Pain

[DallasRain]

Yep Naughty
Clothesline. Wooden spoons too!

[neighbordude]

How does someone tolerate pain?
I am trying to tolerate so I can get more than just a silly tap on the behind.
I watch videos with people really taking hard punishments, I know we are all different but I don't understand how they can take so much.
For those that have been able to get their limits tested, do you just let go and take it even though it hurts?
I seem to be squeamish when it comes to the receiving end of pain, but I LOVE watching spanking videos. I don't even watch porn, just the spankings.
I have really gotten into watching women punish men hard.

Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

So i have a guy who loves to be restrained a push the limit of pain. I want him to get the most pain i can without really hurting him.
Tried: small dildos
Hot wax. Flogging, cock and ball ring, nipple clamps...always fall off! Paddling...biting
I need ideas on what to try next. No blood or burning..lol. He doesnt want to be humiliated. I have an under mattress restraints. What next?!

[Jannisary]

Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

So i have a guy who loves to be restrained a push the limit of pain. I want him to get the most pain i can without really hurting him.
Tried: small dildos
Hot wax. Flogging, cock and ball ring, nipple clamps...always fall off! Paddling...biting
I need ideas on what to try next. No blood or burning..lol. He doesnt want to be humiliated. I have an under mattress restraints. What next?!

Are leaving marks on him a concern or not?

A flogger can be quite effective on delivering pain but it depends on the flogger and the person using it. The material, weight, length, force applied etc all come into play. You can practically wear your arm out using some light cheap floggers and not do much more than give a mild sensation to him. Whereas a heavy leather or silicone flogger just falling across his back without much force in your arm movement might bring a whole new world of hurt to him but it might leave some marks too.

Have you tried locking him up in chastity during the session? Something like the CB6000 locked on him will make an erection not impossible but definitely uncomfortable and bordering on painful. I was playing online with a MFC model and she had me take a Levitra before putting on my CB6000, that got to be painful. The other day I came across a website with electro stimulation ones with a sounding rod. Not sure I even want to imagine how that would feel.

The nipple clamps can be frustrating if they keep falling off. A cheap and readily available alternative is wooden clothespins. You can buy a pack of them for a few bucks and they do hurt. I didn't appreciate how much they hurt from the video clips I'd watched but when they got put on me, damn!

Ice play can be fun or alternating ice with wax play. You got be careful with frostbite but it does hurt pretty quick if you take some ice cubes and put them into a shallow plastic container or small bowl and then put the guy's balls in the ice.

One MFC model tortured me before by having me put toothpaste on my balls. It can give a moderate burning sensation. Then the relief from that was putting my balls in ice. The toothpaste can be irritating to the skin and leave it noticeable red so again if marks are an issue.

[badbottom]

Pain without marks is definitely doable, but to really push it you have to understand the bottom.

You can use irritants like icy hot, bengay, or the like on the naughty bits - be careful because a little goes a long way, and most of them last 20-30 minutes and once on you can't really get them off (pun intended).

More info here: https://www.theblackpomegranate.com/...chemical-play/

Electro as previously mentioned. You can pick up a TENS unit for cheap, or if you really want to go pro grab yourself an Erostek or for the true electric aficionado grab a Centipede - I really want to get my hands on one of those, the nerdy do-it-yourselfer in me loves it. Hopefully someone will figure out how to link it to VR and really kick it over the top.

If you are wanting pain without marks, impact play gets really tricky, but you can always soak a cotton towel and place it over the buttocks and then use a cane, that can prevent a lot of marking. But any time you do impact play and are wanting to avoid marks, it's probably best not to.

There's also pressure points, some of them can be very effective. This should get you started, or just grab any martial arts book on pressure points and that should give you some great ideas.

Anyways, hope this helps!

[jonboy52]

Originally Posted by melannie_star

I like to ride you backwards..
Vibe in one hand and your balls in the other!

You can read my tramp-stamp!

🔥🔥🔥😍😍😍 You could ride whatever you'd like

[SlowHand50]

Originally Posted by melannie_star

I like to ride you backwards..
Vibe in one hand and your balls in the other!

You can read my tramp-stamp!

That sounds just about perfect.

[Adventurous1]

If you want to ramp up some impact pain without leaving marks, the soles of the feet are very sensitive. I would not recommend a cane for a beginner. A very good tool is a the soft rubber type of ruler. Wooden, hard plastic and metal rulers do not give. They make flexible rubber rulers that work awesome for impact play. The ruler is wide enough to reduce risk of breaking/injuring a bone. You can give them quite a wack. Combine it with some other sensations ( wartenberg wheel, ice, etc.) and you can really have fun. Plus, have your sub on the bed, face down ass up, feet just hanging off the end of the bed and the ass and feet are both fair game. The ass will mark easier so be cautious. https://www.google.com/shopping/prod...E,gclsrc:aw.ds

[SweetSuzanna]

Marks are ok. Young single guy.
Whats an MFC model? I love the clothespin idea and balls in bowl of ice! Better blindfolded him for that one! He might run if you saw that coming LOL. I tried a chastity device from Cirilla's that was basic silicone. It just slipped off. We needed Lube to get it on and then when he would get hard it would slide off! I bought a flogger I think it's leather. I haven't hit as hard as I could yet. I think the big wooden paddle hurts bad! Where do I get a good chastity device not too expensive? Thanks for your great advice




QUOTE=Jannisary;1061929935]Are leaving marks on him a concern or not?

A flogger can be quite effective on delivering pain but it depends on the flogger and the person using it. The material, weight, length, force applied etc all come into play. You can practically wear your arm out using some light cheap floggers and not do much more than give a mild sensation to him. Whereas a heavy leather or silicone flogger just falling across his back without much force in your arm movement might bring a whole new world of hurt to him but it might leave some marks too.

Have you tried locking him up in chastity during the session? Something like the CB6000 locked on him will make an erection not impossible but definitely uncomfortable and bordering on painful. I was playing online with a MFC model and she had me take a Levitra before putting on my CB6000, that got to be painful. The other day I came across a website with electro stimulation ones with a sounding rod. Not sure I even want to imagine how that would feel.

The nipple clamps can be frustrating if they keep falling off. A cheap and readily available alternative is wooden clothespins. You can buy a pack of them for a few bucks and they do hurt. I didn't appreciate how much they hurt from the video clips I'd watched but when they got put on me, damn!

Ice play can be fun or alternating ice with wax play. You got be careful with frostbite but it does hurt pretty quick if you take some ice cubes and put them into a shallow plastic container or small bowl and then put the guy's balls in the ice.

One MFC model tortured me before by having me put toothpaste on my balls. It can give a moderate burning sensation. Then the relief from that was putting my balls in ice. The toothpaste can be irritating to the skin and leave it noticeable red so again if marks are an issue.[/QUOTE]

[SweetSuzanna]

Interesting! His feet are really ticklish so i dont know how this would go over! Lol. Tickle torture? I bet thats a thing!

Originally Posted by Adventurous1

If you want to ramp up some impact pain without leaving marks, the soles of the feet are very sensitive. I would not recommend a cane for a beginner. A very good tool is a the soft rubber type of ruler. Wooden, hard plastic and metal rulers do not give. They make flexible rubber rulers that work awesome for impact play. The ruler is wide enough to reduce risk of breaking/injuring a bone. You can give them quite a wack. Combine it with some other sensations ( wartenberg wheel, ice, etc.) and you can really have fun. Plus, have your sub on the bed, face down ass up, feet just hanging off the end of the bed and the ass and feet are both fair game. The ass will mark easier so be cautious. https://www.google.com/shopping/prod...E,gclsrc:aw.ds

[bw357]

Curious. Receiving.

Negative on restraints.

[deadeyedick]

If marks are ok then go to Home Depot and purchase a wooden dowel 3 feet long and the thickness of a pencil. I promise it produces more pain than anything else

[thegj]

Think contrasts- hot cold... quick- long waits...new locations...homemade toys. Go to a Home Depot and look for things you could use as a toy- make him make his own implement that you will use on him.

[DallasRain]

Sensory play is orgasmic

Warm oil. Warm candle wax....ice cubes..frozen chocolates..ice cream....etc

[thegj]

It’s good to have you under me again Dallas!

[DallasRain]

Wooohoo now yr in my sammich lol

I have found thst warm coconut oil is great to massage on the body before spanking or candlewaxing