To Text or Not Text?

[hrlee]

Originally Posted by AlyssaWest

lol I’m basically ready…an outfit and some lipstick is not me saying a shower, let me get to my room, let me shave, wait let me put all my makeup on. Like be for real! And I give plenty of notice to wait. Maybe send a deposit and guarantee the girl you won’t flake! That’s an idea too! And repeatedly…come on babe it’s one person over and over saying it. Like come on!

My question is how does sending a deposit guarantee the girl won't flake? It doesn't.

I always text with an ETA and appreciate when the lady is on time. Waiting even 10 minutes in a parking lot seems like an eternity.

[LadyAnastasia]

Everyone is different but here's the type of communication that I expect on the day of our visit.

For this example let's say we have an 11:00 a.m. appointment. When I wake up around 7:00 a.m., I will send a message saying that I am excited to see them later.

I am immediately getting in the shower to start the process of getting ready. I know that shaving and my hair take up the majority of the time so I would like to get those out of the way.

I am at my incall an hour before my appointment to have the air on and put Waters in the fridge.

I expect myself to be ready 30 minutes before the visit to double check that my room is set, I have demonstrated this on Snapchat several times.

When it is 15 minutes till my gentleman's arrival, my phone is in my hand with our message open waiting to give him the room number because Opportunities will leave as fast as they arrived.

[ISpeakTruth]

Anastasia I hope one day I have the honor of a session with you. Your professionalism and organization are beyond impressive

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

Everyone is different but here's the type of communication that I expect on the day of our visit.

For this example let's say we have an 11:00 a.m. appointment. When I wake up around 7:00 a.m., I will send a message saying that I am excited to see them later.

I am immediately getting in the shower to start the process of getting ready. I know that shaving and my hair take up the majority of the time so I would like to get those out of the way.

I am at my incall an hour before my appointment to have the air on and put Waters in the fridge.

I expect myself to be ready 30 minutes before the visit to double check that my room is set, I have demonstrated this on Snapchat several times.

When it is 15 minutes till my gentleman's arrival, my phone is in my hand with our message open waiting to give him the room number because Opportunities will leave as fast as they arrived.

I agree ..
I'm up at 7am set my room up get in the shower do all my lady stuff evey day .
I text you saying can't wait/or have you text me to confirm 2 hr's before said appt ,then I ask you text with your ETA

Text when parked and then I give room number tell you to come up..
I will tell you how to get to my room...

or if houskeeping is out and to not knock ,I will be watching for you out the peep hole and open the door right away...

Im all dolled up and ready for a hug and a kiss..

I have you text let me know you are 15mins away , this is when I get dressed up for you !!

Only time you will have to wait if you show up to to early.. As we all have a way how we do things ..

COMMUNICATION On Both Party's IS KEY!!

[saustin]

@OP. What is your excuse for being late? No way I would wait more than ten minutes.

[Big b.o.b.1]

Originally Posted by saustin

@OP. What is your excuse for being late? No way I would wait more than ten minutes.

Agree. The last two ladies that posted on here have excellent TCB. The OP sounds like she’d be late to her own funeral, lol.

[ISpeakTruth]

She'd be late and apparently proud of it.

[643_DP]

Anastasia and Gina, I haven’t met either of y’all.. but I greatly appreciate y’all’s standards and the preparations yall take. That alone to someone like me shows and puts most men in this hobby as ease. The little things such as being ready at a snap, etc can be alittle tense at first but a huge relief once the door opens.

I wish more providers took “pride” and logic into account. Alittle extra time goes a long way.

[643_DP]

Originally Posted by Big b.o.b.1

The men are also taking the time to get ready and plan for traffic to be there on time or a few minutes early, so I expect the lady who doesn’t have to drive anywhere to quit playing on her phone and be ready. The one receiving the money should be ready on time for the ones spending the money.

And no, I’m not waiting 25 minutes for anybody, that’s disrespecting the value of my time. Some ladies value their time at $400/hour, so are they going to prorate that and give me back $166.66? Of course not.

This is a great point and I’ve pointed it out to other providers. They blow it off. I also ask and point out to providers when booking, what is process they expect if they come to me (deposit(?), once dropped off/parked do they expect room# instantly, etc)… I will then pass on outcall due to the deposit and go to them. I will just flip it on them asking for a deposit and most laugh. I say i will return the deposit upon arrival and in the room on top of the standard donation. No not many have taken me up on this because they are mostly like OP and know they will screw over the dude

[corona]

Hey Alyssa , good topic.
I'm an over-communicator. I'll text when I leave to head your way with an ETA. While on the way, I'm also sending updates. Typically, I'm expecting some sort of acknowledgement that she knows I'm on my way, and the appt time is still good.

I also like to send a 5 minute "hey, almost there will let you know when I'm parked" or something along those lines.

If I get no responses to any of my texts, I get that bad feeling I'm about to get ghosted.

[corona]

Originally Posted by ISpeakTruth

Anastasia I hope one day I have the honor of a session with you. Your professionalism and organization are beyond impressive

Her professionalism and organization are only exceeded by the passion BCD. ;-*

[Busty]

Y'all start deducting money for her being late & they will stop.
20 percent late fee deduction sounds reasonable....
Business is business & we all get fined
for errors, one way or another.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Originally Posted by 643_DP

Anastasia and Gina, I haven’t met either of y’all.. but I greatly appreciate y’all’s standards and the preparations yall take. That alone to someone like me shows and puts most men in this hobby as ease. The little things such as being ready at a snap, etc can be alittle tense at first but a huge relief once the door opens.

I wish more providers took “pride” and logic into account. Alittle extra time goes a long way.

Thank you I do take my Business Serious
I hate waiting just as much...

I make sure I keep 90m-2hr in between each appt to reshower , clean my room up,fresh sheets and towels,wash cloths,Trash taken out ..And me fresh as a dasiy and all dolled up.. Candles lit soft muisc in a nice hotel.

[sweet_k47]

And the original Op has now gone crickets

[BoneHome777]

Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

I agree ..
I'm up at 7am set my room up get in the shower do all my lady stuff evey day .
I text you saying can't wait/or have you text me to confirm 2 hr's before said appt ,then I ask you text with your ETA

Text when parked and then I give room number tell you to come up..
I will tell you how to get to my room...

or if houskeeping is out and to not knock ,I will be watching for you out the peep hole and open the door right away...

Im all dolled up and ready for a hug and a kiss..

I have you text let me know you are 15mins away , this is when I get dressed up for you !!

Only time you will have to wait if you show up to to early.. As we all have a way how we do things ..

COMMUNICATION On Both Party's IS KEY!!

A True Professional. Same applies in any industry or profession.