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Zoey Zacquery · 01-07-2015, 11:55 AM

Hmm I enjoy both. They are actually very different activities although similarly categorized since they both involve ass-play. Prostate stimulation is deeply intense and psychological and usually results in very intense orgasms. Strap-on play is often more about the fantasy. I do have handheld steel toys that I prefer to use over my silicone toys that go into my strap-on, so slight preference for handheld play vs pegging at this time. I think if I could find a nice stainless steel dildo that I could warm up all nice before strapping it on, so I could be pegging with something much slipperier and warmer than silicone, I would be just as into that! It's nice to have the flexibility with the strap-on toys for rough fucking though. Overall I guess I just prefer the level of control I have with the handheld toys, some of which are designed for prostate stimulation and some of which are designed for stimulating the nerves around the anal opening, etc. It all really just depends on what someone is into. I definitely love blowing someone's mind with the prostate orgasm though, when we get there. Just a personal favorite.

Kinsey Pink · 01-07-2015, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by spicyzoey

Strap-on play is often more about the fantasy. I do have handheld steel toys that I prefer to use over my silicone toys that go into my strap-on, so slight preference for handheld play vs pegging at this time.

I agree with Zoey - I love the control of handheld toys. Strap-on play is about the fantasy, and I really love wearing a strap-on for that reason (and for getting blow jobs). But when it comes down to pure sensation, I imagine that the handheld toys are where its at.

ronrocket · 01-07-2015, 06:24 PM

Depends on the mood - and the skill of the provider.

DallasRain is on the TDL.

jimmylbob · 01-07-2015, 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by spicyzoey

Prostate stimulation is deeply intense and psychological and usually results in very intense orgasms. ... Overall I guess I just prefer the level of control I have with the handheld toys, some of which are designed for prostate stimulation and some of which are designed for stimulating the nerves around the anal opening, etc. ...I definitely love blowing someone's mind with the prostate orgasm though, when we get there. Just a personal favorite.

[que Elvis] "I can't help... falling in love again..." [Elvis has left the building]

Damn, Zoey! I don't think I will be in town when you are in Dallas... FUCK! Next tour, I suppose...

Cpalmson · 01-07-2015, 09:45 PM

Well, I'll let Dallas do both to me and then decide which I prefer

mojoman · 01-08-2015, 11:34 AM

Strap-ons are fine but I prefer fingers (and maybe fist depending on size of the woman's hand).

I had a BBBJ the other day where the provider had 2 or 3 fingers deep in my ass. I came like a volcano.

DallasRain · 01-08-2015, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Well, I'll let Dallas do both to me and then decide which I prefer

Hell yeaaa

RobinArdeur · 01-08-2015, 12:26 PM

This is a hard one - I think ultimately I prefer handheld toys (and my hands!) for prostate stimulation because it allows for more finesse, and prostate orgasms are really fantastic to bring someone to. As others have said above, it also feels more intimate - especially when I'm just using my hands.

On the other hand, I wear a cock well, and love the role reversal of strap on play. Something about a man on his knees... mmm.

Cayde1129 · 01-08-2015, 03:47 PM

I got a strapon to try out for pegging and now I want a girl to come play too...

ftango4 · 01-08-2015, 09:45 PM

I'll take whatever i can get as long it is from a hot ebony lady off the
Tollway with a nice incall, that has a table to GENTLY administer covered prostrate massage. BSB has perfected this on me previously.. Also as previously mentioned, not sure i can "take" the full strap on. Any Ebony strap on" lite" out there? If you are a really hot ebony fbsm with a table off the DNT and skinny fingers prostrate/fbsm....im youR boY TOY. LOL Pls be in touch ladies THX

papadee · 01-09-2015, 11:31 AM

I prefer being pegged over the massage. Part of it is the power play, but a lot of it id the intense physical pleasure I get from a good strap-on session. It leaves me weak with pleasure & turns my legs into jelly. While the prostate massage enhances the ejaculation, a good assfucking will shake you from head to toe. From what I'm reading in this thread, hand-held toys are preferable for providers, but I prefer feeling & seeing a woman thrust into me, being able to wrap my legs around her hips & help her thrust.

FoulRon · 01-09-2015, 01:52 PM

Well, here's the thing. I've had fingers, hand-held toys, plugs, vibrating and not, and they all have their good points. But still on my list are two things: fisting and pegging. I think the former is just a hesitancy issue, but the latter is at the top of my bucket list.
It's probably my #1 fantasy to be flat on my back with a hot girl pounding my ass while her titties swing around in front of my face, just begging me to suck and play with them.

DallasRain · 01-09-2015, 02:46 PM

MMMMMMMMMMM Papadee you are one of my FAVE toys!!!

quote--It's probably my #1 fantasy to be flat on my back with a hot girl pounding my ass while her titties swing around in front of my face, just begging me to suck and play with them.
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hell fuckin yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

papadee · 01-09-2015, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

MMMMMMMMMMM Papadee you are one of my FAVE toys!!!

quote--It's probably my #1 fantasy to be flat on my back with a hot girl pounding my ass while her titties swing around in front of my face, just begging me to suck and play with them.
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hell fuckin yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Well Dallas, we've done the PM, toys, & strap-on, and I've enjoyed them all.

@ Foul Ron... I also love being on my back. At first I tried it doggy, but I felt less connected to her. My fantasy was to feel her nipples/breasts scraping my back. But when I'm on my back and I can see her eyes, say dirty things to her, play with her body, have her stroke me, and just participate, it's a much bigger turn-on.

FoulRon · 01-10-2015, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

MMMMMMMMMMM Papadee you are one of my FAVE toys!!!

quote--It's probably my #1 fantasy to be flat on my back with a hot girl pounding my ass while her titties swing around in front of my face, just begging me to suck and play with them.
____________
hell fuckin yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

You know, if you make it down for the next group reunion, maybe we can sneak out behind silver wings and give it a try?