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Annef · 08-14-2013, 02:04 PM

To me, that's when you first, deny, deny, deny and then contact management and tell them someone is harassing you and, don't worry about his identity on this place, get his ass kicked out of that one with no hope of return. That is just ridiculousness. So sorry that happened to you! Hope you have a better week

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texasfeet · 08-14-2013, 02:09 PM

that is so horrible. I'm sorry you had to experience that.

Poet Laureate · 08-15-2013, 11:29 AM

Honestly, I think you should have either thrown your drink in his face or told the bartender to get this drunk asshole out of there. Under the circumstances you were certainly justified in doing either one.

ck1942 · 08-15-2013, 03:47 PM

All of the above have some legitimacy, albeit plus some downside.

If you see this jerk around town, get his photo and upstream it somewhere the ladies can be alerted.

My initial reaction to a drunk is to want to either sidewind him (pin one arm to torso, grab his balls and yank hard) or simply get up real close "hey, I KNEED to tell you something" and knee him in the nutz.

My best reaction was as one suggestion above, go to the manager and tell him you are being harassed by a drunk, and if the manager doesn't want to handle the issue, simply exit the bar and call the cops and provide enough info so LE can go in and haul his ass out for public drunk, or, better yet, watch him stagger out, get in his vehicle and then lower the DUI/DWI boom.

I always counsel folks not go bar hopping unless you have a designated sidekid, hopefully one who isn't drinking.

Best of luck out there, and see my pm about Austin's Happy Hour on August 28.

saustin · 08-16-2013, 06:42 AM

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Originally Posted by ck1942

My initial reaction to a drunk is to want to either sidewind him (pin one arm to torso, grab his balls and yank hard) or simply get up real close "hey, I KNEED to tell you something" and knee him in the nutz.

Seriously?? You suggest escalating to physical violence?? What if he brings a big old can of whupass down on your head?

Luvdatpuddy · 08-16-2013, 07:33 AM

I'm not one to advocate violence, but I think the risk to her in a physical confrontation would have been minimal...maybe I'm old fashioned, but from my prior bar days (working, mostly, but some drinking as well), if some dude hit a lady in my bar, I'd be trying to pull 10 customers off of him before they turn him into a stain on the floor.

Even if you want to put that aside, if this guy was as messed up as she says (and no reason to doubt that), I have full confidence she could have laid him out.

But, realistically, all I can really say is it really sucks that it happened...there's no justification for it, and no defense for what he did. I don't know that I've EVER been that wasted where I would do something like that (hell, I have a hard enough time talking to chicks when I'm sober...when I'm drunk, talking by itself is a challenge).

And on a side note - VictoriaLyn, I think, gets the tip of the hat today for best phrasing - "throat punch the asswaffle"! Gave me a good morning laugh, and I thank you for it.

blueball5 · 08-16-2013, 08:53 AM

I am surprised security or someone didn't kick his ass for you.... Next time try yelling PERVERT, PEDPILE, STOP TOUCHING ME, or LEAVE ME ALONE.. That should get some dude to kick his ass...

onei · 08-16-2013, 09:11 AM

I'm told vodka goes great with everything … except wise decisions.

I had a friend who was drunk at a bar one night. When this guy and his wife walked by he reached out and grabbed a whole handful of pussy (literally) and just hung on saying, "You're going home with me tonight!"

The husband kept his cool and simple said, "Because you are obviously drunk I'm going to let this pass, but if you don't get your hands off my wife right now you're going to taste your own shit in a matter of seconds."

My friend as about 5'6" and 130 lbs. soaking wet and this guy was about 6'0" and 230 lbs. of solid steel. Yeah, vodka doesn't go we'll with wise choices.

JohnnyYanks · 08-16-2013, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by onei

... I had a friend ... grabbed a whole handful of pussy (literally) and just hung on ...

I'm guessing we're supposed to chuckle? Nod knowingly?

I don't think I would admit to a friend like that. Even after I had gotten rid of him.

Drunk shmunk.

NikkiWhite · 08-16-2013, 10:49 AM

Sorry that happened shayla

Hmmm I think I would pretend to be interested and tell him meet me at my room in a hour and send him to a shit hole motel with a room number thinking he was gonna get his peepee sucked lol.

I have a major stalker in cali I did this to.

fun2come · 08-16-2013, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by NikkiWhite

I have a major stalker in cali I did this to.

Makes me wonder what you do to all your cyber stalkers?
Grab them and squeeze the juices out of them?

(SORRY, could not resist)...

oldman_river_austin · 08-16-2013, 12:04 PM

If I saw a babe I'd sessioned with I'd just sparkle my eyes, give a sly smile then walk away --- not even that if it wasn't right for the moment.

What is wrong with some people, drunk or not? My manners don't take a vacation because I've had a few tequila shots. This guy was just an a-hole!

Sorry this happened sweetie!

LuvThatKitty · 08-19-2013, 09:22 AM

Sorry that happened to you Shayla. The guy was a total asshole.

Lovelyallison · 08-19-2013, 08:15 PM

Omg! That totally sucks! Im sorry you had to encounter such an ass! That has always been my #1 fear! I know guys like to see ads with faces visible, but this is the reason why a lot of females are uncomfortable with it.

So many guys browse and I feel much more comfortable knowing if we ever crossed paths, the worse that could happen is he may/may not recognize my BODY, get excited, go home & give me a call

Well, as creepy as he was, at least you know your hotness is memorable! But I'm sure you already knew that!