Quote:
Originally Posted by redbeard087
I browse other forums like Chicago and KC to see if ladies will travel to the city, sometimes the response is positive, but when it's negative it's usually because they tried it once and had a bad experience, so yeah, it's hit or miss.
|
As a city/metro area, you don't want to get a reputation for being a place that goes all gaga when a provider posts to gauge interest in a visit, but then fails to pre-book when she actually announces a visit and dates. That frustrates ladies no end, and after one or two such incidents she'll probably write the area off for good (I know this from bitter experience; several ladies on my notional "bucket list" won't come anywhere near Memphis because of that
).
The only worse thing is to get a reputation has having a lot of guys who'll prebook and then cancel, or (heaven forfend!) NCNS.
Quote:
Originally Posted by redbeard087
I'd recommend advertising your visit maybe a week in advance. Nothing worse than seeing a visitor pop up for a short time that you'd LOVE to see, but you spent your hobby budget a couple days earlier because you had no clue they were coming.
|
In my experience, sadly, any amount of advance notice less than a full month may be insufficient. If I had a quarter for every time a lady I've lusted after announces a visit to my area after I've blown my hobby budget in the first few days of the month but before my next payday (once a month, last working day of the month), I would never worry about having enough money to see anyone I want.
Cheers,
bcg