Question about an offer that was made to me???

[!VI!]

i put it here because it seemed a bit more high classed...

so i have a client i have seen for months, he knows about some of my big hobby goals.... specifically my dream car the dodge challenger.


Three days ago he offered me a very interesting proposal, he would get me a 2014 dodge challenger, and i would see him on request for 8 months excluding drill dates and female issues. To me that seems like a hell of an offer.

I am really considering it because it love this car he's a nice guy and i feel it would balance out greatly. i do feel as tho it is a bit one sided for me. So... can have opinions or others who have experienced this?

Should i take the offer or just continue it the way we are now?

[DMike]

you't cant make a $600 payment per month? by your reviews probably not

[!VI!]

Originally Posted by DMike

you't cant make a $600 payment per month? by your reviews probably not

gotta admit,



so you should read the post before you type. if you read you can make educated comments that fit

[ElisabethWhispers]

I think that the real key towards having a good barter type of arrangement is just communication and figuring out what both parties will do if something goes South with your relationship.

I think that it's pretty awesome, and certainly authentic, to try to figure out every contingency just in case.

I don't see where you should feel awkward accepting such an opportunity, especially if it's something that you've wanted for a long time. Consider yourself fortunate and say yes!

Of course you deserve such a treat! (So do I! If anyone is reading this ... hint!)

So smile and say yes. If your "come to Jesus" conversation doesn't work out to each other's satisfaction, well you tried and it was an exciting thing to contemplate.

And if it doesn't work out, then something else might.

I'm always ready to give something a try, if offered.

Good luck with it.

Sincerely,
Elisabeth

[NTXReggie]

Despite all of your past that hopefully is in the past, you are an adorable and sexy gal. I can see where some guy with the means would make you this offer.

BUT, contingency must be in place in case things go south--as much for your protection as his. Just doing the logical math, assuming he is not going all out on a $50K SRT model, a nicely decked out version can be had for $30-35K. Using the $30K number divided by 8 months is $3750 a month. At $250 an hour (your posted rate), he should be expecting 15 hours of play each month to break even. If he is a savvy businessman, he should be expecting 30-40 hours of play--discount for buying in bulk, right?

With all that you have on your schedule, does that seem doable? If so, hell fucking yes you should go for it--especially if he is someone you enjoy spending time with, car or no car. But the title of the car is the big concern. That will have to be structured so that neither of you get screwed. Not my area of expertise but I do not think the DMV has a title category "in his name until she fucks me for eight months and then it is in her name!' LOL That and insurance will be the key things to negotiate.

Oh and drill dates I get but female issues? Never known that stopping a horny guy from wanting a piece of that ass--unless it is the wife and especially if it is pre-paid!!!

Furthermore, I have many suggestions for the personalized plates on this vehicle: HUMPED 4, PAY 4 LAY, DRIVEN, 8 MO TANG are just a few!

Good luck...hope it works out!

[JohnnyCap]

What are drill dates?

I say don't do it. According to the math above, you or he are going to get sick as hell of each other well before 8 months is up, and adversity shall ensue. Your nice guy is not going to remain so in your eyes and that is all that will happen in the best case. You should be able to buy your own car; including the satisfaction of real ownership from real work, through the disciplined mastery of your trade. Which does make post #2 relevant. Good luck.

[NTXReggie]

I must add that "on request" is probably too open ended. Maybe using math similar to what I provided, you can agree on X number of one hour sessions (coupon book maybe) over a set amount of time. Say 30 a month for 8 months for a total of 240 hours--or whatever you guys agree upon.

Then he could use those as he wished, upon agreement with you--i.e. multiple hours, overnights, you bring a willing and acceptable friend for a threesome, he gives a couple to golfing buddies for their birthday, uses some to pay gambling debts or the guy who tends his lawn...the possibilities are limitless.

"On request" to me could mean you are basically living at his place for 8 months and he and only he is giving you the high hard one.

I do give credence to Johnny's thoughts on one of you getting sick of each other. Maybe you two should consider a lease instead!

More always comes to the surface with more people thinking about things, which is why you tossed this out there for consideration in the first place right?

[!VI!]

i will take all that into consideration, thank you

[Zhivago52]

Just make sure you can afford the insurance and upkeep, and most importantly, make sure you end up with clean title.

[JohnnyCap]

What is a drill date? I admit it, I'm fucking dumb. I googled drill dates including the word whore (I beg your pardon) and slang and get nothing that stands out. I get the concept of drilling her, not Body Double style, but I don't see why a quick drilling would be excluded.

[GypsyHeart]

Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

What is a drill date? I admit it, I'm fucking dumb. I googled drill dates including the word whore (I beg your pardon) and slang and get nothing that stands out. I get the concept of drilling her, not Body Double style, but I don't see why a quick drilling would be excluded.

Not outing at all but when I hear drill dates I think military exercise common with the guard.

To the issue at hand: There are so many variables here. To the guy of why can't she afford $600/month? Maybe her credit isn't as good as yours. So I could see where this golden carrot would be tempting. Everyone has spoken truths. He may not be such a nice guy after 8 months or even at the beginning. Then the title issue. We don't want to read about another Mercianna situation.

Game plan: Set the parameters for how long and how often every month. Make sure it is a prebook or at minimum a 2 hour notice for same day. Look out for a pissy attitude if you are already booked. That is where the nice guy will leave. As far as the title, both names on the title, period. If it is just his name, he can yank it out from under you at any time.

[Old-T]

Communication is vital--before anything starts.

I will assume for a moment that both of you are dealing in good faith. That still does not address making sure there is a common understanding. Too often these kinds of agreements go wrong because each person had a different understanding of the terms.

On your side, it is pretty well defined--the car. And as some have said, with clean title.

The part that would concern me is the open-ended "on demand". What does that mean? From either side I would want some discussion, not necessarily exact numbers/times/etc., but at least some parameters. Does "on demand" to him mean a day's notice or 10 minutes? Is he thinning a few times a day or a couple hours a week?

I have had roughly similar situations, always with someone I knew well, and all different.

Good luck.

[atlcomedy]

The reason I'm on this board is because I don't want to fuck the SAME PERSON 30 times a month...

[JustCause]

Originally Posted by atlcomedy

The reason I'm on this board is because I don't want to fuck the SAME PERSON 30 times a month...

Tru dat.

[Gotyour6]

Never ends up good.
normally for the guy.