Provider client relationship

[MAC4343]

Just looking on some other opinions ,
What makes a good or respectful client provider
Relationship? Or is there such thing, is just business for
a provider and fun for ye client ?

[john_deere]

the same thing that makes any relationship of any kind good....respect.

[Blue Moon Man]

JD beat me to it. Exactly right. Some folks are merely customers. Some are more. No way to predict which it will be.

[Zgirl2]

There is no simple answer. So many factors come in play. So many fucking factors.

[sailorman1980]

Like JD and BMM said, it starts with respect. The client treats the lady with respect and vice versa. It might be a paid transaction, but that doesn't mean the client ought to act like a jerk. And just because it's a transaction does not mean the provider ought to act like a robot.

The second thing ties into that last part. It's the human connection. Again, something Blue touched on. There is no way to predict it. It just happens. I know there are providers I've not connected with, for one reason or another. Then there are those with whom you do. Just an example: when I see Cali, that connection is there. I'm sure my face lights up, and I know hers does.

I know there is the myth that the provider "acts" like she is enjoying it, but never does. Bull shit. They like sex as much as the client. Do they fake it sometimes? Sure. I know I've faked it to get out of a situation when I wasn't having fun, but the lady was nice and I didn't want to make a big deal out of it. But then there are those occasions when you KNOW she's having as much fun as you are. Again, it's that connection.

[Zgirl2]

haha this website cracks me up. Lol I swear to god if I comment on one more coed discussion, I'm kickin my own ass

[Getting It In Texas]

Zgirl is in love with me. Our relationship has grown to be one of lust and laughter. She even proposed to me. Damn it why did I respect her so much, must be that southern charm and Latino Heat!

[utrlbk1976]

Hahahahaha

[john_deere]

the problem is many don't see respect or lack of in the same things. especially the little things.

don't respond to messages? lack of respect.

don't show up on time? lack of respect.

don't come prepared? lack of respect.

blow off an appointment? lack of respect.

and no, "shit happens" isn't an excuse.

[R.M.]

Chemistry 101...

[john_deere]

there doesn't even have to be chemistry. just be a decent human.

[R.M.]

Decent humans are rare now days...

[Zgirl2]

Cause gaaawd forbid a Hooker be late, or too busy to text you back in a timely manner, blow off appointments/ reschedule , or come unprepared (although how is that possible if she brings her pussy and her mouth, and maybe an ass if she's really gonna show you a good time!).....

^^^ cause all that is unacceptable and is what makes someone not a decent human being!
Also, No shit is allowed to ever happen either! Not allowed here in the hobby. Right?!

[Chief62]

Originally Posted by john_deere

there doesn't even have to be chemistry. just be a decent human.

I agree that there doesn’t have to be chemistry but having it makes for a much more enjoyable session for all.

[Zgirl2]

Originally Posted by Chief62

I agree that there doesn’t have to be chemistry but having it makes for a much more enjoyable session for all.

Ur right.... Chemistry absolutely has a huge part to play. I mean I respect my elders and wouldn't ever do anything to intentionally show anything but the upmost respect.....don't mean just cause I respect my latest grandpas buddies (that I see everyday at the corner store drinking coffee) , but just cause I respect them don't mean if I hop in bed with them we are about to have some bomb sex and have a great time.

(I use that as an example because it's the first thing that came to mind, I see this group of men every day and have the up most respect for them and respect was the topic.

Respect is always important. But it's not the only thing that counts. Chemistry does place higher on the scale, respect is an unspoken. Chemistry is what makes the difference.