How much does texting affect the experience?

[Foodie1]

Ego? LMFAO sorry this isn't about ego. This is about good customer service. I have only ever seen 2 girls regularly because I'm picky. To Ms. V I'm sure I never said that she responded promptly because she doesn't. Days later, she might respond with her 1 word text which only was a response to 1 question and missed 2 others. That to me is not good customer service. But hey guys can spend money how they want. They can put up with bad TCB all they want.I just want AVERAGE customer service if I'm going to be a regular. Of course she's all butthurt. I wonder what she's like when she gets feedback and suggestions on areas of improvement in the real world. Also I'm not really sure that I'm not talking with a booker.

[Foodie1]

So Miss V. Like I had said, I dropped the only tattoo artist that I had ever used and he is really good due to bad communication. Was I trying to get my ego stroked from him too? Shit I guess I need to come out of the closet?!

[Bigbigbear3]

This is exactly why I am PM only. The few times I’ve used my number(and won’t anymore) is on texts girls always respond with “babe”, “sweetie” or whatever they use. I can’t stand that. Business only on text!

[Foodie1]

I'm not a fan of pet names either because we all know it's just part of their hustle unless they're from the south and that's just how they talk. It doesn't bother me though just like waiting a few days for a response doesn't. What bothers me is waiting that long for a cold one or two word response when I'm shelling out > 500 weekly on the girl. According to certain providers though, that's called having an ego.

[Slave Guinevere]

Originally Posted by Miss Valentina

I find it rather odd that a provider responding in timely and affirmative to your inquiry to her availability is considered, in your words "bad customer service". A timely and affirmative response to an inquiry is GREAT customer service, anything extra is just a cherry. Sorry you didn't get your cherry Foodie, I'm certain the cherry is not worth this silly foot-stomping and petulance.

You met a provider, she pleased you enough you booked twice in one week and gave you a service that earned that repeat business. What a blessing, what a joy. Read enough of the failures and disasters that can happen here and she seems the very definition of a delightful and professional provider.

Yet you come to a public board to shame her, even anonymously, because she didn't respond to your texts in a manner you expected her to, even though she wasn't aware you expected that in the first place. Seems unnecessarily punishing no?

Additionally, you seem to be getting easily frustrated, to the point of a bit of rudeness, over responses sent by providers who are responding in good faith. The irony.

I'm sorry to say, you have exposed yourself a bit here, and some of us are noticing. Noticing that perhaps this has little to do with a terse reply on her part, and rather more a neediness, a desire for ego-stroking or, most likely, a sense of entitlement with her since, you know, you did book twice in one week. I could practically see the dripping of entitlement when you outlined that fact.

So ladies, provide this man a great service, not once, but twice in one week but god forbid you answer his text in a timely way with a professionally short answer and suddenly you have provided "horrible TCB" again, in his words. Not only will you get that sting, it's going to earn an entire a co-ed thread about it. Excessive to the point of being not only off-putting but just a touch...scary.

You literally cannot win with some chaps. It's sad when someone would mar what was, by his own account, a wonderful service with a great provider for something so completely facile and vacuous.

Sigh.

Miss V...

I could not agree more...

Personally, I provide my gentlemen with an assistant that is available to facilitate communicate between the hours of 9 am until 9 PM... Now, I have quite a few regulars that would prefer to contact me directly... However, they all know that I am extremely introverted and they know that I have a tendency to disappear for a few days when I'm not in the mood to CHAT in any manner... I'm an artist by nature and training and there are days where I am just all "peopled" out..

Now, I may lose business because of this but I'm ok with that because I do provide an assistant who is available 12 hours a day 7 days a week..

Everyone's temperament and nature can vary a great deal... Getting this butthurt over a lack of text between one particular provider is a tad bit whiny... Move on...leave this young lady alone. There are several beautiful ladies in this thread who are happy to entertain your needs both physically and with the written word...

Your introverted slave,

Guinevere

[Slave Guinevere]

Originally Posted by Foodie1

I'm not a fan of pet names either because we all know it's just part of their hustle unless they're from the south and that's just how they talk. It doesn't bother me though just like waiting a few days for a response doesn't. What bothers me is waiting that long for a cold one or two word response when I'm shelling out > 500 weekly on the girl. According to certain providers though, that's called having an ego.

Sweetheart..

If I were this provider I would have added you to my DNS LIST from the moment you created this thread. It is passive aggressive and hints at an unhealthy obsession with the young lady.

You have no idea where that young lady has been in life or what has happened to her in the past... Trying to see her 3 times in 10 days and then creating a whiny thread about her lack of response to you is not creating a favorable image of you to her or to other providers on this board.

I've worked with several artists in the past... Hair... Tattoos... Painters. Etc... And for whatever reason... The good ones sometimes pull back and disappear when they are emotionally drained.

From all of your posts she is clearly not a good match for you because she is not willing to entertain you via text when you do not have an apt... So, just let it go and find a provider that is more suited for your personality.

And for the love of God just LET IT GO... LOL

Your southern slave,

Guinevere

[Tan Khan]

I've tried to offer constructive criticism in the past, only to backfire. Not that pointing out poor customer service in a thread is constructive, it's more venting. Many girls in this profession lack those basic skills of promoting themselves and retaining paying customers.

Some of us guys, may become unwanted, at any point, for a number of reasons. In those cases, a girl usually just ghost you. If she replies, she is willing to see you again, but can't or won't provide acceptable communication.

We get to decide who we see but, if we expect too much, we are left with slim pickings

[BudgetGuy]

Originally Posted by Foodie1

Ego? LMFAO sorry this isn't about ego. This is about good customer service. I have only ever seen 2 girls regularly because I'm picky. To Ms. V I'm sure I never said that she responded promptly because she doesn't. Days later, she might respond with her 1 word text which only was a response to 1 question and missed 2 others. That to me is not good customer service. But hey guys can spend money how they want. They can put up with bad TCB all they want.I just want AVERAGE customer service if I'm going to be a regular. Of course she's all butthurt. I wonder what she's like when she gets feedback and suggestions on areas of improvement in the real world. Also I'm not really sure that I'm not talking with a booker.

Dude these are escorts. This ain’t Christian Mingle or eHarmony. You should do your research and only ask three things. Where, When and How Much?

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Foodie1

So let's say you meet a provider that you really like and one of the reasons that you like her is that she's really bubbly. However in text, she's really short and cold. 1 or 2 word responses. The texts are not out of line or excessive. They're just to schedule the next session. Does this ruin the experience for you?

It doesn't for me but I consider myself well adjusted and know that it is a business transaction. Everything leading up to the moment we meet in person is relevant only to getting to the place at the right time. Efficiency in communication is acceptable.

maybe you are having a problem detaching after a session and looking for more leading up to the next one.

Accept you are a trick and that it's simply about your money and you will be able to accept the in between times.

With that in mind though..... Once you ARE there at the right place and time it should be about the experience and NOT about business any further. She can pretend you matter for that hour and be as bubbly as you like.

[bbjunkies]

Foodie1, if you can get your point across in one sentence instead of two, use one. Keep your text short and precise. Also keep it light and playful. Try to keep the seriousness out of text if you can. Better to tell her in person.

Remember, women are addicted to good emotions. When your texts make her feel good, she will likely want more of you.

[JalapenoPopper]

Send her a pic of your dick next time....