all show my face, so I took them down. I guess I should load them up in photoshop and blur them out or get creative.

hugs and kisses to you all

You should get creative and put them up! I for one would love to see your girls. I like tits! I bet yours are awsome!

[Mossman]

Not sure about the advice that it's ok not to respond. I've always thought it was rude not to respond to a direct contact. Set your own requirements and avoid requests from those who don't meet them. That at least is understandable...no response means what? After all, weren't we all newbys at some point. I for one am thankful to those ladies who chose to see me when I was new to the hobby. But I also respected the directive of those who said "Not Newby Friendly" and did not waste their time with my PM's.

[ck1942]

Glad to see you are sticking to your guns!

What I tell all the ladies:

1) you are in charge of the rules, and

2) you are in charge of making sure the gents know your rules.

I guess my question is, is it ok for me to not respond to these types of requests, and does it happen to you?

As long as you post the screening rules -- stick 'em in your signature! -- no one can complain about not getting a response.Common courtesy might dictate a response, but make it short and sweet.

"Please respect my rules."

jmho -- many of the gents are in the hobby to enjoy "companionship" and, if the circumstances also include "chemistry" and "communication" then the 4th C in my formula yields "copulation."And, I have found over the years that many ladies also enjoy 4 C sessions, too.

Still collecting Hollow Weenie commitments!

[puddy tat]

It only takes 2 seconds longer to respond,no I'm unavailable. Here's an example, I sent a p411 request w/14 okays,got no reply. Among my okays VLB,Slave,CGFU, good enough for anyone,however a provider that takes the time in biography to state she answers all communications,and also she takes pride in her always responding in a timely manner,no response. After wasting 3 days of my time waiting,on to the blocked list! Now whether or not she may have seen me or not,doesn't matter,she has lost a potential good client,because she couldn't bother to say "sorry,I'm unavailable".

[steve_in_texas]

Bbw"s are the best

[finlay]

Originally Posted by Charlottehoney

You should get creative and put them up! I for one would love to see your girls. I like tits! I bet yours are awsome!

I've put some up in my showcase Enjoy.


And for the record (I may have even previously stated) I will continue to answer all pm's no matter how iffy they may seem.

[Stlatit]

When I first joined the boards years ago (ASPD) it was exciting to learn that there is someone (providers) for everyone. Short, thin, tall, big breasts, small breasts, big ass, small ass, petite etc., etc. including big women and BBW. In conversations with other hobbyists over the years I have learned that some guys really love big women... and they are available.

Lots of valuable advice in the posts before me but don't get down because of your body size. there is someone for everybody on these boards, it is just a matter of hooking up with the one you want.

Stlatit

[Charlottehoney]

Originally Posted by finlay

I've put some up in my showcase Enjoy.

Very yummy titties undeed honey! Thanks