Escorts who don't answer the phone or text back

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I have tried calling or texting a couple escorts and none of them answered the phone so I texted them either "how much for a half hour" or "what is your availability?" and none of them texted back. Is this common and how do you deal with it? And why are they doing this?

[Guest083119]

Perhaps they are otherwise occupied. Most ladies won't text back if it's been more than an hour.

[GingerKatt]

Well, first of all do your research on the lady you'd like to visit with. Read her profile carefully, especially the part where she says what the best way to contact her is. I don't know of any lady who answers the phone or a text of an unknown number.

She will usually state in her profile her preferred method of initial contact. PM, text, phone, or email. Read the reviews to see what other gentlemen have said.

Also, a good provider will not respond to a one liner. And they do NOT discuss gifts and donations via phone or text. It's usually on their ads, avatar or signature line. You can't see the sig line or read the ROS in the reviews since you don't have Premium Access. You obtain it by writing a review or by paying for it. I would strongly suggest that you pay for at least a month of PA so you can see the signature lines, most have the rates for their time posted their. There's a link at the top of this page that says PAY FOR PREMIUM ACCESS. After you see a lady and write a review, you get 6 weeks free.

If the lady you want to see does not state how she likes to be contacted on her profile, then PM her. She wants to know how you found her and what your handle is too. And look for ladies that state that they are Newbie Friendly. If you don't have any references from other ladies it's going to be difficult to screen you. Be prepared to give her enough of your real life info to properly screen you so she'll feel safe enough to let you visit.

And DON'T ever contact a lady with a stupid one liner, like you mentioned in your post. NO ONE would respond to that. PM the lady and very politely:

Hello *****,

I've been looking at your profile and you're beautiful. I'd very much like to arrange a date with you. My name is Joe and I'm a new member. I'm 41 years old, Caucasian, and I work in finance.

Please let me know what info you require to screen me, if you see newbies. My number is 123-456-7890. You can text back or PM me from here. I would like to set up an hour session, hopefully this week, in the evenings.

Thank you so much for your time, and I'm looking forward to hearing back from you.

Sincerely,
Joe Blow


That will get you a response IF she sees newbies. NEVER ask how much or what activities she does. NEVER EVER. If you do, she'll block you.
Get PA and read her signature and read her reviews and her Bio page and that will tell you what you need to know. If she has her own website, that will have all the info you need too.

But someone with only ONE post and NO reviews is just automatically unappealing. Many ladies won't take a chance on you. It would help if you started participating in the CoEd Forum in your local city. And you can learn about a lady's personality too. Just try to get that post count up!

Maybe place an ISO in your home city with the same info as is in the sample PM I wrote, and state that you're looking for a newbie friendly lady to help you get started. You can specify what type of lady, age range, race, body type, etc.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by B Three

Perhaps they are otherwise occupied. Most ladies won't text back if it's been more than an hour.

I know some never over 30 min unless they know its ok

ether by know the guy and its ok

or message left

[Fizley]

It's the sign of the times. Most providers phones a ringing like crazy. Economy is moving,money is flowing freely. To see someone new I have found its best to see them off peak hours (9am to 11am).

Just don't force something to happen. You will gather a reputation, your pocket will be lighter, and you will be disappointed.

Sure,send some texts, atleast when they don't answer you get to keep your money. Save it, there will be a day when th economy changes and your phone blows up for providers looking for hobbiests. May be next month, or it might be five years. Nothing ever stays the same.

[omg_lol]

A lot of good advice and agree with most of what is said. My two cents:

- Exercise discretion. Never talk rates and services up front. Read her ad, website, review, or PM a fellow monger who has seen her to get information. I never mention anything about services but...

- Be polite and be decisive. I find that if I don’t ask for a meeting date and time, it doesn’t go anywhere. When you send the text...

- Be patient. Responses can take anywhere from a few minutes to a few days. She could be busy, napping, at the gym, etc. Definitely factor that in to your timeframes. I book several days in advance typically.

I’ve never been flaked on, NCNS, or anything like that. I’ve had a 100% track rate and I’ve seen a few ladies.

In my opinion, you asking for a rate for a half hour is a red flag as it implies a transaction. Asking her availability is something that time wasters/window shoppers do. See point #2. She will let you know if that date or time works for her.

Good luck!

[Pangolier]

One of two things.


1. The content of your communication is a red flag to the provider. She's going to ignore you if you are not saying "Hi" or are sending one sentence texts with poor spelling and grammar. Additionally, discussing services in detail usually tends to get you blocked. If you are not communicating properly, you need to learn how to, or she will likely feel disrespected just like anyone else.



2. The provider either has no interest in new business, or is dealing with personal issues. Perhaps she had a sudden change of plans, is no longer in the specific city, got a better offer, experienced an accident or medical issue, or maybe just isn't in the mood. In this case the more respectable ladies typically tend to at least send a short reply stating they are not available during the time in question. However, I think the first scenario I mentioned is more likely for you. The high minded, greedy, and unreliable ones may not reply at all during the latter instance.


If you are contacting a woman you've never done business with before, treat it as if you were having an interview. If you are looking for a good career, you're not going to be short or unimpressive to the hiring manager or HR person, are you? Engage the provider the way you think she would want to be treated in a risky world full of questionable people that she might not want to meet. You need to develop a mindset to meet women, just like anything else.

[greyghost48]

Originally Posted by GingerKatt

Well, first of all do your research on the lady you'd like to visit with. Read her profile carefully, especially the part where she says what the best way to contact her is. I don't know of any lady who answers the phone or a text of an unknown number.

She will usually state in her profile her preferred method of initial contact. PM, text, phone, or email. Read the reviews to see what other gentlemen have said.

Also, a good provider will not respond to a one liner. And they do NOT discuss gifts and donations via phone or text.

And DON'T ever contact a lady with a stupid one liner, like you mentioned in your post.

That will get you a response IF she sees newbies. NEVER ask how much or what activities she does. NEVER EVER. If you do, she'll block you.
Get PA and read.

A lot of very good etiquette Ginger. However, with the recent changes to ECCIE policy I don’t often see donations posted anywhere and I looked for a signature line for you and couldn’t find one. Most of us prudent writers are reluctant to give much info to someone with no reports under their belt or few posts.

[GingerKatt]

Originally Posted by greyghost48

A lot of very good etiquette Ginger. However, with the recent changes to ECCIE policy I don’t often see donations posted anywhere and I looked for a signature line for you and couldn’t find one. Most of us prudent writers are reluctant to give much info to someone with no reports under their belt or few posts.

I actually see a lot of rates in ladies’ sig lines and also in their avatars. Many ladies these days also have their own website with all the info included. I also saw another poster recommend PMing gentlemen who have reviewed her and ask what they paid.

It’s also a very good idea to get PA so you can read the sig lines, if you don’t have it yet. My signature lines states that I’m not available right now, as does my Bio page. If I was available, I would absolutely have donations in my sig line and I would build a simple website.

You sound very nice and polite, just my type of man. I really miss providing! Maybe some day... For now I keep my toes in by reading the forums and being available for references.

[anonsull]

Move on to next one

[redbox]

Originally Posted by GingerKatt

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Also, a good provider will not respond to a one liner. And they do NOT discuss gifts and donations via phone or text. It's usually on their ads, avatar or signature line. You can't see the sig line or read the ROS in the reviews since you don't have Premium Access. You obtain it by writing a review or by paying for it. I would strongly suggest that you pay for at least a month of PA so you can see the signature lines, most have the rates for their time posted their. There's a link at the top of this page that says PAY FOR PREMIUM ACCESS. After you see a lady and write a review, you get 6 weeks free.

What does ROS stand for? I did send a couple women from various sites longer text's saying where I found their add, that I wanted to book them, when were they available and they didn't reply. It's very strange to me. I have been out of the game for 5+ years, but back in the day when backpage was still around it was easy, you called and they answered and that was it. I never had problems with women not answering the phone, and I usually did not need to text them. As far as text's, is that what most women use now? Do any women still answer the phone?

[GingerKatt]

It’s a whole different climate now, with the new laws. Ladies are being extra careful. Some ladies answer the phone, but the best thing is to read their profiles and they may state the best way to contact them. Many have a booking form on their own website. Just keep trying.

Also place an ad in the ISO forum of your local town. Ask for a newbie friendly provider.
ROS is Rest of The Story. It’s a synopsis of what occurred in the session. You can’t read it in the reviews unless you have premium access. But DO concentrate your requests in the city you want to hobby in, not In Worldwide. Start a thread in your CoEd about your trouble and place an ISO.

[VeronicaTurbay]

maybe because the half hour thing....???
The text would catch my attention if you are booking a dinner date to an awesome restaurant following but lots of cuddles! (just how I like)

[Chung Tran]

I have the opposite problem.. ladies who respond quickly, agree to sessions, then ghost me when I arrive. I wish my problem was yours.. no response.. at least I can move on quickly, no time and effort wasted.

[SoSexyMsT]

Some ladies have burner phones. A lot of things can cause late responses-busy day, day job, family and home obligations, etc. Ladies are more cautious nowadays as well.