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Old 05-15-2019, 07:37 PM   #16
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having an auto text response helps a lot. Sending to the website, twitter and other links.
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Old 05-17-2019, 12:42 PM   #17
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I will not answer to

Hey

Are u Available?

Are u free?

Jessica ?

Is this Jessica.

My ad say to PM ref FIRST then text with
Username
Time U would like
And how long

SO for faster booking text
I pm u
Blueboi7812
3pm
HR

I will then check my pm if you pm I will text back to confirm we are on .

I never deleted my text just in case they text something crazy I can always go back and see are conversation I have had guys text me with different Handel but same number
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Old 05-17-2019, 02:17 PM   #18
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I will not answer to

Hey

Are u Available?

Are u free?

Jessica ?

Is this Jessica.

My ad say to PM ref FIRST then text with
Username
Time U would like
And how long

SO for faster booking text
I pm u
Blueboi7812
3pm
HR

I will then check my pm if you pm I will text back to confirm we are on .

I never deleted my text just in case they text something crazy I can always go back and see are conversation I have had guys text me with different Handel but same number
are you busy ?
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Old 05-21-2019, 03:11 PM   #19
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It’s a whole different climate now, with the new laws. Ladies are being extra careful. Some ladies answer the phone, but the best thing is to read their profiles and they may state the best way to contact them. Many have a booking form on their own website. Just keep trying.

Also place an ad in the ISO forum of your local town. Ask for a newbie friendly provider.
ROS is Rest of The Story. It’s a synopsis of what occurred in the session. You can’t read it in the reviews unless you have premium access. But DO concentrate your requests in the city you want to hobby in, not In Worldwide. Start a thread in your CoEd about your trouble and place an ISO.

Now that I know I need to have a different approach when texting, if there is a provider I really want to see that I have texted before with no response from them a couple months ago, should I text them again with something new or use google voice to text them with a new number? Do providers check to see if it is google voice or must it be a real cellphone?
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Old 05-21-2019, 03:38 PM   #20
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References from flakes are u serious? If they are still around...maybe. good luck.
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Old 05-22-2019, 12:20 PM   #21
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I don't recommend using a different number it could look like you're trying to be sneaky. I would suggest maybe trying again with an apology explaining you didn't understand the proper etiquette. You might even think about it like this... When approaching a lady do so as if she were on a regular dating site. Speak to her as though you are trying to get a RW date.
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Old 05-23-2019, 03:25 PM   #22
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They are whores.
They were out all night spending the money they made the day before.

Wait till the end of the month and they will answer back in 2 minutes
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Old 05-23-2019, 04:27 PM   #23
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I would not have replied to your messages' either.

At a minimum state your name & where you found them.

I also would never ask about rates unless it was through a hobby message board.

If you're finding girls on an unverified classified ad type website, I'd only text/talk to the ones that clearly post their rates.

No hooker or client in their right mind wants to discuss rates. If you can't find them clearly posted some where, move on to the next lady.
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Old 05-29-2019, 06:58 PM   #24
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Well, first of all do your research on the lady you'd like to visit with. Read her profile carefully, especially the part where she says what the best way to contact her is. I don't know of any lady who answers the phone or a text of an unknown number.

She will usually state in her profile her preferred method of initial contact. PM, text, phone, or email. Read the reviews to see what other gentlemen have said.

Also, a good provider will not respond to a one liner. And they do NOT discuss gifts and donations via phone or text. It's usually on their ads, avatar or signature line. You can't see the sig line or read the ROS in the reviews since you don't have Premium Access. You obtain it by writing a review or by paying for it. I would strongly suggest that you pay for at least a month of PA so you can see the signature lines, most have the rates for their time posted their. There's a link at the top of this page that says PAY FOR PREMIUM ACCESS. After you see a lady and write a review, you get 6 weeks free.

If the lady you want to see does not state how she likes to be contacted on her profile, then PM her. She wants to know how you found her and what your handle is too. And look for ladies that state that they are Newbie Friendly. If you don't have any references from other ladies it's going to be difficult to screen you. Be prepared to give her enough of your real life info to properly screen you so she'll feel safe enough to let you visit.

And DON'T ever contact a lady with a stupid one liner, like you mentioned in your post. NO ONE would respond to that. PM the lady and very politely:

Hello *****,

I've been looking at your profile and you're beautiful. I'd very much like to arrange a date with you. My name is Joe and I'm a new member. I'm 41 years old, Caucasian, and I work in finance.

Please let me know what info you require to screen me, if you see newbies. My number is 123-456-7890. You can text back or PM me from here. I would like to set up an hour session, hopefully this week, in the evenings.

Thank you so much for your time, and I'm looking forward to hearing back from you.

Sincerely,
Joe Blow


That will get you a response IF she sees newbies. NEVER ask how much or what activities she does. NEVER EVER. If you do, she'll block you.
Get PA and read her signature and read her reviews and her Bio page and that will tell you what you need to know. If she has her own website, that will have all the info you need too.

But someone with only ONE post and NO reviews is just automatically unappealing. Many ladies won't take a chance on you. It would help if you started participating in the CoEd Forum in your local city. And you can learn about a lady's personality too. Just try to get that post count up!

Maybe place an ISO in your home city with the same info as is in the sample PM I wrote, and state that you're looking for a newbie friendly lady to help you get started. You can specify what type of lady, age range, race, body type, etc.

I texted several providers mostly from eroticmonkey but some from this site with what you said or a variation of it and none responded. Is there something that is better said if I text them instead of PM?
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Old 05-29-2019, 08:08 PM   #25
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If the questions you are asking are already posted, that could be why. 9/10 I am asked questions that are listed very clearly in multiple places.





On the opposite end of the spectrum why do clients message us, just to ghost us after inquiry? lol Bottom line is you're dealing with many personalities so its a crap shoot. Stick to a reputable girl, read all her info and do your research and send her the requested info.
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Old 05-30-2019, 06:34 PM   #26
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Your response should be NEXT.!
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Old 05-30-2019, 10:23 PM   #27
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if you text me that with out a interdiction on who you are where your from eccie p411 or eros , you get no answer or I send my screening info and tell you to visit my site for screening same if you call ,
and I fined this type of gent is looking for a right now appt , to wich not going to happen with out screening and that can take up to a hr or so , just depends what I have goig on for the day

In my bio & web site says no texting till screened and guess what (no one reads any more) just look at pics text something hit send lol

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I have tried calling or texting a couple escorts and none of them answered the phone so I texted them either "how much for a half hour" or "what is your availability?" and none of them texted back. Is this common and how do you deal with it? And why are they doing this?
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Old 05-30-2019, 10:28 PM   #28
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I have my rates in my avertar and signature line
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A lot of very good etiquette Ginger. However, with the recent changes to ECCIE policy I don’t often see donations posted anywhere and I looked for a signature line for you and couldn’t find one. Most of us prudent writers are reluctant to give much info to someone with no reports under their belt or few posts.
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