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10-04-2013, 02:59 PM
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Priorities: What are yours?
As a client, what order do you think the following should be done in? As a provider, which do you think should be done 1st, 2nd, 3rd?
- SCREENING to make sure he'll pass
- SCHEDULING to see if you're even available the date/time he wants
- DETAILS to see if you're even compatible for a date
Which would you say should be done first? This assumes you're going to eventually do all of the above, but if you had to prioritize them and put them in order, which do you recommend or currently do 1st, 2nd, 3rd? And why?
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10-04-2013, 04:03 PM
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Join Date: Jun 17, 2011
Location: Kansas City area
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For me, it's Details, then Screening, and then Scheduling. This might sound odd but it's what works in my case. Details - this is where I make the decision on whom to see based off of physical attributes, sometimes personality, and usually reviews. Usually at this point I go ahead and start the screening process primarily because I won't be able to plan out a date much in advance. So if I am relatively sure I want to see someone, I'd like to get this part out of the way ahead of time. I don't like to waste a provider's time so if I have started the screening process, I am very sure I will make an attempt to see her. Last for me is scheduling. When I know I might be available, I make the contact to check availability and go from there.
My main issues stem from the fact that I rarely know in advance that I will have time to play, quality providers need to screen (and should, don't get me wrong), and that screening time can take longer than my window of opportunity.
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10-04-2013, 05:01 PM
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Join Date: Apr 22, 2009
Location: Somewhere East
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Details!
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Originally Posted by KCSmutMonkey
For me, it's Details, then Screening, and then Scheduling. This might sound odd but it's what works in my case. Details - this is where I make the decision on whom to see based off of physical attributes, sometimes personality, and usually reviews. Usually at this point I go ahead and start the screening process primarily because I won't be able to plan out a date much in advance. So if I am relatively sure I want to see someone, I'd like to get this part out of the way ahead of time. I don't like to waste a provider's time so if I have started the screening process, I am very sure I will make an attempt to see her. Last for me is scheduling. When I know I might be available, I make the contact to check availability and go from there.
My main issues stem from the fact that I rarely know in advance that I will have time to play, quality providers need to screen (and should, don't get me wrong), and that screening time can take longer than my window of opportunity.
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Details are the most important. Maintain lists of girls that one may want to see. I also keep lists of "No way". All of my lists are based on personality, or at least the personality impression from this board, and from what the girls say. It was the same when I wanted to date women in the regular world. Most were eliminated without asking them out to get to know them better.
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10-04-2013, 05:16 PM
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Since two of you have now listed details.....
Would you say you limit "details" to research and looking around to find what you're looking for? Or if you can't find it through research, do you ask the provider your specific questions? And if you are one who asks the provider if she can meet your specific needs, do you ask the questions before or after you've cleared her screening?
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10-04-2013, 08:40 PM
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Join Date: Jan 20, 2011
Location: kansas
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You can ask a provider questions?
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10-04-2013, 10:12 PM
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Join Date: Aug 7, 2010
Location: KC
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CIM...is there any other priority?
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10-05-2013, 05:56 AM
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Join Date: Apr 19, 2010
Location: bates co.
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Originally Posted by i'va biggen
You can ask a provider questions?
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Why yes ask away. the trick is getting a honest answer.
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10-05-2013, 06:57 AM
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Join Date: Jan 7, 2010
Location: Wichita
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Originally Posted by big country
Why yes ask away. the trick is getting a honest answer.
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Getting to know someone. I always try to PM or IM providers before I pull the trigger. Spending some time getting to know the basics to me is the most important.
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10-05-2013, 10:10 AM
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Hustla Extraodinaire
Join Date: Mar 21, 2010
Location: Kansas City, Mo
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I use a combination of online research and talks with the provider.
#1 Discretion / lack of drama
#2 Services offered
#3 Intelligence (usually determined by spelling and grammar)
#4 ROS info in reviews
#5 Price
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10-06-2013, 09:00 PM
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Hot, Smooth & Full-Bodied
User ID: 57609
Join Date: Dec 2, 2010
Location: D.C. based (but I get around)
Posts: 7,917
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How I feel most comfortable:
SCHEDULING
SCREENING
DETAILS
.....in that order.
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Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise
As a client, what order do you think the following should be done in? As a provider, which do you think should be done 1st, 2nd, 3rd?
- SCREENING to make sure he'll pass
- SCHEDULING to see if you're even available the date/time he wants
- DETAILS to see if you're even compatible for a date
Which would you say should be done first? This assumes you're going to eventually do all of the above, but if you had to prioritize them and put them in order, which do you recommend or currently do 1st, 2nd, 3rd? And why?
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10-06-2013, 09:26 PM
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Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA
How I feel most comfortable:
SCHEDULING
SCREENING
DETAILS
.....in that order.
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I am on the same page as you with your order. I like to first know scheduling, if you're looking for tomorrow or next month, that way I know how much time we have to figure out the rest. Then screening so to make me feel safe continuing our communications.
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10-06-2013, 09:42 PM
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User ID: 127696
Join Date: Mar 26, 2012
Location: Wichita, Ks
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I think its hilarious when everyone says they look at the boards for lack of drama first. Hahaha! If someone disagrees with someone on Eccie, its immediate drama.... If someone doesnt like someone they make snide remarks towards them and expect..... no drama? But put the drama on the shoulders of the reactor and hope everyone sees them as the cause of drama??? Nonono..... Most smart people can read right through that nonsense.
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10-06-2013, 09:44 PM
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Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA
How I feel most comfortable:
SCHEDULING
SCREENING
DETAILS
.....in that order.
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Same here girl!
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10-06-2013, 09:45 PM
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Let's have fake drama and maybe it will squash out the real drama!!! hahaha When friends appear as enemies and enemies get ignored.... What about that?
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10-06-2013, 09:55 PM
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Has anyone ever told you how smart and very sexy you are?... You make conversation on this board so so intriguing and fun girl!
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