Farewell to the Hobby

[Livonia]

After some recent events, I today have decided to bid farewell to the hobby. My two regular providers, Dreams and Sexy Brittney, have been nothing more than gracious.

As some here know, I have severe health issues. I live on a very fixed budget, which Dreams and Brit both accepted in seeing me. I also, as some may remember, am the victim of an extreme case of erectile dysfunction, that despite having medication still does not perform properly. This has caused some ladies to push me away at once. Dreams and Brit saw me in-spite of it.

Well Dreams has recently changed some of her menu, which were some of the limited activities I could perform . This is her right 100% and I do not knock her for that. Brittney this evening told me she didn't want to see me any longer. The reasons were the NC/NS review I posted of her in January and my limited income. This is her right as well 100% though I do find it interesting someone getting upset with me posting an honest review because she didn't call or show for a scheduled appointment I drove at length to get to. We did see each other at a later date and I posted a very favorable review of that.

I also continue to receive harassing and threatening emails from users here. This is due to a post nearly 2 years ago, when I expressed disappointment that a provider had changed a menu item. I have sent the information to the owners and moderators of this forums on numerous occasions and nothing is done to prevent it.

But due to these recent turn of events, and that most ladies do not want to bother with the E.D., I am leaving the hobby. I think Dreams and Brittney are two of the greatest providers this forums has. They are the best I have seen, to that there is no doubt. I bid no ill will towards anyone, and wish everyone here a success in all they do.

[Sweet N Little]

Wishing you all best Livonia and good luck

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Lily Blair

...Can we just skip to the part where you say you'll never post here again and go sulk in the corner until you have something else to whine about in a couple of months?

Be careful what you wish for, Lily.

Goodbye (again) Livonia! Best wishes.

[Guest032112]

Best of luck to ya, Liv!

I too have decided to leave the hobby, but before I do, I will see everyone I've ever seen or have thought about seeing at least once, maybe multiple times before leaving. Who'd like to be first?

or

I'm giving up Pinot Grigio.

or

Should I just have said . . .

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by arklookn4lovn

Best of luck to ya, Liv!

I too have decided to leave the hobby, but before I do, I will see everyone I've ever seen or have thought about seeing at least once, maybe multiple times before leaving. Who'd like to be first?

or

I'm giving up Pinot Grigio.

or

Should I just have said . . .

When exactly do you anticipate being done with all that, BB?



It's curious that everyone is leaving the hobby at the same time, isn't it? Why, just yesterday, I was combing through the employment ads looking for a real, full-time job. One where I would have to get up really, really early every morning. All this attention, free time and cash... Well, it's just getting old.

[TechOne]

It's good to have goals and aspirations!

[Guest032112]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

When exactly do you anticipate being done with all that, BB?



. . .

Ginger, if we are to use your "cow" analagy, the herd is large, much inspection has to be done and each branded with care. I suspect it will take me some time to accomplish . . .

Ohhhhh Liv. While we all know that Dreams and Brittany are very fine and accomodating providers, even if you're making your farewell again, it's pretty low class to call them out because they won't see you. I wouldn't expect either of them to comment or say anything although I suspect they both would like to.

And No, I won't be sending any nasty or hateful PM's (never have and never will). I'll just say what I think here and now! I'm going to call BS on the continued hate mail. The mods and owners of the board are pretty quick to assess points and shut that stuff down. I'm probably walking a fine line for speaking my mind.

In the meantime, I'm waiting til the "cows come home", Ginger.

[Livonia]

Actually Dreams never said she would not see me, this was my decision. Brittney did make that comment though due to the NC/NS posting and her wanting to change the income arrangements. As I said, that is her right 100%.

[Ginger Doll]

Reading between the lines, I come to the conclusion that the ladies were giving you a generous discount. Which only makes the scathing NC/NS review of Brittany even more of a slap in the face than it already was. I suspect that perhaps instead of Brittany being a flake, as you tried to portray, she was already trying to come up with a way to tell you that she no longer wished to offer you her company.

I can't think of any provider that would want the drama you bring their way via your public rants, especially when bending over backwards to accommodate you...the way that Brittany has obviously done.

I commend you, Miss Brittany. Not all money is good money...and I don't think anyone can blame you for not wanting to put up with that. I think you made the right decision.

[Lily Blair]

Really? Again with all this? You're not gaining sympathy. You're actually coming out of the closet as a horrible user. It was bad enough that you thought your problems were soooooooo much worse than everyone else's that you thought you should post them all on the hooker board for us all to see, but now you're actually admitting that you've had the audacity to ask for special treatment because of it??

You know, I changed my menu once and only once. It was because I hated spending time with the guy, absolutely could not stand him, and so I told him I didn't do a certain thing he'd come to me for. And then I "wasn't available" the next time he tried to schedule with me anyway.

Livonia, you're disgusting--absolutely 100% a scumbag. Any ounce of sympathy that ANYBODY has left for this guy is totally crazy. Thank GOD you're taking another break, and I for one hope for the sake of all the providers in Arkansas you really do quit.

Except for sassy. I think you two would make a lovely couple.

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Lily Blair

...Livonia, you're disgusting--absolutely 100% a scumbag...I for one hope for the sake of all the providers in Arkansas you really do quit.... Except for sassy. I think you two would make a lovely couple.

+ 1,000,000!

She herself has stated in her ads that "nothing is off limits..." Hmmm...I wonder if that covers bartering and habitual whining?

[Livonia]

Lily, I have never to my memory actually replied to your postings, but I will this time. I feel you are a worthless piece of shit on these forums. You attack with glee anyone you wish, harass and condemn. You smear your shit and stink of the same. You claim other providers are bad, you are no different from them. You are a virus that has corrupted her, with your hatred and vile.

I am good person. Some here actually KNOW my past. I am a decent person, not without faults certainly, but a decent good person, not like yourself. I actually care for people and I am attacked by you and your croonies for being the one thing I am...honest. I never sought you out, I have never posted negative to you, and all I get is your self rightous bullshit that you swim in.

Lily, I have never said this to anyone in my life, but may you burn in the deepest depth of hell, where you certainly belong. But I am sure that even the devil himself has a restraining order against you.

I feel incredibly free of stress now after years of wanting to do that.

[Guest032112]

Too bad Ray isn't still around with her whip and BDSM tendencies. I'm guessing she'd find the whining attractive.



It has been a little boring around here.

Lily, don't try to match wits here. It's not fair to fight with the unarmed.

[Livonia]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Reading between the lines, I come to the conclusion that the ladies were giving you a generous discount.

The price that both Brittney and Dreams offered me was the general standard of many reviews here, which is the same rate that you and Lily have received in the past according to reviews. Dreams had raised her rates, but kept me at grandfathered the rate we met at. Brittney was explained my situtation and took me at the same rate. i do not knock them wanting more money, and I have no ill feelings towards Brittney. Dreams has not stated she wasn't seeing me, I decided to end the hobby.

You also wondered if the NC/NS was a way of her trying to call of a working relationship? Maybe except for the fact that Brittney would send text messages, including that very week, asking me when I was coming to see her again. One does not send a text saying they wanted to see you then use a NC/NS that same week to try to end the contact. Also, she did see me a day or so after the NC/NS, hence the idea of her using it as a means of ending contact is not logical.

[Mr.Chan]

Well it is no surprise to me that ladies decline to see clients who have no money. After all, they do call it "the girlfriend experience."