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Old 09-18-2009, 03:46 PM   #1
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Hi,

A few months back I exchanged some heated debate on maintaining P411 reference status and NO I don't want to go there again.

My question is this: After this exchange it's kinda like I fell off the face of the earth. Not one message, email, contact of any kind.

Back to the question... Is there a place on P411 to blackball a client??
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Old 09-18-2009, 06:00 PM   #2
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Back to the question... Is there a place on P411 to blackball a client??
My understanding is that negative information about a client can be shared there. But Gina almost certainly would not put up with that for trivial things that a client did. If a lady tried to blackball Ed because she thought Ed was obnoxious in his posts here, for example, Gina probably would think that was ridiculous and wouldn't allow it.

Of course, there are places the ladies can place alerts on clients other than P411.

But even that normally wouldn't explain falling off the face of the earth. Ladies often don't initiate emails, PMs, or phone calls -- except sometimes with someone who is already a client. But if a guy contacts them first, most ladies will respond. (Although if the initial contact from the guy is a phone call, they may not call back if they can't do so immediately, because of fear that he might be, for example, around his wife and have trouble explaining a phone call from an escort. ) And unless it's something very serious, in today's business climate, the ladies probably won't ignore a prospective client just because another lady didn't like him. If he were violent or shorted the envelope, they'll probably avoid him like the plague, but they might not simply if he were a "tire-kicker"/"time-waster."

If you're emailing or PMing them, and they're not responding, that's very unusual. You might want to try contacting them again. If still no response after two or three attempts, you might ask around if they're on vacation or retired or known to be flakes who don't respond to inquiries.

If you haven't yet emailed or PMd them, though, most will be very reluctant to contact you first. A lot of guys react negatively to "cold calls," so the ladies don't want to make the first move, for fear of alienating the client base. And they may not want to waste time on a guy who wants to chat a lot but won't actually schedule a session.

Good luck.
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Oh, another thought. Even if you initiate contact by email/PM, some ladies may ignore it unless you clearly indicate an interest in scheduling an appointment and include the screening info they request in their ads or websites. Rightly or wrongly, some ladies see messages without that as indicating the guy just wants to chat but is not interested in actually booking a session. And, since this is how they earn a living, rightly or wrongly, some ladies don't want to waste time with someone who is unlikely to contribute to their income.

Not all ladies have that attitude, certainly, but some.
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Back to the question... Is there a place on P411 to blackball a client??
To my understanding there is not any mechanism in place for negative feedback or a blackballing on P411 other than emailing Gina.

Her philosophy is that P411 members are preferred clients. Those who show a pattern of misbehavior simply lose their membership and their money. Many ladies have asked for such a mechanism for P411 and I discussed it with Gina. That was about a year or so ago. It might have changed. It might be best to ask Gina to peek at this thread, but I am sure some of the ladies will chime in who actually use it on a daily basis.


The ladies do have several blacklists at their disposal such as nationalblacklist.com and others.
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They don't have anything set up on our accounts page.

If I have an issue with a P411 member...I would have to contact Gina directly. If I want to let local, or just specific ladies know.... then, I would have to contact them directly.

We are able to write ourselves notes on a client.. Good Bad or Indifferent. But, it can not be seen by other providers.

Sorry for your trouble. Maybe it's a fluke?

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Thank y'all for your responses!!
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We are able to write ourselves notes on a client.. Good Bad or Indifferent. But, it can not be seen by other providers. ~Kelly TNT
The guys have the same feature. It is actually pretty useful. For instance, I have made notes of those that will not or prefer not to see intact men or the morbidly hefty so that there is no embarrassing moment of surprise. I also note positive things that catch my interest, even if it is something like sense of humor or my kind of nipples. When you see the name it will show that you have made a note on the provider. Nice feature and it is not sitting on my PC waiting for discovery.
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