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Old 05-23-2013, 08:32 AM   #31
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Thank you, all! I don't know how much of a campaign it might be. I just feel that, if people don't like the way things are going in their world, they have a unique opportunity here in America to speak out about them. The thing is, you can complain to your buddies at the bar about an issue, and they may agree or disagree, but complaining to your buddy won't change a thing. Complaining to the people who are capable of changing things you want to change makes far more sense.

My particular situation was unique and confusing. I can't say the situation will ever come up again. In my case, simply acknowledging that a review was accurate was enough to be banned, while the guidelines state that revealing private details is what is the big no-no. I know enough to not reveal details, so I thought I was within the rules. Clearly, the wording is vague enough that there was a lot of confusion over whether an infraction took place at all. My interpretation is that one did not, but I am more than happy to abide by whatever rules, guidelines, or repercussions the staff decide upon. If it were not for my providing, my alignment would be Lawful Good, but with that particular facet of my life, I'm firmly Neutral Good. Given my alignment, it came as a bit of a shock that I had broken any rules, as I do try to toe that line with care.

As far as the issue of whether providers should be allowed to know the contents of their own reviews - there is precedence for this on other boards. I believe there's a huge money making opportunity here, and I have some great ideas on how to implement it, supposing anyone is interested.

Have a wonderful day, everyone, and thank you for taking interest in little ol' me. /curtesy
mmmm I still on the other side. but thanks for posting.
still it seems no one here cares mmmmmm till it hits here ahhhhh silly
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Old 05-23-2013, 03:00 PM   #32
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As far as the issue of whether providers should be allowed to know the contents of their own reviews - there is precedence for this on other boards.
I think it's widely believed that many providers are able to read reviews done of them and, therefor, do know the contents of their reviews.
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Old 05-23-2013, 04:02 PM   #33
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mmmm I still on the other side. but thanks for posting.
still it seems no one here cares mmmmmm till it hits here ahhhhh silly
Oh, I don't know about that, OSD. I think that people probably do have an opinion on this, but as you point out, since it hasn't happened here, no one is really talking about it.

I read the whole Houston thread, and the follow ups ( Thanks, OSD.... )......and my opinion is that Christle got set-up by the OP, to be banned, to make his point, whatever it was supposed to be. I could be wrong, but it seems like that is a pattern down there.

There are a few guys that I listen to, when you really want to learn a thing or two about hobbying in general, and eccie in particular. We got a couple of them here.....but I read what dearhunter writes very carefully.......and would advise any newbie to do so. And, frankly, after deciphering OSD-ese, you too. That's why I read that whole debacle thread....you brought an issue forward that needed to be seen........

I think that the rules are backwards on this issue. The OP should have gotten the ban for sharing ROS, in any way shape form or manner........not Christle for admitting she read it.

Once it happens here, we will probably re-live the Houston thread up here. Ugh.

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it does and has happenned her elg

people get a pass
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I think it's widely believed that many providers are able to read reviews done of them and, therefor, do know the contents of their reviews.

Hell, they wrote mine. Holy Tebow, I am a lazy fucktard.
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Old 05-23-2013, 08:06 PM   #36
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it does and has happenned her elg

people get a pass

If it happened here, you're right.....but it didn't go nuclear like Houston!!

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Old 05-23-2013, 09:31 PM   #37
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If it can be proven ... and that is being worked on ... individuals will be vacationing for awhile!

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Old 05-24-2013, 03:03 AM   #38
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Oh, I don't know about that, OSD. I think that people probably do have an opinion on this, but as you point out, since it hasn't happened here, no one is really talking about it.

I read the whole Houston thread, and the follow ups ( Thanks, OSD.... )......and my opinion is that Christle got set-up by the OP, to be banned, to make his point, whatever it was supposed to be. I could be wrong, but it seems like that is a pattern down there.

There are a few guys that I listen to, when you really want to learn a thing or two about hobbying in general, and eccie in particular. We got a couple of them here.....but I read what dearhunter writes very carefully.......and would advise any newbie to do so. And, frankly, after deciphering OSD-ese, you too. That's why I read that whole debacle thread....you brought an issue forward that needed to be seen........

I think that the rules are backwards on this issue. The OP should have gotten the ban for sharing ROS, in any way shape form or manner........not Christle for admitting she read it.

Once it happens here, we will probably re-live the Houston thread up here. Ugh.

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well I was hoping to get theCFE to post here.
I still think blowpop should have been banned. But I understand why he was not. so as it is now you can give the gal you review the ROS. But doing so puts her at risk. When the one thread was locked, I think the mods miss her talking about the ROS. If BP never started the the Q thread, mods would have never seen it.
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well I was hoping to get theCFE to post here.
I still think blowpop should have been banned. But I understand why he was not. so as it is now you can give the gal you review the ROS. But doing so puts her at risk. When the one thread was locked, I think the mods miss her talking about the ROS. If BP never started the the Q thread, mods would have never seen it.
Well, you got her here! She did post!

You are right.....Blowpop should have gotten banned for his part. It's pretty obvious that he started the thread to make sure the mods knew that she got the ROS. And, the whole thread sure raised a lot of commentary.......parts of it real good!

I sent theCFE a note and invited her north to visit us....probably not, but you never know!!!

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Old 05-24-2013, 09:55 AM   #40
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question: have you checked out www.thecfe.com elghund?

She has a update to her review policy I see.

theCFE is very classy gal(I agree with you). I just do not agree with her. I picked title with care. Yes I agree blowpop set her up to get banned for a few days. But I do not think it was his intent.

I'm still on a now dead board(for NY anyways)where if you review the op has the option of ROS in the open or in private(mmmm not sure about now, need ta check)in the review. (back in the ASPD days) I reviewed a provider, and left ROS open. Worked out great. But ASPD as ECCIE had ROS locked out to providers and males that did not have PA. Yet other boards ROS is in the open. I prefer ROS where the provider can (ahem) not read the ROS. I see no reason why all boards should have the ROS or BCD in the open. And I think that is what some are pushing for, open ROS/BCD on ECCIE.

So blowpop (as others here have in Upset NY have(passed and present)) got off on a loophole in the guide lines that are not the intent of the guide lines of the board(eccie). And as
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theCFE did not get banned for acknowledging that she saw the ROS.........she got banned for acknowledging that she saw the ROS and there being corroborating evidence (BlowPup's admission that he sent her the ROS).

BlowPup was saved by the fact that it was his ROS and therefore his to dispense as he saw fit.......he incorrectly assumed that that immunity extended to whomever he shared the ROS........it did not and does not.

A hooktard (or fucktard for that matter) can shrill all they want that they "know" what is in an area of the board that they do not have access to. Until there is back-up evidence, it is babble.

A perfect example happened up here in Upset NY. A certain hooktard wen ballistic over subject matter that she said was in the Spider Hole. I was forced to investigate whether she in fact knew what was in the Spider Hole (she did not have access). She revealed her source (which was a credible source). Except there was a problem........the information that she was bitching about being in the Spider Hole did not exist in the Spider Hole. Therefore, my conclusion was that she had not violated any rule by revealing Spider Hole content and I sent her on her merry way.......unhappy as fuck (but with no infraction enforcement from me).

She was saved by misinformation. If she had gotten the content correct I would have been forced to send her on a short vacation.

It becomes the discretion of the modtards when it is not black and white.

The lines between hooktard areas and fucktard areas need to be enforced.......it keeps the wolves at bay.

I will just say that it should not be anyone's wish that another participant of this board be banned simply because you do not like what they post.........we all live and die by the same sword.......ijs
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I do not wish blowpop to be banned. yet I think should have been. I understand why he got off.

now that hooktard in Upset NY did get banned. As what she was bitching about was in ML in a few areas of the board that she also pointed at. Yet would not say who told her. At same time I thinkin she was done with the board anyways. She did not want to come back mmmm not sure, just what I be a thinkin
Strange when I see her at bars about town, she seems to know what going on here on eccie , even Upset NY ML. But last time I saw her the wikkileak was still workin

ahhhhh for the guys that have PA, there is some good reading in the Houston ML, I JUST SAYIN
mmmm would shed some light on a few things going on in Upset NY that many seem to rather think with little head. But one would need to be able to see the parallels thinking with head rather than prick.
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Whatever infractions that may or may not have been enforced in that situation did not come from me.

There are always parallels in different city forums........we are all chasing the same thing.......ijs

But, Houston and Dallas are also each unique in of themselves.........this form (ECCIE) of hooktard chasing was perfected in those two markets........the fucktards are not impressed with each other and have seen it all before causing less tolerance for retarded bullshit......they can be brutal with each other.

Upset NY cannot be Houston. You have to find your own way that is uniquely Upset NY. The key is to not stifle opinions......especially those you disagree with.

When your modtards fuck up, call them on it.......when your White Knights can't get their heads out of the hooktards ass, laugh at them.........when you assholes beat the dead horse into a Tebow re-awakening, call them whining bitches.........just keep conversing.
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well we do have this gem Pseudo Pimpin' going on. At first I was in heh wtf, then reread it all a few times. Oh I see what going on, more of the same BS I was shot down pointing out before. Along with a few others.

With this thread I'm going after WK's. giving up ROS and ML. Yet in a small way both are linked. The other thread is warring about one. When in fact it is more than one. Here in Upset NY there is a long list of gals mmm not all but many ahhh 1/2 it seems. Do not dare say any of the bad points of a gal. Or get the forever WKed. The one that said there where pics in your area of the board is one, but not one of in question in that thread.

In Upset its to the point even with a "yes" do not say a thing negative. Do not even try a NO, the ROS will get outed in the thread so much that it seems no warnings or points are ever given. Even on a first time reviewed BP gal. As the flavor of the month/s get all the info and glory.

One male member yelled at me for not reading ROS's in reviews of many gals. Well no pint in reading some as some seem to get away with BS with one gal but do not say a word on the flavor.
Upset is about useless to half the gals and about the same for the guys.
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If you (generic) thinck that you are being subjected to extra scrutiny from (a) modtard(s), always copy St.C in every communication with them........it is surprising how well behaved they can be when they are not the biggest dog in the room.......and no, you do not have to be well mannered and level headed in a PM to a modtard (after all, you are the one pissed off). Allowing you to vent without taking it personal is half of the battle for a modtard who is worth his salt. You do need to be clear about your gripe and not full of shit.

I told a modtard to fuck off in a PM one time.......when I got back from my ban, he felt much better.......more importantly, he never bothered me again.

If your modtard(s) are over policing (I did say "if"), you (generic) have to bite the bullet and take the points and/or ban to expose them/him. You (generic) are not going to talk them back from the ledge.......that has to happen somewhere else. I have been banned multiple times on this board.......I have never allowed that to silence me.

If you (generic) are in the minority opinion in your forum, grow some balls and stay the course..........opinions are like assholes........your opinion makes you an asshole to somebody.......ijs

Call a fat hooktard a fat hooktard........."fat" is not a curse word.......it is a physical description just like "black hair"........if someone does not like it, fuck them..........the hooktard is fat.....buy her a box of dingdongs. Of course she is going to get pissed.........she is fucking FAT.

Call a White Knight a WK and fuck the blow-back........call pimp behavior pimp behavior.......who gives a shit whether he gets all bent out of shape about it......who cares if the peanut gallery comes to his defense?

If you (generic) are a voice in the wilderness, so be it.......that is not grounds for points or a ban.......and if a modtard has to learn that the hard way, so be that as well.

.........and remember to play chess........even if they (generic) are playing checkers........ijs
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