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Eccie Addict · 02-03-2011, 05:34 PM

Oh I know....

geecue · 02-03-2011, 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Valerie

I just be myself with clients...

I feel everyone is interesting and so very different, I like to explore, laugh, and just have fun...I always want to make sure my client is comfortable and at ease, I'm very professional,( but not in the robot sense), more like, I will always have a clean, upscale room, fresh towels, beverage of your choice, I enjoy getting to know a guy, and then everytime they visit with you it gets better and better, like old friends....I want the guy to leave with a massive smile on his face and complete satisfaction

+1 Love a lady with a good sense of humor, like you stated you will both have a good time then. Have had several reviews where the ladies are joking that I have a smile that is ear to ear. Yes it does get better and better which always keeps me coming back.

hobbyprojb · 02-03-2011, 06:11 PM

1. It starts when you talk to the provider on the phone. For starters, I like it when a provider is happy & welcomes my business. If she sounds snotty or stuck up, I usually will just pass and not go for the next step.

2. When I open the door to greet her, it's always nice to embrace with a hug or small kiss. If she just walks in with no eye contact or smile I know for sure that the date is going to go down hill.

3. I love conversation, but if we just have an hour we need to keep the introductions to a minumum of 20 mintues. After 20 minutes of conversation I'm usually ready for the action!

4. Has to give a Complete GFE experience in the bedroom. Greek is always a plus, but not really necessary in my book. I just want both of us to have a great time.

In closing, I always want a provider leaving me with the feeling that I must see her again. If she leaves me with this feeling I will be one of her regulars. But If I get the feeling like "damn, I can't believe I just spent x amount of dollars on this girl" then I will just move on to the next girl.

Always leave a good lasting impression on th guys Ladies.

Guest011914-1 · 02-03-2011, 06:12 PM

I am glad we think alike....

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Originally Posted by London Rayne

It starts with attitude, ability to express one's self in an appropriate but also relevant manner, sense of humor but not a push over, can debate without using the F bomb as every other word, the atmosphere she entertains in, prompt responses not only to clients but also references, an overall head for business and knowing your target market. The little extras that matter to most. Having his favorite beverage, wearing what he asks provided he did so before you packed to leave town lol, having a few items for him to clean up, candles, etc.

Too many people feel that because they are escorts that the business end is not significant...actually, that is the make or break detail for many guys willing to spend top dollar. In the end of course, making him feel as if there is no other place you would rather be is key. A good rule of thumb is quality not quantity. Too many are after the quick, cheap buck, and sacrifice the details that make for a memorable or return visit.

Guest011914-1 · 02-03-2011, 06:17 PM

so true it is very easy to see who really enjoys what she is doing and those who just go through the motions...and I think that is a major part of it enjoying what you do and who you are spending time with...

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Originally Posted by FatBastard

I think what separates providers and clients into their respective tiers is the amount of professionalism, courtesy and respect they exhibit along with their overall enthusiasm and genuine concern for mankind.

I think that the vast majority of ladies on this board, especially those who have responded so far to this thread, represent the top one tenth of one percent of their profession.

I think that the professionalism starts with the initial contact by the client. We have done our homework (or the better ones have) and we have chosen you. Now, we need to present ourselves in such a manner for you to choose us (as you do your homework). Common courtesy and respect are paramount. It is during this initial discourse that one can determine if chemistry or a connection exists. If it doesn't, I will not hesitate to proceed in another direction; likewise, my feelings will not be hurt if I am turned down either. I am looking for a mutually beneficial long term business relationship. I don't need nor want notches in my belt.

Guest011914-1 · 02-03-2011, 06:20 PM

very well put and covered all the bases...I knew you were one of my faves for a reason...wicked grin

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Here is my take on being a quality provider (at least for me).

Too many of us in this thing are jaded and it shows. There really is nothing like being a provider, granted I'm not one so I don't have first hand experience but I have been extremely close to some and have seen what the stage behind the curtain looks like. It isn't all roses. In this you can see the very worst of human nature, that goes for both the guys and ladies.

To be a quality provider you not only have to be a good business woman you also have to be....well.....everything. To some you are filling a hole in their life, others you are simply giving them what they don't get or not willing to put in the work to get what they want. Some just want someone to spend time with, some just need to feel wanted, even for just an hour. Not only do you have to be all these things, some are mothers, wives, SO's, family people, and friends. It's a lot for one person to be. We as males, for the most part, don't have to be all these things....ever. Most ladies do this cause it allows freedom to live your lives as you please. Some do this cause they feel they have no other options. Some do this as a means to move on to something better, faster.

Being a quality provider takes an enormous amount of balance to be able to be what the person that wants to be with you, wants you to be. A lot of gentlemen really don't know what they want and just want you to figure it out...lol. Funny, that is what most men say their wives tell them all the time...."you should just know" lol.

I for one have a tremendous amount of respect for those that can do this and still have a "tender" heart. I also have a tremendous amount of compassion for those who no longer have a "tender" heart. Even towards the ones I may not like.

I had an experience with someone I would not only consider a quality provider, but a quality human being. She gave me the impression that she genuinely wanted to spend the time we spent together with me and only me. She was a visiting provider and she made me feel as if she had only came here to see me and me alone. Naturally, that isn't true (oh how I wish it were...lol) but she sure made me feel like it.

Quality Human Being
Good Business Sense
Respect
Compassion
Passion for People
For the Most Part Enjoys What She Does
Ect ect..... All make for a quality provider in my eyes.

Guest011914-1 · 02-03-2011, 06:23 PM

my reply to you is the same as to London...Glad we think alike..especially beginning that trust and friendship aspect...

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Originally Posted by Valerie

I just be myself with clients...

I feel everyone is interesting and so very different, I like to explore, laugh, and just have fun...I always want to make sure my client is comfortable and at ease, I'm very professional,( but not in the robot sense), more like, I will always have a clean, upscale room, fresh towels, beverage of your choice, I enjoy getting to know a guy, and then everytime they visit with you it gets better and better, like old friends....I want the guy to leave with a massive smile on his face and complete satisfaction

Guest011914-1 · 02-03-2011, 06:25 PM

you know Dallas everyone and I think you rock and are awesome

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

Attitide/playfulness/open mindedness/connection

Nasalstrip · 02-03-2011, 06:43 PM

+1 and then some

topsgt38801 · 02-03-2011, 06:56 PM

Meeting with a little kiss and then enjoying an open, intelligent conversation with the provider before the chase begins to get relaxed and let each of us know enough about each other to make the session more enjoyable for both. You normally can tell within the first few minutes if the chemistry clicks. Sometimes the two personalities just are not compatable and it may be a get in get out session. Prefer not to have it that way, because I greatly enjoy the companionship and conversation as well as the extras. All of that goes back to you treating a man like a gentleman and the hobbyist treating the provider like a lady. Respect for both parties is key.

Nasalstrip · 02-03-2011, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

so true it is very easy to see who really enjoys what she is doing and those who just go through the motions...and I think that is a major part of it enjoying what you do and who you are spending time with...

I have only been in the hobby for about 18 months. With few exceptions all of the women I have met have been attractive and skillful. There have been , however, only a few that I have seen the second time or more. Those women are the ones that Riley describes in her post. Moreover, the ladies I see again have wonderful yet undefinable qualities. I know what it is for me when I experience it but I cannot always explain it.

Ed Highlight · 02-03-2011, 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

Attitide/playfulness/open mindedness/connection

I have to wanna see you again and again..you have to wanna see me because you wanna see ME...I have to wanna please you like you wanna please me....I wanna be able to enjoy you just as much with your clothes on...you have to wanna enjoy me even when I don't have my wallet in hand...and we both have to wanna return to our lives until we wanna see each other next time.....

wildwooly1 · 02-03-2011, 09:48 PM

To me its the connection you make with each other ..some call it the GFE but i prefer to just call it the FE where they make you feel like you are their friend and hopefully you will become a friend if thats possible.
You learn about each other and what each person likes and what makes a fun experience and you both have mutual respect for each other and just enjoy the company of each other.
We all know what it is ..but its the good providers that make it feel like a friend experience and its not fake and they actually enjoy your company and the smart client tries to treat the lady the same way to where its a mutual experience for both.

bestoralntexas · 02-03-2011, 10:34 PM

IMHO, & may not mean jack, but a quality provider is someone who respects what she does; and it reflects in how she does it. Someone who whole heartedly loves what she does, and puts that into why she does it.
We won't please everyone, but we can try.

Guest011914-1 · 02-03-2011, 11:42 PM

so very very true...

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Originally Posted by topsgt38801

Meeting with a little kiss and then enjoying an open, intelligent conversation with the provider before the chase begins to get relaxed and let each of us know enough about each other to make the session more enjoyable for both. You normally can tell within the first few minutes if the chemistry clicks. Sometimes the two personalities just are not compatable and it may be a get in get out session. Prefer not to have it that way, because I greatly enjoy the companionship and conversation as well as the extras. All of that goes back to you treating a man like a gentleman and the hobbyist treating the provider like a lady. Respect for both parties is key.