What is your opinion on ThreADs here is mine

[a10bomb]

So I have been kind of quiet on the whole whispers SL thing going on over the past month or so. I am just not one to start up shit or add fuel to fire type of guy. I am usually the guy who likes to comment on reviews or post something funny in the sand box or comment on someone else’s thread in the co-ed But with what happened to Jennifer Everlasts post getting deleted the other night I started to think maybe these guys (Whispers and SL)are right.

Now Hang on Whispers and SL before you start dick fiving each other or before your head (the one on your shoulders you sick fucks LOL!) gets so big that it can’t fit out the door I don’t completely agree with you I only partially agree with you and mainly just you whispers. And no SL I don’t want a t-shirt.

Sorry SL I don’t agree with your tantrum you threw about your thread getting moved from Co-Ed to the sandbox IMHO you sounded like a spoiled little kid whining to mommy:

“Mommy Mokoa moved my thread to the sandbox and now nobody wants to play with me WAAAAAAAAA!! Tell him to move it back WAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!”

Sorry about that but in the words of a few of my favorite providers, and with my birthday being the other day and me being another year older my don’t give a fuck meter is rising.

Now don’t get me wrong I have never met you SL and there are times you may bring up a valid point or you post something funny and I might get a laugh out of it but for the most part the way you taunt some of the women of this board about the threADs that they post is really uncalled for if you don’t like them then don’t read them. Do you have a right to respond to them since they are posted in the Co-ED? Absolutely. I just think that it is a shame that you let things like that bother you so. You know what hold on a minute let me come back to that topic.

As for your thread being moved from the coed to the sandbox. IMHO (for what it’s worth) Looking at what you posted and if you only read the title I would have originally classified it as a sandbox topic myself now the responses that you originally got kind of turned it into a coed topic because the thread started talking about certain providers being some of the local attractions so I would have probably have left it in the coed but does it really matter or are you crying about it because it got moved and for some reason you guys think that whatever your thread is about, or what you write is not worthy of being in the sandbox because you think that it won’t get the view counts you think it deserves. Kind of narcissistic if you ask me (just my opinion again).

OK now that I am done ranting about that

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So when I originally typed this it was a few days ago and at the time I was a little upset about what was going on with the now infamous thread getting deleted now that it is back with an explanation I do understand it I guess. I personally have nothing against Mokoa we have never really crossed paths and since I am usually not a shit starter do I think something is going on with him favoring certain providers? Well since I have no proof of anything funny going on I have only heard from other providers who shall remain nameless I will drop this subject and move on to real meat of this thread.

Now here is the thing I don’t agree with whispers, SL and a few others on which is the subject of ThreADs in coed. First off I do want to thank LeaMadison for the clarification on what the Mods guidelines for threADs and since no other mod has been willing to respond about it. Here is what was said

“In essence, it says that threADs are not against a specific rule. Of course if ones posts a threAD then they open themselves up for comments calling it such!


A thread becomes an ad when specific dates and/or services are offered and appointments are solicited. When that happens in a Co-ed forum or an ISO forum (or just about any forum that is not an AD forum) then it becomes a violation of Ad Posting policies. At that time staff can take action.”

Now with this being said I agree with I think it was Whispers who said maybe this should be added to the sticky in coed “The Final word on ThreADs”

But here is what is ticking me off and what I want to ask Whispers and SL why are ya'll so against ThreADs or the women posting them? How do they hurt you, the board or the coed section? I am not sure where it was but I remember reading somewhere that all you wanted was for the women of this board to post their ads and basically STFU especially if they were the ones who spoke out against you or the ones that didn’t agree with you. Well my response to that is this:

COED Discussions:
Hobby-related discussions belong here. Let's keep these discussions on-topic, thought-provoking, and more importantly...entertaining!

So by this definition as long as the threads/ ThreADs are hobby related (and since the hobby refers to hobbyists having sex with providers) or thought provoking and entertaining. Nowhere does it say who has to be entertained men or women nowhere does it say that only men can post these threads hint the title of the section of the board being Coed

So in my opinion if Luscious Leo wants to post pics or announce that she is going UTR/retiring to let her clients know what her plans are as long as she is not posting specific dates or services then let her maybe some of the hobbyists will not be able to see her before she goes UTR/retires and they would like to say goodbye to her. I know if all of a sudden she was gone and I didn’t get to say goodbye to her I would be greatly disappointed. Was it a ThreAD? Absolutely. Did it hurt anybody did you have to read it nope? Did I have to read it? No. Did I read and comment on it? Yes. Why because I was interested in what Luscious Leo had to say. And since she is planning on either leaving “the hobby or going UTR then that would be hobby related.

Now ya’ll (Whispers and SL) complain that a lot of the threads in the San Antonio Coed are look at me ThreADs put up by providers to drum up business. Here is what I say to that: So what if they are. They really don’t hurt anybody they get the guys of San Antonio excited they give an insight to what kind of personality the girls might have. Whispers and SL (and whoever else is on your side)maybe you don’t like to know about the women of this city maybe all you care about is getting your nut, maybe you don’t enjoy hanging out and talking to the women of San Antonio and just enjoying the first part of your session. Maybe all you care about is just getting in and out of your session with a hot provider who doesn’t have a brain in her head. But I for one have had many stimulating conversations with some of the women on this board and maybe that is why just about every single one of my sessions so far has been a great sexual experience because I knew about these girls’ personalities beforehand and was then able to translate that into my session with said lady.

So if GFX wants to know what kind of girls we want to see in San Antonio or what song they should use for the next video they shoot or want suggestions for a new providers name so be it. If Slave wants to tell us who she is now doubling with well let’s just say that’s gives me something to look forward to. Or if Hollywood101 wants to know who she should double with. Or when Tracy wants to know if when you cum if she should wear earplugs or how she is sore from her sex workouts. Or whatever else you guys consider ThreADs I say fuck yeah I will read it and I will enjoy it as will many other guys and gals on this site. And the ones that don’t want to read it or participate in or simply don’t give a fuck then they won’t.

So now the question becomes do you have the right to post your distaste about threADs. Absolutely you do. Some may not understand the reason. Some may think ya’ll are trolls who have to bad mouth everything (well maybe not everything maybe just the things that you don’t like or the people who don’t agree with you). I mean hell we just received more guidance from a mod that said ThreADs are ok and it is also ok that members can post their dislike for them but let’s look at this. I mean some may think ya’ll are just trying to start something just to stir the pot which is kind of the same thing the providers are doing when they are posting their ThreADs they are saying look at me aren’t they? And you two negatively commenting on threADs aren’t you saying hey look at me also. Kind of the same thing isn’t it?

So here is what I say to the members of this board I personally don’t mind what the ladies post whether it is what ya’ll call a ThreAD then so what. The great thing about this board is you only have to read what you want to read if you see a thread in the coed and it was started by someone that is known for posting ThreADs and you don’t like threADs than don’t read the damn thing. I personally will probably read it I may even comment on the topic if I have an opinion on it and if the topic is not to my liking, well than guess what I won’t continue to read it but if I do and if it leads me to go see that provider and I have a good time than it was a win win situation for both me and the provider.

Now I know this is long and a lot of people probably won’t read it so I will post a poll and since this is coed I will ask both men and women (women whether you post ThreADs or not) do you really care if a provider posts ThreADs? Do they really hurt anything?
I am more than willing to have civilized discussion on the topic.

My answer is no I actually don’t mind them I will read what I want to read and not read what I don’t want to read because what doesn’t interest me may interest someone else

Whispers and SL you wanted other people to speak up well here is my opinion take it for what you will.

And I say ladies if you want to post ThreADs than I say go for it post them all day if you like that will make coed very interesting just remember the rules no specific dates or services.

Again all of this is my opinion.
What is yours?

[newcumerz]

Damn! No offense, but when I started reading this I thought it was whispers writing all this. I swear that fucker could be a court reporter lol.

As to this thread, short story.....I like threADS.

[Guest101618]

ThreADs are cool. I've learned more about providers I don't want to see from threADs than most anything else. On the other hand, some of the personalities come through and I become interested in a few providers based on their threADs and other posts.

I get a bit of a laugh when someone makes a threAD notification post as though I hadn't figured that out. No shit, really? Ya think?

The problem is if a provider communicates in a thread it all the sudden becomes a threAD. I've seen that in Austin before. All is fine in the forum until a provider posts a response in a thread and all the sudden it becomes a threAD. A10bomb you are right, too often any provider participation is too much. I'm not sure why some of the guys can't hang with women posting in their threads but there you are. My opinion, and it won't even get you a cup of coffee.

[Samcro84]

my don’t give a fuck meter is rising.

+1

Lately I have not posted based on who has started Thread or in a lot of cases who adds to the Thread.

My opinion, and it won't even get you a cup of coffee.

+1

[Candi Staxx]

I find it kinda aggravating. My happy eccie community is definitely not the same. The wonderful community here actually had a small part with me even moving here, just topped off how great everything else was for me in SA. I use to love Eccie, here lately I dont waste as much time online at all. I always use it to check my references, thats it now. Its gone from amusing to aggravating in a week. Ive had the guys that everyone's having trouble with on ignore for weeks, I must say that fixed it quickly for me! However Sadly many of my actual friends are hiding now, lol no one even wants to play here! I love this site and all you guys and girls, but if no one's noticed Ive been slowing down and not contributing as much, and will continue to do so. I love what I do, but honestly all the drama here kinda just reminded me how fucking creepy this business is, time to remember what the heck I was even doing here and put my personal firewall back up pronto. I was going to the Christmas Social, but lately Im just trying to see if I can convince myself to even go. They have tons of parties everywhere this time of year, many great one linked to charities, trying to convince myself I should waste an hour or so of my life listening to people talk about a fucking forum being moved when I could gee I dont know, help hungry kids or something. Way too much going on in our world for me to waste anymore time or thought with this. Cant say Ive read any recent threads, only because there's so much crap in coed lately, would'nt know where to start. Im definitely not going anywere at all, I still enjoy posting and contributing with some things I read and feel passionate about and will always, however my days of actually surfing this site for fun, are long over and have been!

[Laz]

My opinion is probably already pretty well known but I will state it anyway. ThreADS do not bother me and are sometimes entertaining. However, the threAD should be an indirect ad not a blatant ad. Those that come across as an ad are usually ignored by me and from what I have seen by most members of the community.

[a10bomb]

Originally Posted by Candi Staxx

I find it kinda aggravating. My happy eccie community is definitely not the same. The wonderful community here actually had a small part with me even moving here, just topped off how great everything else was for me in SA. I use to love Eccie, here lately I dont waste as much time online at all. I always use it to check my references, thats it now. Its gone from amusing to aggravating in a week. Ive had the guys that everyone's having trouble with on ignore for weeks, I must say that fixed it quickly for me! However Sadly many of my actual friends are hiding now, lol no one even wants to play here! I love this site and all you guys and girls, but if no one's noticed Ive been slowing down and not contributing as much, and will continue to do so. I love what I do, but honestly all the drama here kinda just reminded me how fucking creepy this business is, time to remember what the heck I was even doing here and put my personal firewall back up pronto. I was going to the Christmas Social, but lately Im just trying to see if I can convince myself to even go. They have tons of parties everywhere this time of year, many great one linked to charities, trying to convince myself I should waste an hour or so of my life listening to people talk about a fucking forum being moved when I could gee I dont know, help hungry kids or something. Way too much going on in our world for me to waste anymore time or thought with this. Cant say Ive read any recent threads, only because there's so much crap in coed lately, would'nt know where to start. Im definitely not going anywere at all, I still enjoy posting and contributing with some things I read and feel passionate about and will always, however my days of actually surfing this site for fun, are long over and have been!

see that is what gets me mad even though I have never met candi but because of a few whiney assholes who aren't even from here come down here and bitch and moan about things that don't even affect them chase off the girls that I like to read about and that is why i say if you don't like our coed section here in San Antonio then don't read it.

And Candi hopefully you will come to said Christmas social as everyone there is pretty cool, the ones that usually cause all these problems are stuck behind their keyboards at least here in San Antonio anyways. And at every social I have been at nobody even really talks about the boards.

The reason I put up this thread was to bring it to light and from the early votes so far it seems like most don't care if ladies put up threADs and most even like them so please ladies don't let a few feeble minded individuals spoil your fun and I say post away with whatever is on your mind

[Laz]

Originally Posted by Candi Staxx

I find it kinda aggravating. My happy eccie community is definitely not the same. The wonderful community here actually had a small part with me even moving here, just topped off how great everything else was for me in SA. I use to love Eccie, here lately I dont waste as much time online at all. I always use it to check my references, thats it now. Its gone from amusing to aggravating in a week. Ive had the guys that everyone's having trouble with on ignore for weeks, I must say that fixed it quickly for me! However Sadly many of my actual friends are hiding now, lol no one even wants to play here! I love this site and all you guys and girls, but if no one's noticed Ive been slowing down and not contributing as much, and will continue to do so. I love what I do, but honestly all the drama here kinda just reminded me how fucking creepy this business is, time to remember what the heck I was even doing here and put my personal firewall back up pronto. I was going to the Christmas Social, but lately Im just trying to see if I can convince myself to even go. They have tons of parties everywhere this time of year, many great one linked to charities, trying to convince myself I should waste an hour or so of my life listening to people talk about a fucking forum being moved when I could gee I dont know, help hungry kids or something. Way too much going on in our world for me to waste anymore time or thought with this. Cant say Ive read any recent threads, only because there's so much crap in coed lately, would'nt know where to start. Im definitely not going anywere at all, I still enjoy posting and contributing with some things I read and feel passionate about and will always, however my days of actually surfing this site for fun, are long over and have been!

Unfortunately this is the result of uninhibited silly attacks that have occurred. SL is still making fun of her using the colored font.

While a couple of the challenges made at Mokoa's decisions have had merit, many of them have been silly or extremely rude and the valid questions could have been handled with respect.

Jennifer had a valid question on her thread being deleted and then she went crazy in her attacks against Mokoa and accusing Malaya for getting Mokoa to delete the thread. That behavior eliminated any respect I had for her position. I am glad the policy was clarified for all but am sorry her crap was tolerated. Unfortunately, that was exactly the kind of behavior whispers and SL encouraged. I guess my bottom line is I would rather have Mokoa with his flaws than the silly drama and attacks encouraged and created by Whispers and SL.

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Rover14

ThreADs are cool. I've learned more about providers I don't want to see from threADs than most anything else. On the other hand, some of the personalities come through and I become interested in a few providers based on their threADs and other posts.

I get a bit of a laugh when someone makes a threAD notification post as though I hadn't figured that out. No shit, really? Ya think?

The problem is if a provider communicates in a thread it all the sudden becomes a threAD. I've seen that in Austin before. All is fine in the forum until a provider posts a response in a thread and all the sudden it becomes a threAD. A10bomb you are right, too often any provider participation is too much. I'm not sure why some of the guys can't hang with women posting in their threads but there you are. My opinion, and it won't even get you a cup of coffee.

I'm continuously surprised and saddened by the animosity some (not most) of the men here show ladies who express their views or have an opinion. It's disappointing.

I've been insulted, threatened, questioned and told to leave because I don't belong on this board. I hate to admit it, but my gut reaction is "no wonder he has to pay for sex...what woman would sleep with him for free." And that thought, my own thought, upsets me because I truly believe this is a great fun hobby for many open minded people.

Just my .02...and I'm not even sure it's worth that...

xoxo,
LMx

I've also been called a "Grammar Nazi" but that might be true...

[Guest101114]

You're right a10bomb... No one does really speak of the boards at the socials I have been to... I didn't read your whole post (Too long and boring... No offense.) or Candi's (Pink font kills my eyes.) I tried to block a few peeps but it doesn't block them completely lol and certain ones have made some good points... Plus, I am a curious kitty.

I don't really see it as "aggravating" Candi... I guess if you let it get to you.

I voted "I don’t care either way" lol.

[CrimsonValkyrie]

I don't have a problem with threADS at all. I am here to find sexy providers to spend time with. If i made a real world friend (i haven't) that would be ok by me. All other drama going on here is just that: drama.

[Candi Staxx]

Thanks everyone for the kinds words! Does'nt bother me much, as I said having them on ignore has kept my eccie less dramatic. I was more speaking in general, the Trolls, how certain Gentlemen AND ladies react...it just kinda makes me go "eww". I feel bad for alotta people here who play into it and tolerate it SO much. Im not sure exactly what anyone meant (still have them on ignore..) but if they are STILL talking about my font, which I honestly could'nt believe but do find flattering, then good. Proves I know how to market myself well if men are STILL going on about me, that did make me smile a lttle BTW. Ive always been good about STAYING on mens minds even if I dont communicate with them. I leave permanent impressions on anyone I come in contact with- thats nothing to feel bad about at all ever!

Thank you Karla
Your so sweet! I am happy I can say Im more of a busy kitty
than a curious one, lol but enjoy reading! My RL is a bit too active at the moment to worry myself over things like that.

[Candi Staxx]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

I hate to admit it, but my gut reaction is "no wonder he has to pay for sex...what woman would sleep with him for free." And that thought, my own thought, upsets me because I truly believe this is a great fun hobby for many open minded people.

THAT, is exactly how reading much of the posts here recently made me think. Ive honestly never even thought like that ever, but here recently, THATS exactly how I felt, and I don't like to even feel that way.

[SofaKingFun]

Originally Posted by Candi Staxx

.... Ive always been good about STAYING on mens minds even if I dont communicate with them. I leave permanent impressions on anyone I come in contact with- thats nothing to feel bad about at all ever!

(sighs)
Candi, I'll admit it. What you said is true.
You have been in many of my inappropriate thoughts.

And if all of this ridicularity starts getting to you, do what I do,

Whenever I see their posts,
I simply direct Lucy's comments towards them
and all is right with the world again.


Get 'em Lucy!



It works for me...ijs.

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[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Candi Staxx

THAT, is exactly how reading much of the posts here recently made me think. Ive honestly never even thought like that ever, but here recently, THATS exactly how I felt, and I don't like to even feel that way.

Exactly, I feel horribly guilty even thinking it and worse typing it. Thank you so much for agreeing with me. I've almost sent a PM here or there to give a guy the heads up in case they don't honestly realize that's how it comes across...but I'm scared of the possible resulting attacks...

Thank you, Candi!

Xoxo,
LMx