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sneaky88 · 08-01-2010, 06:25 PM

It just a curious thought because since some of those asain are so hot and I wonder if they accept going out without fee "outcall". It would be normal going out any fun places like a date, nothing serious. I would like to show off those people I got a fine asain lady.

canyonman · 08-01-2010, 06:43 PM

I highly doubt it. They don't have a social life outside of their own group of co workers. A few years back in Dallas I did have one amp lady give me her personal number, she was looking for a bf... didn't get into details though as I wasn't interested and never called.

pickupkid · 08-02-2010, 01:07 AM

It kind of like dating a provider:there is guilt and jealousy. "look where I met you""you're a john".And then then there is the sex...it is very complicated. The job are you going to lt her continue to work .It is difficult.

justlooking · 08-02-2010, 03:52 AM

You certainly can ask. However, it's really their acceptance of your offer on the terms you laid out that is the problem. If you Are a regular (to the extent you can be with the high turnover at these places) AND they really like you personally AND you pay for their time, then you may have a slim chance of a go at it. I will flat out say that going out for free for the purposes you listed will not happen. You will still have to compensate both the house and the girl in any case.

sneaky88 · 08-02-2010, 06:49 AM

you got some points. It just a interesting thought if that could work or not. It just like wanted to ask of them if she would like to go boating at the lake or whatever that is fun. I wouldn't plan to go in deeper relationship because of the way they work.

FootLong · 08-02-2010, 05:03 PM

It was explained to me recently that they have to spend their time in the AMP, and have no time of their own while in there, and if they 'skip out', they may not be asked to come back. I guess there are plenty of girls looking for such work.

That was just what one of the amp girls told me recently. Who knows, it could really be something 'worse'.

(And No, I wasn't asking anyone out on a 'date'...)

Guest031811 · 08-02-2010, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by sneaky88

It just a curious thought because since some of those asain are so hot and I wonder if they accept going out without fee "outcall". It would be normal going out any fun places like a date, nothing serious. I would like to show off those people I got a fine asain lady.

Very, very bad idea.

1. Its really great that you think she's hot. She probably thinks you're cute too. But when you ask her to "go out with you for free", in a sense you are telling her that she is not worth the X dollars you pay when you come see her.

2. When you say that you wouldn't take her "any place serious", but just want to "show her off" it sounds like you are seeing her as a "thing" instead of a person. Again, VERY insulting. If all you want is arm candy, then you need to pay her.

3. MANY of the guys who posted on this thread were CORRECT to tell you not to mix the hobby with your private life. It never ends well.

man-beast · 08-02-2010, 05:46 PM

Life is to short to worry about this...............Go for it but remember there could be that burn

later......................... ...............

pangzione · 08-02-2010, 07:16 PM

If you want to go out with one of the girls at the F/S amps then you can forget about getting a yes. Plus you would have to think about the 500 guys she had been sexual with......... All the massage amps work differently but I know that some of the girls will date after hours. If you are nice and respectful with them and are a regular that tips well then you may have a chance. Try to learn a little of their native language, just a couple of words will be an excellent ice breaker. Dinner and conversation is the norm when they go out. Do not expect too much but more may come with friendship.

bigmarv · 08-02-2010, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by pangzione

If you are nice and respectful with them and are a regular that tips well then you may have a chance. Try to learn a little of their native language, just a couple of words will be an excellent ice breaker. Dinner and conversation is the norm when they go out. Do not expect too much but more may come with friendship.

I agree. It's like going to a SC, if your a well known respectful regular to a dancer she might bring up the subject of OTC activities. The same thing can and does happen with AMPS. Good luck.

sadude · 08-03-2010, 12:02 AM

If you are lucky enough to convince her to go out with you, chances are it will be the worst relationship of your life. Most of these women are not relationship material, and even if they were, the circumstances under which you met would most likely hinder any possibility of success. Just read what BrittnayLennox said above...it really says it all.

"1. Its really great that you think she's hot. She probably thinks you're cute too. But when you ask her to "go out with you for free", in a sense you are telling her that she is not worth the X dollars you pay when you come see her. "

That's pretty much all they want you for...$$$. Don't let emotions get mixed up in what is merely a business transaction to them.

mfm6376 · 08-03-2010, 12:29 AM

To most providers...you are a wallet.

This is a game.

sneaky88 · 08-03-2010, 04:19 PM

I already knew that, like I say before, nothing serious. Just fun going out.

guest011413-2 · 08-03-2010, 06:16 PM

If it's just fun and hanging out...I'm sure you can ask and what's the worst that can happen? Her say NO? I have gone out to bars and the riverwalk to dinner with sweet gentlemen and all they gotta do is treat me like a lady. But then again, I don't have an SO. Or kids. If she tells you no it might not be bc she doesn't like YOU but she just may be already "going out" with someone and scared to get seen with someone else. Works both ways, the way I see it.

bigmarv · 08-03-2010, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by *Maribel*

If it's just fun and hanging out...I'm sure you can ask and what's the worst that can happen? Her say NO? I have gone out to bars and the riverwalk to dinner with sweet gentlemen and all they gotta do is treat me like a lady. But then again, I don't have an SO. Or kids. If she tells you no it might not be bc she doesn't like YOU but she just may be already "going out" with someone and scared to get seen with someone else. Works both ways, the way I see it.

I agree, it's not rocket science, just treat the lady with respect and enjoy your time together if she accepts your invitation.