I would love to know this.

[CryptKicker]

You guys do know that you perpetuate the perception of drama by continuing to post... Right?

[Guest030114]

Originally Posted by CryptKicker

You guys do know that you perpetuate the perception of drama by continuing to post... Right?

Yes.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Kaylen, it's comments like what you made below, and your creation of threADs like this that ask for opinions, and then you go off on those that disagree and challenge you that creates 90% of the drama you question. If you only want those that agree with you to respond, then don't ask the question in a public forum. Period.

From your multiple grandiose threADs about leaving town, begging for all the attention in those saying good bye to those saying thank god you are back, to your various family/health issues that have caused you to leave "for good", only to return a few days later like nothing happened... IT IS ALL DRAMA, dear. And you thrive on it. And, fortunate for you, you've got a group of White Knights (led by Pilsen and RtM) that support this childish behavior.

And the "attention whore" comment? You gave yourself that title in another drama threAD a few months ago.

I really don't think that any legitimate debate, which you have requested by opening this "woe is me" threAD, is going to hurt your business. Boys are still going to want to get their nut. So best wishes in your future, Kaylen.

So, I guess my final question (and then I promise to NEVER post a comment about you again because, frankly, MOST of us have grown EXTREMELY tired of you and your band of merry men and... well, what's the use) is...

Post #3 of this threAD

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

My job is to get my name out there to make money

Post #18 of this threAD

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

I think everyone knows me so no its not trying to get my name out there.

Which is it, Kaylen? You're confusing us.

I'm done.

[Johnny4455]

Roaming, Earlier in this thread you say: Don't believe everything you read; don't trust anything you hear.


But with regard to claims that she has bookings that are later cancelled because of false rumors you say...She does not have to give me proof. And, yes, I believe her and I trust her.

Cmon man... she has you conviced she is having cancellations because of "rumors of drama"? You take her word on that claim, you dont need proof, but her original post asks others to provide proof.

She started this post, and asked a question. The one provider that responded gave some fair observations, and she blasted her.

In my opinion you are in a position to help her, but you are not. Be honest with her about her role in perceptions of her, and what she can control.

[bigryan222]

Originally Posted by RoamingTheMidwest

It is up to her whether she wants to disclose the reasons for the ban, but it's not hiding - it's none of your, mine or anyone else's business. She did not ask for responses, she asked for someone to provide proof of this alleged "drama". Again, you decided to prolong the discussion and to try to get the last word in. And I did read all of this thread and the constructive posts were well written and on point. You seem to be the only one with a vendetta in this thread.

Well I provided two pieces of proof. And I will again state that she doesnt have to say what happened, but chances are she broke a big rule if it is exactly a month, no obvious posts that would get points, and with her reaction.

I will also say you are ignoring what happened in this thread if you say I'm on a vendetta. She asked for proof, but it is my opinion that it would have been an a-hole move to list a bunch of threads pointing to where she either played victim or escalated something by "defending" herself. It turns out kaylen decided to make this thread proof by taking my constructive comment and saying I attacked her.

Your posts in this thread are a sign you are not able to discuss this topic reasonably. Your comments in the review thread that probably started this thread were reasonable.

I guess my point is opening a thread asking for proof of drama is a sign of drama. Implying a reasonable post to kaylens question was an attack is a sign of drama. It is not the worst kind of drama that gets people in touble but it is certainly message board drama. My other point with the banning part of drama is just because kaylen chooses to hide it doesn't mean it isn't drama. It may be relatively innocent, it may have been her choosing to break the trust of the members. I don't know but it certainly implies drama. Members don't get banned for a month when all of their posts for the previous few days follow board guidelines. Kaylen asked for proof of her drama and that was the only reason I brought it up. It is rather ignorant to say I'm on a vendetta when I responded to kaylens request.

[Guest030114]

Originally Posted by bigryan222

My other point with the banning part of drama is just because kaylen chooses to hide it doesn't mean it isn't drama. It may be relatively innocent, it may have been her choosing to break the trust of the members. I don't know but it certainly implies drama. Members don't get banned for a month when all of their posts for the previous few days follow board guidelines. Kaylen asked for proof of her drama and that was the only reason I brought it up. It is rather ignorant to say I'm on a vendetta when I responded to kaylens request.

It doesn't imply any drama - you are inferring the drama because of some kind of disagreement or dislike of her. And, for some reason, you seem to cling to that as the only "drama" you infer like an eagle grasping a mouse in its talons. Let it go, man.

[Guest030114]

Originally Posted by Johnny4455

Cmon man... she has you conviced she is having cancellations because of "rumors of drama"? You take her word on that claim, you dont need proof, but her original post asks others to provide proof.

Yes, I am convinced. No, she doesn't need to provide me proof - her word to me has been sufficient to this point I see no reason to doubt her.

[Skaven69]

Originally Posted by RoamingTheMidwest

Yes, I am convinced. No, she doesn't need to provide me proof - her word to me has been sufficient to this point I see no reason to doubt her.

OK, seriously? Do you truly think multiple guys are scheduling appointments and then canceling because of "drama"?

If I'm want to avoid a provider because of drama, I just don't schedule with her. If I've scheduled with a provider and hear drama, I might cancel but my reason isn't going to be "drama". I'm fairly certain this applies to the majority of the guys on this board.

To stay on topic: I saw the op last night before there were any responses and I was really tempted to post a simple response:

[noleftturn]

Where is elum the threAD police on this one?

[Johnny4455]

Originally Posted by RoamingTheMidwest

Yes, I am convinced. No, she doesn't need to provide me proof - her word to me has been sufficient to this point I see no reason to doubt her.

Sticking up for a freind is great, but really.... she asks for proof, then you say she doesnt need to give you proof for a crazy claim that she has bookings, then they cancel because of rumors of drama. Or did she tell you she is not getting bookings and she thinks it is because of rumors of drama? Really roaming, you are smarter than that arent you.

We help our freinds talking straight with them. Do you really think she started this post because she is looking for "proof"?

When I read queens post, I thought it was frank, but sincere, and I thought she raised some very good points in response to the op. Do you think your freinds response to queen was appropriate.

[bigryan222]

Originally Posted by RoamingTheMidwest

It doesn't imply any drama - you are inferring the drama because of some kind of disagreement or dislike of her. And, for some reason, you seem to cling to that as the only "drama" you infer like an eagle grasping a mouse in its talons. Let it go, man.

You can ignore it all you want. This is a classic kaylen drama experience. She either starts or escalates something, she eventually tucks her tail and plays victim and let's her white knights clean up for her. The perception of drama did not just get made up. As I said before it is message board drama and not the kind that gets people in trouble. But you are truly ignorant if you believe that she doesn't help cause drama here.

[Mizzou82]

[Hi Kaylen

I have not seen you, I am not familiar with any of the threads you refer to, and from the reviews I have read, I would really like to see you. So I am going to be a gain for you by being on this site.

I have not read this entire thread, I stopped when I got to this quote from you

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

I don't mess with your job so don't mess with my job. Im sure you would be pissed about people messing with were you work.

That is drama sweetie, that will cost you clients. We don't want to even think about that a provider would even imagine "messing" with their job. Even though you did not mean it to say you would ever do that, just typing in the topic will cost you clients that want to stay very well UTR

I very much look forward to see you. The reviews containing descriptions of your oral skills sound too good not to experience.

[SexyKaylen]

I would never do something like that ever. I think that's very wrong.

Originally Posted by Mizzou82

[Hi Kaylen

I have not seen you, I am not familiar with any of the threads you refer to, and from the reviews I have read, I would really like to see you. So I am going to be a gain for you by being on this site.

I have not read this entire thread, I stopped when I got to this quote from you

I don't mess with your job so don't mess with my job. Im sure you would be pissed about people messing with were you work.

That is drama sweetie, that will cost you clients. We don't want to even think about that a provider would even imagine "messing" with their job. Even though you did not mean it to say you would ever do that, just typing in the topic will cost you clients that want to stay very well UTR

I very much look forward to see you. The reviews containing descriptions of your oral skills sound too good not to experience.[/QUOTE]

[BobsAlias]

Drama is like a vampire.

If ya don't invite it into your home, it will leave & suck the life outa someone else.

[dearhunter]

Are the KC whores needing an example of drama?