Is there a penalty on this board...

[Phil A.Cheaux]

Originally Posted by KatieKatieNYC

Nobody owes you a reference. They do owe their clients references. A kind gesture, favor, whatever you want to call it I owe it to my client more so. The shit bags are when I am doing you a favor. In the long run the providers who do not get back to you are hurting themselves. Put them on your shit list and move on.

You might try working more with the clients by telling them that their references arent very helpful. Maybe if they want to see people bad enough they will ask them to step up..

[SexyCassandra]

Originally Posted by KatieKatieNYC

Nobody owes you a reference. They do owe their clients references. A kind gesture, favor, whatever you want to call it I owe it to my client more so. The shit bags are when I am doing you a favor. In the long run the providers who do not get back to you are hurting themselves. Put them on your shit list and move on.

I dont think anyone here is trying to say any provider owes anyone anything...It is common courtesy though. Or at least if you know you dont respond to reff verification tell you clients that, so they dont use you. That way us ladies dont waste our time pming someone, and wait for a response that we'll never see....Its kinda common sense, but then again I guess common sense isnt all that common..

[tbone2u]

If you ladies think it's hard to get other ladies to reply in a timely manner....you try being a guy here for a while. It's much worse.

[Sofia Simms]

Nobody owes you a reference. Never said that they did. It simply was NOT the question asked at the beginning of the thread They do owe their clients references. A kind gesture, favor, whatever you want to call it I owe it to my client more so. The shit bags are when I am doing you a favor. An identical favor that I would reciprocate without hesitation despite not knowing you In the long run the providers who do not get back to you are hurting themselves. Put them on your shit list and move on. That appears to be the conclusory option, no?

Originally Posted by SexyCassandra

I dont think anyone here is trying to say any provider owes anyone anything...It is common courtesy though. Or at least if you know you dont respond to reff verification tell you clients that, so they dont use you. That way us ladies dont waste our time pming someone, and wait for a response that we'll never see....Its kinda common sense, but then again I guess common sense isn't all that common..

Nicely stated, Cassandra! I understand this is not a duty but for someone so fresh in the hobby, I decide to view this as a moral obligation to ALL ladies, younger and even older, than myself in this biz. I OWE them a moral obligation to respond if I knew my ref would keep them outta any kind trouble & that Karma will hopefully allow some provider to do the same for me in the future. That is all

[KatieKatie]

This website isn't where we come to tell on each other. I always reply to reference requests. If girls aren't responding to you it may be because you are new and they don't like you crashing their market. I have heard of similar situations. Provider references are very important even if they have date check or p411. Welcome to Houston! It isn't that bad after a while.

[Champagne Brown]

The guys make a choice who they want to see. And I think the point is being missed here!!

It should' nt matter if she is new or not.

And im going to leave it there...

[rcinokc]

Some of the ladies think that if they cock block us we will go back to them. As someone said in a similar thread not long ago "If they are going to see someone else, there's nothing you can do about it". If we can't count on you for a reference, we're not likely to ever see you again.

[Guest072624]

Your right hun! Busty Amy always responds very quickly to all my reference request! Thanks hun!

Originally Posted by bustyamy

There is alot of haters on this board that don't want you making $$$ with their clients. I always respond back with a quickness. I figure, if he wants someone else that day then so be it. If ever you need a reference check with me let me know! Some have consideration, some don't. Sorry you are having problems sweety!

[AllisonofHouston]

I really don't call it cock blocking I call it " Beaver Daming " lol I always try to get back with references as soon as I can..and if I don't remember the guy I will let the lady know I may not respond immediately but I will respond as soon as I can...we have to protect each other ,
I will however add this if I haven't seen the guy in the last 6 months then I will tell the girl as much, so she can make an informed decision wether or not to see the guy...again it's all about safety..let's all have fun..oh and to the ladies who sent ref request a few months back and did not get a response I was in absentia with my family sorry about that ( I was being grandma ).. Now everybody have fun..and ladies feel free to contact me anytime .

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by KatieKatieNYC

This website isn't where we come to tell on each other.

[TheAntichrist666]

Originally Posted by Valerie

Girls who ignore reference requests need to be fucked in the ass with a cactus...That is all.

That sounds painful, ouch.

[spear88]

Ladies we might have an ATF or two, but a big part of the reason we get into this hobby is because we like variety. So trying to block us by not providing references is retarded.

[Champagne Brown]

Originally Posted by spear88

Ladies we might have an ATF or two, but a big part of the reason we get into this hobby is because we like variety. So trying to block us by not providing references is retarded.

Well put.

[SexyCassandra]

Originally Posted by Champagne Brown

Well put.

+1

[pyramider]

Posting taint will make the petty jealousy passe.