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Elle Banks · 05-21-2021, 10:38 AM

I don't think blacklists are anything to joke about. It's quite apparent many of you don't value the mental or physical safety and wellbeing of providers. On the other hand, I take it very seriously and don't appreciate you mocking our need for blacklists.

The OP is extremely unstable, he made a thread this time last year saying I was doing wrong by him when I refused his advances and wanting to pay for my services in "lettuce".

It's not funny, there is no debate, the OP is unhinged and should be considered dangerous. He 100% "doxxes" himself and contacts providers with his full name before we can even reply. I don't even think that's his real name, but take that into consideration before anyone claims he was doxxed or starts yammering on about why this is the reason "to never give a provider your RL info". He is using the fact that we know his "name" simply as a manipulation tactic and failsafe so he can come here and cry on the shoulders of those who believe his BS.

bambino · 05-21-2021, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Elle Banks

I don't think blacklists are anything to joke about. It's quite apparent many of you don't value the mental or physical safety and wellbeing of providers. On the other hand, I take it very seriously and don't appreciate you mocking our need for blacklists.

The OP is extremely unstable, he made a thread this time last year saying I was doing wrong by him when I refused his advances and wanting to pay for my services in "lettuce".

It's not funny, there is no debate, the OP is unhinged and should be considered dangerous. He 100% "doxxes" himself and contacts providers with his full name before we can even reply. I don't even think that's his real name, but take that into consideration before anyone claims he was doxxed or starts yammering on about why this is the reason "to never give a provider your RL info". He is using the fact that we know his "name" simply as a manipulation tactic and failsafe so he can come here and cry on the shoulders of those who believe his BS.

You dismiss hobbyists getting robbed, beaten with hammers and extorted???? Yeah, that happens. And those providers should be blacklisted.

Elle Banks · 05-21-2021, 10:50 AM

When did I dismiss that? Are you dismissing men like OP actively harassing providers, the example we can see here, or providers getting robbed, beaten with anything, and extorted? Yeah, that happens, and those clients should be blacklisted.

bambino · 05-21-2021, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Elle Banks

When did I dismiss that? Are you dismissing men like OP actively harassing providers, the example we can see here, or providers getting robbed, beaten with anything, and extorted? Yeah, that happens, and those clients should be blacklisted.

I said previously he was out of line. You dismissed the idea of having a blacklist of providers. It cuts both ways.

Elle Banks · 05-21-2021, 12:18 PM

Quite the opposite, I am a fan of anyone doing whatever they require to feel safe. I've seen many providers and their associates blacklisted.

chizzy · 05-21-2021, 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Elle Banks

I don't think blacklists are anything to joke about. It's quite apparent many of you don't value the mental or physical safety and wellbeing of providers. On the other hand, I take it very seriously and don't appreciate you mocking our need for blacklists.

The OP is extremely unstable, he made a thread this time last year saying I was doing wrong by him when I refused his advances and wanting to pay for my services in "lettuce".

It's not funny, there is no debate, the OP is unhinged and should be considered dangerous. He 100% "doxxes" himself and contacts providers with his full name before we can even reply. I don't even think that's his real name, but take that into consideration before anyone claims he was doxxed or starts yammering on about why this is the reason "to never give a provider your RL info". He is using the fact that we know his "name" simply as a manipulation tactic and failsafe so he can come here and cry on the shoulders of those who believe his BS.

I think you are taking a joke as something more than it was intended elle. I think it was simply a joke

Eccie provides a way for guys to communicate about dangerous providers and I doubt anyone would suggest the girls shouldnt do the same about dangerous clients. Just my opinion

Dreamgurrl · 05-21-2021, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by chizzy

I think you are taking a joke as something more than it was intended elle. I think it was simply a joke

Eccie provides a way for guys to communicate about dangerous providers and I doubt anyone would suggest the girls shouldnt do the same about dangerous clients. Just my opinion

I think her point is that our overall safety is not really something to joke about. One major difference is that we have to keep our blacklists anonymous as to not put ourselves in further danger.

bambino · 05-21-2021, 05:16 PM

We’ll keep ours anonymous.

Dreamgurrl · 05-21-2021, 05:17 PM

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We’ll keep ours anonymous.

Great! That would also help keep your fellow hobbyists much more safe as well.

bambino · 05-21-2021, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

Great! That would also help keep your fellow hobbyists much more safe as well.

Yeah, it’s better than blasting shit on Twitter.

blkstocking · 05-21-2021, 05:38 PM

I think that in fact it was one of the guys here that mentioned the bf or whatever was unhinged. I didnt see any evidence of anyone taking his side. Everyone wants everyones lives to be safe. This isnt a one or the other thing. Why make it that way?

Dreamgurrl · 05-21-2021, 05:43 PM

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Originally Posted by blkstocking

I think that in fact it was one of the guys here that mentioned the bf or whatever was unhinged. I didnt see any evidence of anyone taking his side. Everyone wants everyones lives to be safe. This isnt a one or the other thing. Why make it that way?

You are asking bam right? He’s the only one here doing that.

bambino · 05-21-2021, 05:53 PM

I said the guy has issues. Period.

I’m not the one who brought up “blacklists”

Typo · 05-21-2021, 08:16 PM

I don't think anybody in this thread has said anything that indicates there's no concern for provider safety. To the contrary, I think it's agreed the guy stalking Chloe is batshit crazy and way out of line. He even admitted he's off his meds, so there's no telling how far he'll take things. Aside from her posts related to that situation, I don't hink Chloe is doing herself any favors with much of the other things in her Twitter feed.

pensfan123456 · 05-22-2021, 08:26 AM

Wow we should stop arguing. Everyone agrees that this is a hobby/business that is full of risk and both providers and hobbyists should take whatever precautions they feel are necessary to stay safe.

If for DG it means screening that is great if it works for her.

If for Bam it means staying anonymous that is great if it works for him.

If other providers and hobbyists are comfortable somewhere in between that is great if it works for them.

There is danger for everyone in this business. OP proves the danger to providers in this post. Other posts about hobbyists being robbed at gunpoint prove the danger to hobbyists. This forum helps both parties be informed of potential danger. Glad it’s here.