Day Jobs?

[herbieh]

An erotic thought for me is potentially running in to a provider or hobbyist in their day job (if they have one).

Knowing something naughty about them but seeing them act "not" naughty is quite the turn on...

I've got a day job and a life noone would know about outside my limited hobby life....what about y'all?

[Cougarlicious]

Yes like hot waitresses at the lovely place you eat for sinner and see her in those nice tight black slacks that accent that booty lol, watch her carry around trays of cocktails and take orders while pouring wine, Mee! I work at Olive Garden lol Would you like to hear about our Delicious New Arrivals? Yes its hot I agree.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by herbieh

An erotic thought for me is potentially running in to a provider or hobbyist in their day job (if they have one).

Knowing something naughty about them but seeing them act "not" naughty is quite the turn on...

I've got a day job and a life noone would know about outside my limited hobby life....what about y'all?

I have had this experience, several times; just stay cool and act as if nothing has happened - even if you both make eye contact. One never knows what is really going on with the other person; it is better to play safe, respect her situation and not confuse the two worlds you both live in. It is called respect, and I have been highly thanked at a later time. There have also been times when she has indicated it is ok to talk.

Kinda like running into an undercover cop you that was a close friend in high school: you don't ask him if he is still woking as a cop, or address him by his real name! Give him the chance to address you first, or keep quiet and cool about the situation.

[tinman483]

I have been seeing this provider that works in the repossession business. She says basically the whole company knows that she is a provider! But she never has had any of them ever try and book a play date with her. And yes she is attractive! LOL
I just kinda think that is hot!

[Guest090222]

Real world jobs are awesome, and yes you still have that raw sex appeal, excellent customer service experience, and ability to friend and get along with people. A excellent provider is a very savvy business lady already - if you take her and put her in corporate America she is gonna shine like a bright shining star!

[Madame X]

I've had a few real-life run-ins during the course of my involvement in this lifestyle, and so far everyone's been mature about it.



I travel a good deal for civie work, and as it's project based, I often don't know who I'm going to be working with until the first morning of the gig. So one time in particular and as usual, I use my company travel allowance and add a little extra to book a nice hotel, and make arrangements to meet a date the night before work. The date goes smashingly well with this charming man, and I wake up the next morning to head off to my jobsite.



Lo and behold, he's there for work as well... and so is his wife. Who is honestly one of the most gorgeous Japanese women I have ever met! And, by day 3 (of a two week contract), she makes it clear that she's into me I'm into her, but unfortunately she is *not* into sharing her husband with me... which makes it a little awkward, since I already slept with him :/ We did go out for drinks (as far as her husband was concerned) twice, but I opted not to continue further down that road once the contract ended, and the gentleman in question understandably never called on me again either.



(Dude, if you're reading this, not/sorry)


I wish I was braver about the situation, but the levels of deception in the situation were a little much for me to try to navigate "off the clock" as it were. I figured they deserved each other since they were both cheaters... and because they were both super hot. That would have been a banging threesome, if I could have made it happen.


~Mme X~

[straightshooter30]

Good story Maxine! I would love to run into you in the real world just to see your professional attire, can't believe you still wouldn't be oozing sexuality! ;-)

[Fizley]

Tinman is right. While it may be a hot fantasy to meet a provider in public, it may be embarrassing for her (or your self if with family).

Instead lock eyes with her, smile and keep walking.

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by Fizley

...Instead lock eyes with her, smile and keep walking.

I would suggest not staring or 'locking eyes." My preference would be to shyly look at the ground and keep walking.

Seeing someone at a job site, Target or restaurant, etc., is mind numbing and rather awful. I don't like it.

Many years ago, I had an aggressive client who was a nice person but well, assertive and he once told me that if he saw me in a public place (even with someone else) that he would come up to me and say hello.

I REALLY tried to convince him not to do that. I'm single and well, I'm single. But I like separation in these type of situations.

Fantasies are different, obviously. The reality needs to be carefully considered.

EW

[shortstroke35]

EW, I'm single also and don't understand what the problem would be speaking to a lovely lady. I have many lady friends both in and out of the "business" and would not hesitate speaking to them in public unless specifically asked not to. A prepared statement would cover any questions....ie I work at a car dealership and she was browsing for a new car, or I met her at the dog park or any number of things. If you and she are alone there is no problem, Being mature and thoughtful of each other is all that matters.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by shortstroke35

EW, I'm single also and don't understand what the problem would be speaking to a lovely lady. I have many lady friends both in and out of the "business" and would not hesitate speaking to them in public unless specifically asked not to. A prepared statement would cover any questions....ie I work at a car dealership and she was browsing for a new car, or I met her at the dog park or any number of things. If you and she are alone there is no problem, Being mature and thoughtful of each other is all that matters.

Understand that, for many in the hobby, the hobby is a separate world that they would like to remain hidden from the real world. I, for one, appreciate the real world - even a real world without sex - and I want to protect that world: it is called discretion. Discretion is not only about what is said, but what one doesn't say both verbal and nonverbal. A made up story is often readily seen for what it is.

[NipLover]

I have run into hobbiests and providers in public on multiple occasions, in all types of public situations. I can tell you the best thing to do is avoid contact. You never know who might be a few feet away, watching the situation unfold.