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ForbiddenFriend1 · 06-04-2012, 01:21 PM

I know how quiet all you Philly guys are…but I need your thoughts and feedback so please take a moment and tell me your thoughts.

I’m reading the Fifty Shades of Grey triology and I can’t believe how turned on I am getting. (For those of you who don’t know…the book is about a dominant man who meets a girl and trains her to be submissive…or at least he tries).
I am starting to believe I may truly desire be a submissive – or at least test the waters and see if I like it.

With that being said, my question is – How do I begin cultivating such an arrangement? Are there any men out there who would like a submissive provider? I know there are plenty of dominant providers for the submissive man, but I never hear about submissive providers. Is it too dangerous for a provider to be submissive?

Please give me your feedback – I’m curious to know if this is something I should pursue as a provider or wait until I retire and pursue it in my personal life only.

awl4knot · 06-06-2012, 09:00 AM

Diana, read these instructions and follow them exactly. If you deviate in any way, you will be punished, do you understand?

Go to the "Another Realm" forum and research the subject of submissive providers. You must be thorough. If you have any questions, post them in that forum or speak to Elisabeth Whispers, the moderator. Tell her that Awl4knot ordered you to do so.

Also, read all of the reviews and postings of Monk Rasputin. It will be an advanced course in what can happen at the edge of the playground.

When you are done, contact me. I can tell you that for a start you will need black thigh highs and black pumps.

Do not tarry but be sure to follow my orders.

And tell me what you think about these little play things?

ForbiddenFriend1 · 06-06-2012, 01:15 PM

I will do as you say since I have no idea about the subjuect ..... but first I want to say ... OMG ... someone in the Philadelphia area knows what the letters on a keyboard are for .... it's amazing ... for a moment I thought I was put on this earth to explain what a keyboarsd is for ... LOL

awl4knot · 06-06-2012, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by ForbiddenFriend1

I will do as you say since I have no idea about the subjuect ..... but first I want to say ... OMG ... someone in the Philadelphia area knows what the letters on a keyboard are for .... it's amazing ... for a moment I thought I was put on this earth to explain what a keyboarsd is for ... LOL

Submissives can't be smartasses. Cut it out.

ForbiddenFriend1 · 06-06-2012, 01:34 PM

LOL

ForbiddenFriend1 · 06-06-2012, 01:35 PM

hmmmm does this constitute a spanking

Eli · 06-06-2012, 03:26 PM

Diane,

I'm in charge of spankings....

Eli

awl4knot · 06-06-2012, 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Eli

Diane,

I'm in charge of spankings....

Eli

Does that mean I'm left with restraints and light flogging? ~Gulp~

A4K

ForbiddenFriend1 · 06-06-2012, 04:52 PM

come on you guys....if i have to take control of who is in charge of what,,,,it will defeat the whole purpose......................
I did as you said A4not....all i found was men who were submissive...this is where my confusion is....why is this so...are there no women out there who like to be dominated?

PS...I like hearing you two fight about who is going to do what to me

Marcus Aurelius · 06-06-2012, 07:17 PM

awl4knot gave you great instructions.

In keeping with the theme he did not explain himself. Or offer to.

Since I am an observer at the moment I can say that he has your well being first as it should be. Then he wants you to have fun while you delve in.

Of course I will smack your bare behind as you make your way to "The Other Realm" room.

Eli · 06-07-2012, 05:59 AM

Now there 3 of us on the spanking. I think that constitutes a gang-spank...lol

Eli

ForbiddenFriend1 · 06-08-2012, 07:29 AM

ha ha ha .... no gang spanking or gang anything for that matter.........

A4K - I'm doing my homework and learning alot .... will post my feelings soon

awl4knot · 06-08-2012, 08:28 AM

Subs aren't permitted to have feelings. They just submit to their masters and do their bidding.

Eli · 06-08-2012, 09:44 PM

D,

There is nothing submissive in your response.....lol I know you well enough to know this might not be your bag....

Eli

ForbiddenFriend1 · 06-10-2012, 07:12 AM

Ok...I have done my homework and yes, the idea still fascinates me. I do find that light domination, bondage and discipline are extremely erotic. And your right Eli (as always), I probably could not be submissive outside of the bedroom. In the "real world" (for lack of a better term) I would need my man to take my opinions into consideration. But, I would also need that same man to be strong enough and dominant enough to put me in my place and not let me get away with any of my womenly shennanigans.
I also realized the potential dangers of delving into the dom/sub lifestyle via this arena. For me to be submissive, I would need to completely trust the person not to "realy" hurt me. And, as we all know, trust is not something that happens in a couple of hours, it is built over time.
Although I can't see myself being submissive as a provider, I can see myself pursueing the lifestyle when I retire and settle down with one partner.... However, the thought of you smacking my ass is giving me goose bumps all over................

P.S. I'm still curious to know if a dominant man can respect, cherish and adore the woman he dominates and must punish at times. Or, does he dominate the women out of hatred and disrespect.