Time Wasters - Any of the ladies willing to tackle the subject openly?

[gooose]

Originally Posted by Whispers

Did you miss the part about "entertainment"?

Seeing some of the wusses get thrown under the bus has a bit of entertainment value!

You have my pity for getting entertainment out other peoples misfortune even if it is well deserved.

The only thing this thread does is feed your ego which is probably already bigger than your girth.

[sms918]

sorry not a provider, just a hobbyist viewpiont

yes, this thread will be for entertainment value.


Not all providers have access or want access to power room to post or read about this or other problems.

They can use alerts or coed, but usually more trouble than it's worth.


More than a few hobbyists that attend socials in sa and austin do not write many or any reviews, but see providers utr. Some have lots of ok's on p411 and no reviews here, just post.

As a provider, you probably want refs current as well verifiable, as a hobbyist I care more that their verified than current.


I don't talk very much at socials, but do see some that do. I would think most providers that aren't new can tell if a hobbyist is just talking or not, and some people are just very social.

As for the stalkers and obsessives, that would creep me out. Showing up unannounced and texting 1000 times are not good signs. pm's and texts are ok, but 1 or 2 to say great time or can I see you.

Both sides should be heard, and keep the name calling to a minimum.

[JSmith2010]

WK's gotta keep their blades sharp I guess.

[Eva Damita]

The time wasters that make my skin crawl are the "supposed" guys that are interested - sending pm's with time suggestions, and never adhere to them, for a matter of months. Basically, the entire group that needs to read this: "Serious Inquiries Only" . Admiration and interest is fine, hell, it's GREAT, but false impressions and appointments are not, so much.

[Novatx]

Originally Posted by sms918

Not all providers have access or want access to power room to post or read about this or other problems.

They can use alerts or coed, but usually more trouble than it's worth.

I don't know which providers you are referring to but actually we have 2 private sections that I'm aware of. The powder room and the info share. Once verified provider status is in we automatically have access to the info share section. The powder room has certain requirements.

I don't know where you get this idea that some providers don't care to "read about this or that problems", in fact, the info share has a lot of useful info that most of us appreciate! Sure we can use the alert or coed but sometimes we/they won't for reasons like being judged or safety purposes. There's also some of us that won't post alerts in info share cause sometimes it's not as private as we hope but that doesn't mean info isn't shared privately amongst each other or in other forums.

So yeah, this delusion of yours that providers just naive and stand around twiddling their thumbs waiting for a pm, ignoring all "problems" is completely backwards. We in fact like to read and know what's going on and we are concerned for our safety

[Netx9]

Originally Posted by Novatx

I don't know which providers you are referring to but actually we have 2 private sections that I'm aware of. The powder room and the info share. Once verified provider status is in we automatically have access to the info share section. The powder room has certain requirements.

I don't know where you get this idea that some providers don't care to "read about this or that problems", in fact, the info share has a lot of useful info that most of us appreciate! Sure we can use the alert or coed but sometimes we/they won't for reasons like being judged or safety purposes. There's also some of us that won't post alerts in info share cause sometimes it's not as private as we hope but that doesn't mean info isn't shared privately amongst each other or in other forums.

So yeah, this delusion of yours that providers just naive and stand around twiddling their thumbs waiting for a pm, ignoring all "problems" is completely backwards. We in fact like to read and know what's going on and we are concerned for our safety

You just made sms's point... Saying you don't always use powder room/info share because it's not as private as you hope and may not post in alert or coed so as not to be judged or for safety reasons. I know other providers who feel the same and use other means of sharing information.... He didn't suggest anyone twiddle thumbs in ignorant bliss, just that some feel as you do about eccie options. He simply suggested not all have access (like your note that they have certain rqts) and not all want access and those are both true statements.

You're both essentially saying the same things... However you choose to screen and share info is entirely up to you and many do these things differently for whatever their own reasons.

As for time wasters who just want attention or get creepy in how they pursue it, they ruin it for the rest of us who are legitimately interested in appointments and i can't imagine how much crap you lovely ladies have to put up with to separate the legit contacts from the creeps. Again, sites like p411 and date check have generally proven to be more reliable for me in getting replies from providers for screening and appointments.

[mayorcastro]

How about we play fair here and call out the habitual NCNSers? Or does no one want to hurt a girl's feelings?

[sms918]

sorry, if post seemed to imply naive or non-intelligent providers. Just going by what some providers have said. power room, yes but info share has requirements. Also not all providers are techies, same way all hobbyists are not techies either.

Not all providers or hobbyists are same or do same things.

was simply opinion of why providers might want to post on this thread

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by mayorcastro

How about we play fair here and call out the habitual NCNSers? Or does no one want to hurt a girl's feelings?

You mean like a provider who refuses to talk on the phone but will text you countless times while you're driving to meet her but then she loses track of you? Good idea but you bet your ass you better stay on topic.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by mayorcastro

How about we play fair here and call out the habitual NCNSers? Or does no one want to hurt a girl's feelings?

Truthfully that happens quite a bit.... But one of the things you see when it does is that other ladies will get involved at times in chastising the lady that is the subject.

Start a thread if you like.

This one is about the guys that have no life and subject the ladies to nonstop attention trying to get theirs.

[mayorcastro]

Originally Posted by Whispers

This one is about the guys that have no life and subject the ladies to nonstop attention trying to get theirs.

I gotcha

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by mayorcastro

I gotcha

Kinda enlightening finding out some board warrior that champions a ladies cause is seen as a wuss by the ladies for his overall attitudes displayed off the board....

[Guest021414]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Post less, screw more. Hummmm I'm thinking....

Lol good one SL

[SofaKingFun]

Originally Posted by Whispers

Kinda enlightening finding out some board warrior that champions a ladies cause is seen as a wuss by the ladies for his overall attitudes displayed off the board....

Is that not EXACTLY what you are doing here?

You claim entertainment. Bulkshit. You're meddling in the gal's business.

Your hypocrisy knows no bounds, does it?
TFF!

Originally Posted by Whispers

It's her fucking business to defend. When someone disses Sears to you jump to their defense as well?

Leave the ladies business to them and quit prancing around for a pat on the head....

#areyoufuckingkiddingme#hypocr ites#talkingoutoftheirass#potm eetkettle#windbag#exemptfromhi sowncriticisms#Lmmfbo#stfu

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[Whispers]

Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

Is that not EXACTLY what you are doing here?

You claim entertainment. Bulkshit. You're meddling in the gal's business.

Your hypocrisy knows no bounds, does it?
TFF!


#areyoufuckingkiddingme#hypocr ites#talkingoutoftheirass#potm eetkettle#windbag#exemptfromhi sowncriticisms#Lmmfbo#stfu

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Not medling in anyting.... Lookig for some fun stuff on some of the wusses....

Did this thread hit too close to home SFK?