On Cuckolding!

[incognito isis]

Interesting thread!

[IDLEhands]

cuckold has such a weird stigma for me,if you visit them forums a lot of the guys who are into cuckolding like to be treated poorly,the feeling of inadequacy is part of the fetish..most of them let their wives go on dates have sex then relive the experience when the wife tells them about it,some guys yes do infact watch and sometimes help prep the wife and bull..
these guys come across as weak and like to be treated bad..that is not me at all,but i do like to watch my wife have sex with other men from time to time,i have never joined in but i have taken pics and videos..we play there is no dating no bullshit like that,we pick a stranger from CL or meet a guy at a bar get into a conversation if he is down his job is to come home and dick down my wife,bust his nut and leave,then we tear at each other like a couple of rabid monkeys haha...i guess she would be referred to as a hot wife more then us having a cuckold relationship...

[CPT Savajo]

Thank you for the compliment Incognito Isis! I appreciate it very much so. I really didn't expect to see any more comments on the thread I started and figured it had drifted off into oblivion, just like the U.S. dollar has been doing for some time now.

If the woman in your photo is a look-a-like, your sexy!

[acp5762]

Originally Posted by IDLEhands

cuckold has such a weird stigma for me,if you visit them forums a lot of the guys who are into cuckolding like to be treated poorly,the feeling of inadequacy is part of the fetish..most of them let their wives go on dates have sex then relive the experience when the wife tells them about it,some guys yes do infact watch and sometimes help prep the wife and bull..
these guys come across as weak and like to be treated bad..that is not me at all,but i do like to watch my wife have sex with other men from time to time,i have never joined in but i have taken pics and videos..we play there is no dating no bullshit like that,we pick a stranger from CL or meet a guy at a bar get into a conversation if he is down his job is to come home and dick down my wife,bust his nut and leave,then we tear at each other like a couple of rabid monkeys haha...i guess she would be referred to as a hot wife more then us having a cuckold relationship...

No basically you're a Cuckhold.

[Guest020720]

Originally Posted by IDLEhands

..we play there is no dating no bullshit like that,we pick a stranger from CL or meet a guy at a bar get into a conversation if he is down his job is to come home and dick down my wife,bust his nut and leave,then we tear at each other like a couple of rabid monkeys haha...i guess she would be referred to as a hot wife more then us having a cuckold relationship...

1st I have to say, love to hear someone say the phrase "his job is to ...dick down my wife"

2ndly,

I'm a little confused as to who does what...or what the hobbiest would want.

I have had many requests over the years asking if I had an SO that they could watch fuck me...in varying fashions.
Sometimes the client would join in (straight play)....

I've also had a few couples ask me if I had a "hung black guy" that would come play with us - and if he would fuck the client's wife.

Considering the fact that my "bull" I guess....is usually going to be a civie...that knows what I do....they are usually worried about what the girl looks like...to make sure they can perform.

I think with that kept in mind - this is a totally doable situation!

[CPT Savajo]

Originally Posted by IDLEhands

cuckold has such a weird stigma for me,if you visit them forums a lot of the guys who are into cuckolding like to be treated poorly,the feeling of inadequacy is part of the fetish..most of them let their wives go on dates have sex then relive the experience when the wife tells them about it,some guys yes do infact watch and sometimes help prep the wife and bull..
these guys come across as weak and like to be treated bad..that is not me at all,but i do like to watch my wife have sex with other men from time to time,i have never joined in but i have taken pics and videos..we play there is no dating no bullshit like that,we pick a stranger from CL or meet a guy at a bar get into a conversation if he is down his job is to come home and dick down my wife,bust his nut and leave,then we tear at each other like a couple of rabid monkeys haha...i guess she would be referred to as a hot wife more then us having a cuckold relationship...

Yes Idlehands some guys do like to be humiliated where there's hardcore aspects of BDSM intertwined with the lifestyle such as enforced chastity, creampies, and so on. However, not every Cuckold relationship is like that where the guys are looked at as being weak in the wifes or girlfriends perspective, nor do they get treated like shit in all cases. There's no doubt there is a lot of stereotyping associated with the Cuckold lifestyle.

You seem like you fit the bill of a Cuckold. You've given your wife the "green light" to get dicked down by other men and I applaud the both of you that you are open-minded. Do you allow her to go on dates by herself? If you don't, who is to say that she isn't already doing it. I mean if she has an itch she just has to scratch or sees some dick she just has to have, there is nothing that is going to stand in her way of getting what she wants. If you do allow her to go on dates by herself, your a role model couple.

[CPT Savajo]

Tntangie, your first response is what I would love to tell my future wife or girlfriend. I admire the way you think!

[incognito isis]

My ex boyfriend was into rough sex. I hate rough sex or anything that hurts.

[IDLEhands]

Originally Posted by CPT Savajo

Yes Idlehands some guys do like to be humiliated where there's hardcore aspects of BDSM intertwined with the lifestyle such as enforced chastity, creampies, and so on. However, not every Cuckold relationship is like that where the guys are looked at as being weak in the wifes or girlfriends perspective, nor do they get treated like shit in all cases. There's no doubt there is a lot of stereotyping associated with the Cuckold lifestyle.

You seem like you fit the bill of a Cuckold. You've given your wife the "green light" to get dicked down by other men and I applaud the both of you that you are open-minded. Do you allow her to go on dates by herself? If you don't, who is to say that she isn't already doing it. I mean if she has an itch she just has to scratch or sees some dick she just has to have, there is nothing that is going to stand in her way of getting what she wants. If you do allow her to go on dates by herself, your a role model couple.

we did a lot of talking about this before we stepped into it,i know it sounds cliche but it has brought us closer together. it was such a big jump of faith and trust the first time we brought a stranger to bed with us. there is no dating,or private play time this is us sharing a experience not her stepping out.

we do talk about who ever is coming to play and she does ask my opinion on who she picks but ultimately she has the choice she is doing the deed and i do want her to enjoy herself notjust give me a show.ill read some of the emails they pass back and forth and ill give my opinion on their personality..i only said NO to one guy she picked and that was because he looked like me and i said if you want to fuck a big burly tattooed guy we can just play like we always do..

and as far as i know she has never done anything behind my back,we both had parents that cheated on their SO and agreed early on it was a deal breaker to cheat,plus i dont think she feels the need because if she gets that itch i cant scratch then we bring in a designated hitter and then ride the sexual high off of that till we feel the need to do it again..BUT i guess the diffrence is she also wants to see me with another girl and do a 3some and there is never any denial of my pleasure or needs.

there was a lot that turned me off about the cuckold websites some things i found exciting.but mostly i couldnt understand the denial of the husbands needs or wanted to be treated so badly..

but i have never thought of getting a profesional to come over and have another guy play with her infront of me,to me thats not cuckolding thats just getting a live sex show,right? there can not be the emotional aspect of it..


sorry to ramble on, i have never talked about this to anyone we live in a small town and i gained a reputation in my youth everyone would have something to say if they knew i let my wife fool around wile i watched...

[Guest020720]

Originally Posted by incognito isis

My ex boyfriend was into rough sex. I hate rough sex or anything that hurts.

How is this in reference to the topic at hand?


But since it's been brought up, I LOVE IT.


I mean, I guess sometimes a bull who is hung like a horse - might be a bit painfull when he goes balls deep at times (depending on the position)....but getting physical can be a LOT of fun. As long as you know BEFORE HAND where the absolute limit is, and you have a safe word that in no way can be mixed up or heard incorrectly during play.

I kinda like "fries" cuz who the hell is gonna ask for fries (supersize me please?) during a rowdy time.

I guess I might be a good watcher in some situations - cuz when I watch a porn that I find interesting, I always find myself saying, "Fuck that bitch up, right there....yeah, get it GET IT." So, maybe I'm thinking in too general of terms, but if I can enjoy watching a girl get it from a guy...on film...I think I could do the same in real life.

[CPT Savajo]

Originally Posted by IDLEhands

we did a lot of talking about this before we stepped into it,i know it sounds cliche but it has brought us closer together. it was such a big jump of faith and trust the first time we brought a stranger to bed with us. there is no dating,or private play time this is us sharing a experience not her stepping out.

we do talk about who ever is coming to play and she does ask my opinion on who she picks but ultimately she has the choice she is doing the deed and i do want her to enjoy herself notjust give me a show.ill read some of the emails they pass back and forth and ill give my opinion on their personality..i only said NO to one guy she picked and that was because he looked like me and i said if you want to fuck a big burly tattooed guy we can just play like we always do..

and as far as i know she has never done anything behind my back,we both had parents that cheated on their SO and agreed early on it was a deal breaker to cheat,plus i dont think she feels the need because if she gets that itch i cant scratch then we bring in a designated hitter and then ride the sexual high off of that till we feel the need to do it again..BUT i guess the diffrence is she also wants to see me with another girl and do a 3some and there is never any denial of my pleasure or needs.

there was a lot that turned me off about the cuckold websites some things i found exciting.but mostly i couldnt understand the denial of the husbands needs or wanted to be treated so badly..

but i have never thought of getting a profesional to come over and have another guy play with her infront of me,to me thats not cuckolding thats just getting a live sex show,right? there can not be the emotional aspect of it..


sorry to ramble on, i have never talked about this to anyone we live in a small town and i gained a reputation in my youth everyone would have something to say if they knew i let my wife fool around wile i watched...

Theres no doubt that there is trust between the two of you. As far as bringing in a professional goes, yeah if you brought in Ron Jeremy, Peter North, or Lexington Steele! They would qualify as professionals and I would still say that your wife is cuckolding you. But if it brings the two of you closer and makes the both of you happy, it's not a bad thing.

I cannot blame you for keeping it a secret in your home town, especially if you live in a small town. You've heard of the Salem Witch Hunt's haven't you? If word got out that you let your wife fool around while you watched I'm sure it would make you feel uncomfortable. It's better to keep things under a tight lid in these circumstances.

[this_side_up]

I have had one session with a couple that was reportedly a cuckhold couple, but it turned out that my part was to" pay for the room". And she gave me a lot of GFE play finishing with a bbbj...so no whining here.

I have been with two couples where this was really in play.
It redefined what I thought about Cuckholding.
One the hubby did not like to "do" anal with his wife, so I gladly took his place. She loved it, I was really into it because she knew what she was doing and liked it. And the hubby was there to watch and he was glad she was happy. All good.
Another couple I still see from time to time. In their relationship, he adores her, and wants to give her what she wants. She loves cock, and loves for her husband to screw her...but she really loves him to "give" her to someone....and so he will hold her legs up while you suck, chew, finger, thump, screw what ever orifice you want......she loves it, he likes her being happy, and once again, I grin big...lucky me.

It took some time for it not to be awkward and to get my head around their dynamic, But they love the lifestyle, and he acts a cheerleader for the chatting before the big event.

And then, he will jump in from time to time while I recuperate. Again, all good.
But the for pay scenario, from what I have seen, is pretty scammy.