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Originally Posted by budman33
OK fine I'll name names, well one at least.
YOU Whispers.
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Thank-YOU!
Someone able to man-up... I give a hell of a lot more respect to anyone that does!
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Originally Posted by budman33
I only speak for myself but please do not infer from my generous donations or attendance at the Christmas party as evidence of your self worth on these boards.
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Believe me BuddyMan... Can I call you BuddyMan? I feel we are all snugly now after meeting you a few times and having drinks and conversation.... And some of the guys I respect and hang out the most are on board adversaries!.... Believe me... I do not validate my self worth to these boards by anyone's attendance at the parties....
I do feel my life enriched by having associates that put aside differences to come together and work towards a common goal....
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seriously. Is this why you chose the day after the party to start this up?
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I didn't choose to start this.... Please read the Original Post.... This is a response to comments made in another thread by another member..... It happens to be a subject I really dislike hearing come up over and over and over.... and I truly am keeping my nice boy hat on.. Santa doesn't come for 2 more weeks!
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Originally Posted by budman33
My god man, learn some humility, get a clue, buy a vowel.
You bring extraordinary value to a minority of hobbiests. I don't want to fuck girls younger than my kids like you do, I don't really like stripper drama like you feast from. I do not want to sponsor a girl for 1200 a month to receive x overnights and x number of sessions FYI but thanks for asking.
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Thanks for the summary of most of the areas that interest me... But I also intend to see two different FSBM ladies as well as 2 providers I met as a result of the most recent party planning in the coming weeks. I spend time and money in the same way you and others do but simply can't talk about that without those ladies getting lambasted by their peers and clients! Maybe 2012 will be different....
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Sorry for the rant, but you posted this thread because you know damn well the OP meant you, and you just wanted to be YOU. No one else's opinion matters, it's all the World according to Whispers.
You need a reality show. I don't have dish network so I won't get to watch it.
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I did assume that he was referring to me....
Put on an unemotional and strictly analytical hat..... Look at the quoted remarks and ask yourself if this is something I REALLY started....
In my opinion I was called out.... And I'm responding in as factual as well as unemotional manner as possible....
People have been whining for almost 2 years now about me and a few others running off some of the old guard....
Well... Thanks... If they REALLY think it was my doing I will say thanks for the props.... They give one or a few of us a tremendous amount of power I guess.....
Because ECCIE Austin Forums are far more informative and cover far more areas than was previously allowed....
They needed to go IF they were a part of the problems ASPD had, in that information was stifled, new providers were held back, sections of the board outside of Indies were restricted and lots of factual information was made to disappear in favor of those that wanted it gone..... reviews were edited or vanished.... etc...etc...etc...
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The problem I see with the board is this:
provider ads and reviews are very personal as they need to be. advertisement of services and reviews of said services from the perspective of the client.
Then we get to co-ed and sandbox where some very interesting and compelling topics get brought up. Inevitably the discourse starts with things that make you.. well think. But then they get personal. Instead of attacking the opinion you disagree with, there is a huge tendency to attack the poster.
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Herein lies where the battles get lost by one side....
I agree.. attack the opinion not the person.....
This is why so many can't hang with me and a few others in debates on a subject....... They lack the ability to keep it from getting personal......I stay within the guidelines and accumulate very few warnings or points.... Yes, I am smart enough to see when they show me what their "buttons" are and push those "buttons" at times but I do it in a manner that is within the guidelines of the board..... I tear apart the logic behind their positions with facts and examples and they lose it.... then it all degrades.....
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if your a female poster that uses this site for revenue, then it becomes a very negative experience where your business can be impacted because you have an opinion.
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A very valid point lost on a lot of women...
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as a male poster that uses this site to get laid, props to the web masters by the way, then at worst we may get screened differently based on our views.
I think we should all be able to express our opinion without attacking the person behind those opinions. I am guilty of attacking Whispers, Sixxbach, Booth, and Wylde.
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I can understand attacking Wyldeman!
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Sorry. I absolutely do not agree with your mindsets but that doesn't give me the right to make personal verbal attacks so I will stop.
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naw,,,, You enjoy it to much..... One really good thing about a good debate...... Lots of people reading learn from it....
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Every time I meet one of you in person while I may not like you, I respect your fucked up opinions. get near one of my daughters though.... |
No worries here mate.....
