Does someone's online persona reflect who they are in real life?

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Some people are just like their internet personas and others aren't.

However, I am nothing like my online persona. I'm extremely shy and demure in person....nice too .

I will admit that I say what I feel a lot more on here.
Hell it's the internet. Anyone can be superman/superwoman behind a keyboard .

But... I'll let the guys in NOLA be the judge of that!

so true, if I had not talked to you on the phone I would have thought you were the wicked witch j/k

You are truly a sweet ,nice & genuine person IMO

What you post sometimes...may make me scratch my head..but is none of my business..lol

[Valerie]

My personality is no different in "real life"... I'm just generally a cheeky cunt

[AdventureAdams]

Originally Posted by Valerie

My personality is no different in "real life"...

Ditto, what you read here is what you get with me no what if its virtual or real. I find my natural personality is charming enough for all my needs, no need to augment or exaggerate- that's too complicated and distracting from my regular hooker antics.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

so true, if I had not talked to you on the phone I would have thought you were the wicked witch j/k

You are truly a sweet ,nice & genuine person IMO

What you post sometimes.....Is none of my business..lol

It's all in good fun. You are the sweetest. Just like your online persona

This kinda makes me wonder though. This place is all about anonymity and discretion. Why would people care what one is really like? Some here have stalker tendencies...forrealz. The hobby should be about fucking not putting two and two together. Fuck Fuck and Fuck -- that's my motto from now on!

[john353]

Originally Posted by sixxbach

Nothing wrong with being polite and cordial. The grand majority of us work for a living and have to be PC. I am a very polite person but have even debated with a hobbyist and provider at a social on things I have posted. I stand behind what I post and will argue it anywhere but I don't have to tell you to fuck yourself in person. It's no secret in Austin how I feel about some hobby issues...

sixx

Absolutely correct! I agree...there is nothing wrong with being polite and cordial. So why not be polite and cordial until some asshole gives you a reason to tell them to go fuck themselves? Thats what I do!

I work around a bunch of redneck pricks all day but that doesn't mean I have to be one of the good ole boys...and I don't bring my work home with me and take it out on people here.

We agree on debating issues that we feel strongly about. I will stand behind my beliefs as well and have no problem telling that to anyone in person in a very direct manner.

I look at it like this...if me and another individual got into a heated flame war one day, and we see each other face to face the next...I'm not going to put on my happy face and think that individual isn't the total dickcheese that I really think they are. Thats two-faced and I don't live like that.

My whole point is...if your a polite and cordial person in real life, then why not portray that here?

[AdventureAdams]

Originally Posted by john353

Absolutely correct! I agree...there is nothing wrong with being polite and cordial. So why not be polite and cordial until some asshole gives you a reason to tell them to go fuck themselves? Thats what I do!

I look at it like this...if me and another individual got into a heated flame war one day, and we see each other face to face the next...I'm not going to put on my happy face and think that individual isn't the total dickcheese that I really think they are. Thats two-faced and I don't live like that.

My whole point is...if your a polite and cordial person in real life, then why not portray that here?

+1 You make a great point, but I guess to each their own.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by john353

My whole point is...if your a polite and cordial person in real life, then why not portray that here?

I'm a push over in the real world. I'm always helping people, being nice and trying to save the world. My personal life is probably as boring as it gets so being a bitch/the opposite of my real self on the internet where no one knows the REAL me is fun. Thank god for escorting - seriously. The internet brings out a lot of courage. You make a great point about if someone was a dick to you on the internet how talking to them and being all buddy buddy would be two faced - I agree. For someone like me, who is very non-confrontational in the real world, I would just ignore that person and go on about my way. Heck It's like these big time CEOs that are so masculine/and dominant in their work lives but yet go to a dominatrix and ask to be beat up. Same thing. Those that say there's no such thing have no clue what they're talking about.

Call it fake all you want but for some of us -- it's a form of therapy

Originally Posted by sixxbach

Nothing wrong with being polite and cordial. The grand majority of us work for a living and have to be PC. I am a very polite person but have even debated with a hobbyist and provider at a social on things I have posted. I stand behind what I post and will argue it anywhere but I don't have to tell you to fuck yourself in person. It's no secret in Austin how I feel about some hobby issues...

sixx

Yeah I'm not even gonna get on you and tell everyone what a big teddy bear you are! That could ruin your bad boy persona.... well.. oops hehe.

[Guest041413-2]

Skylar, here is my assessment of you...if you are this in RL, cool. Otherwise, you have 2 different personas:
1. You hold grudges (probably due to not being 'popular' growing up)
2. You are a super sweet soul and fuck sex, and all this BS, in RL you are one to be fortunate to have as a friend in RL
3. This (hobby) does not define you, yet is justifies you
4. You are growing 'ballz' now, that is why you post on the National forum
5. You do not consider yourself pretty, nor gorgeous but others see what you do not see (you are gorgeous by the way)
6. No matter what, you will not disrespect internet/eccie personas to benefit yourself but you haven't learned that confrontation is not disrespect
7. You don't feel you need validation, yet you lack the confidence to...(okay, whenever you get ready, just tell me to STFU)

Skylar IMHO you have 2 different personas, maybe 3. I do not care. I respect everyone for who they are.

I normally charge a fee for these assessments. If you disagree, who gives a shit. Now, did you or did you not agree to be my sexual 'sparing' partner for Shayla (prior posts which you read, but based on the above, did not know how to respond). I've got balls by the way!

[sixxbach]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

I'm a push over in the real world. I'm always helping people, being nice and trying to save the world. My personal life is probably as boring as it gets so being a bitch/the opposite of my real self on the internet where no one knows the REAL me is fun. Thank god for escorting - seriously. The internet brings out a lot of courage. You make a great point about if someone was a dick to you on the internet how talking to them and being all buddy buddy would be two faced - I agree. For someone like me, who is very non-confrontational in the real world, I would just ignore that person and go on about my way. Heck It's like these big time CEOs that are so masculine/and dominant in their work lives but yet go to a dominatrix and ask to be beat up. Same thing. Those that say there's no such thing have no clue what they're talking about.

Call it fake all you want but for some of us -- it's a form of therapy



Yeah I'm not even gonna get on you and tell everyone what a big teddy bear you are! That could ruin your bad boy persona.... well.. oops hehe.

[charlestudor2005]

My persona here is pretty true to form. I have to "put on a face" in RL, so it is personally very freeing to be the cynic, asshole and general sarcastic skeptic here.

Here, I can get pissed off easily, call fuckers out, take extremely unpopular positions without fear of anything other than getting pointed, banned or attacked by the community. Here, I can adopt any attitude I want on any given day and post in any way I want as long as I stay within the rules.

I'm going on 3 weeks without getting laid and my attitude is fast going downhill.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by sixxbach

Our secret is safe with me hehe.

[Shayla]

I think I'm nicer on the internet than I am in real life.
If someone pisses me off online - I don't care... I put little to no effort in retaliating. Basically because it has no affect on me personally so there's not much of a point. I can't really pretend I'm angry when I'm not. However, in "real life" if someone does/says something stupid I have no qualms calling them out on it. That being said, I don't go out of my way to get under people's skin. Most of the time...

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by Shayla

I don't go out of my way to get under people's skin.

There are guys, however, that would go out of their way to get under your skin. lol

[Katy Alexander]

I find the typical "I am not a bitch/ass hole in the real world I only play one online" to be a bit of a cop out because naturally we are all on our best behavior in our every day lives where there can be consequences to our actions both good, and bad.I guess it is easy for some to forget that real people do exist behind these online personas,and cruelty disguised as fun can not only harm the people it is directed at, but also shows very little true character in those who find it entertaining..

It has always been my belief that our actions say so much more about our true personality when we think no one is watching or keeping score than all the sweetness ever could when playing for an audience.

I am pretty new to this site.So far I have been doing more lurking than posting, but I look forward to getting more involved now that I have had the chance to get a better feel for the board

[pyramider]

Do not feel up the board too much, sexual harassment is a bitch.