Challenges for Escorts

[China Doll]

Charles, you're right that lawyers are also viewed as the scum of the earth by many. I failed to make that connection, but then again, I considered studying law. You're also right that while it is not easy money, it is a lot of money. We make good money for a plethora of reasons, but I'll never understand how a good provider can be a broke provider (given that she doesn't have exceptional circumstances).

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by China Doll

Charles, you're right that lawyers are also viewed as the scum of the earth by many. I failed to make that connection, but then again, I considered studying law. You're also right that while it is not easy money, it is a lot of money. We make good money for a plethora of reasons, but I'll never understand how a good provider can be a broke provider (given that she doesn't have exceptional circumstances).

Oh, I know how a good one can be broke: she's a poor money manager. We, in the US, have an overspend disease. We are suckers for buying things on credit so we are spending more a month in repayments than we have income. Damn those luxury car payments, incall rentals, and shopping sprees. LOL

[China Doll]

Ahh yes, the ol' credit card. I guess growing up poor taught me not to spend money that I don't already have.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by China Doll

Ahh yes, the ol' credit card. I guess growing up poor taught me not to spend money that I don't already have.

Ditto. However I have a BAD shopping addiction... doesn't help but I ain't broke.

[hetta26]

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[EJunkie]

Well, ask your “a lawyer, doctor, teacher” to see you nude, share their bodies with you, share the intimacies that occur with escorts; what do you think their reactions would be.


It’s a very tough world. The most important aspect, in my view (and I am not an escort), is to keep your head straight. Dealing with this level of intimacy is challenging.



If there was an ideal “profile” I think it would be someone who enjoyed and needed sex (not “making love”), was attracted to older men (most clients will be older), and are comfortable with their own sexuality to the point that experimentation is the norm.

[Valerie]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Damn those luxury car payments, incall rentals, and shopping sprees. LOL

I blame Fendi & Dior!!

[jan-w]

Originally Posted by Logan135

I can't imagine it NOT being hard. I'm sure the ladies see some great guys on their best behavior but also the absolute worst in guys as well. Plus the stress of having to be cautious almost 100% of the time in and out of the hobby. Potential legal issues, family issues, safety issues.....it boggles the mind. That doesn't even take into account the possible emotional toll based on being with someone how it affects their relationships and how they deal with perceptions of them based on society norms. I would think you have to be a very strong woman to do this for a long period of time!!

Geez.....that's a little depressing. Be sure and thank a provider!! Hopefully for each the pros outway the cons. Just in my short time here I've met some wonderful classy ladies in person and through reading posts encountered some quality individuals both male and female on this site.

I appreciate all they do provide and hope all of them reach all the goals, whether its financial, educational, whatever.......they've earned it!!

Just me $.02.....

Gee, do you think the Statue of Liberty is a high enough pedestal for the ladies?

I think a little perspective is in order. Everyone in any job is going to have stress issues, relationship issues, family issues and possible safety issues depending on the job. Granted, most don't have legal issues to contend with.

It all comes down to money though. Many have jobs they loathe and which are physically and emotionally draining. They sure aren't making hundreds of dollars an hour though. I'm sorry but I'm just not going to spend too much time worrying about ladies who make their living having sex and earning that much money. I felt sorry for my Granddad who worked as a coal miner to support his family. At the end of his day, he could barely walk and worked under the most godawful conditions. He ended up coughing out his lungs by the time he was 45.

I see ladies occasionally and certainly pay their fee. If I'm willing to pay it, they're entitled to it but I do tend to roll my eyes when I hear how "hard" the life is.

[China Doll]

Originally Posted by janwalshs

I see ladies occasionally and certainly pay their fee. If I'm willing to pay it, they're entitled to it but I do tend to roll my eyes when I hear how "hard" the life is.

Try it.

[Capt. Lincoln F. Stern]

I look at this life like this: Its not for everyone, and certainly you cannot rely on it as a "set income" like a normal job that pays a specified salary per year.

There is possible travel involved since you can nurture markets in other cities, you pay your own expenses. There are risks involved (legal, safety and health). You cannot really put "escorting" down on a loan application for a house or car and the business tends to be cash only. Credit card acceptance has been mentioned in another forum so please see it for the pros and cons there.

Escorting as a job enhancement ( you have a day job that earns a wave that sustains you but there is not a lot of money left over for fun) so having 2-3 evening engagements to increase the savings account makes sense.

Take me for example, I work in the I.T. world, make a set rate per hour / year... but I do cash jobs "under the table" for "friends" who need I.T. work done, do not want to hire someone out of the Yellow Pages.

Often times I get side work because of who I know and price.

[Naomi4u]

Very well said China.

*Hugs* Spirit.

[incognito isis]

I'm sorry if I offend some, but it makes me laugh when an escort sais she likes her job! No, you like to make easy money. Nothing wrong with that. Before I started escorting I had a very high sex drive as well. I went online and searched adult NSA sites. If you truely love what you do, then why charge? You can go online and have NSA fun with plenty of guys. Don't tell me you do it for fun. That is a bunch of bologne! I'll admit right out, I do it for the easy money. Of course I'm under ingocnito but if I was not, I would lie and say: I do it because it's fun!! I understand the NEED to make the fellows feel you WANT to be with them. But please, honestly, I want to puke when I think about being with the clients. They are old, boring, nerdy, fat, geeky, smelly, awkward. To me, that is NOT fun.
But I do it because I like the easy money. It's all an illusion. Say what you want to keep the business coming. Make the guys think you like them. So to me one of the biggest challenges is clingy clients. Yes, it happens. Clients get clingy. But I've used my wisdom to take advantage of the crush. Before I would coddle the crush, I would handle the client with care. I guess because I wasn't jaded. But then I learned. If your too nice the clients will just take advantage of you. So now I take advantage when a client has a crush. For example, I will limit all contact with the clingy client. That way, he will want you more. No "hello" emails or cute, fun texts. Nothing. I make it clear, if you like me, then make an appointment. I feel sorry for their wives.

[Sweet N Little]

well someone sure has their panties in a wad
And everyone is entitled to their opinion however mine differs I got some id fuck for free
Sorry your having to deal with that. I actaully started out on sites because i do enjoy it but do to certain circumstances that happened in my life, i found a way to have my cake and eat it too.
Yum Yum

[Chica Chaser]

Wow, thats a self-alert if I ever saw one.

Welcome to ECCIE, Isis!

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by incognito isis

I'm sorry if I offend some, but it makes me laugh when an escort sais she likes her job! No, you like to make easy money. Nothing wrong with that. Before I started escorting I had a very high sex drive as well. I went online and searched adult NSA sites. If you truely love what you do, then why charge? You can go online and have NSA fun with plenty of guys. Don't tell me you do it for fun. That is a bunch of bologne! I'll admit right out, I do it for the easy money. Of course I'm under ingocnito but if I was not, I would lie and say: I do it because it's fun!! I understand the NEED to make the fellows feel you WANT to be with them. But please, honestly, I want to puke when I think about being with the clients. They are old, boring, nerdy, fat, geeky, smelly, awkward. To me, that is NOT fun.
But I do it because I like the easy money. It's all an illusion. Say what you want to keep the business coming. Make the guys think you like them. So to me one of the biggest challenges is clingy clients. Yes, it happens. Clients get clingy. But I've used my wisdom to take advantage of the crush. Before I would coddle the crush, I would handle the client with care. I guess because I wasn't jaded. But then I learned. If your too nice the clients will just take advantage of you. So now I take advantage when a client has a crush. For example, I will limit all contact with the clingy client. That way, he will want you more. No "hello" emails or cute, fun texts. Nothing. I make it clear, if you like me, then make an appointment. I feel sorry for their wives.

I like getting paid vs. being USED! Just because you like sex and some of the men you are with does not mean you would be a wanton slut for FREE. Add to that, ever try getting rid of one of these so called NSA types? They also tend not to use condoms and screw random women who don't either. NO thanks.

By the way, I know who you are GG...keep it coming lol.