I'm sick of it and done with it....

[SexyKaylen]

I'm sure all the ladies get this at least once a day..........
Why schedule appointments? Telling the person what time you going to be there and not show up? That happened to me three times today it's getting old guys. If you don't want to see me don't call me don't schedule an appointment and waste my damn time. All the texts and all the calls I don't get why you guys do that. Not all you guys but a Lots of you guys do that. Come on grow up and quit playing games. I don't have time for this. Especially you new guys. Sorry guys but I have to say something it's pissing me off. The rest of you wonderful men on here have a wonderful day.

[dumars]

In my case, a print out of google maps was not correct. Add to that a good "high" from viagra! A 100mg tab will sometimes send one into a high altitude anxiety orbit! You'll do a "fuck this shit" at the drop of a hat. Won't talk about temper. Even your speech suffers to a degree. Running a lot of water over your head helps.

I've also gotten fairly proficient in the google maps app since then. When I take viagra I do it twice over a 15 - 30 min increment. So I learned something.

Sometimes there are valid reasons that we're sure you don't want to hear or most likely won't believe. I'm sure you'll find my reasons doubtful but as Lily Tomlin said before you were born, "that's the twooth".

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

I'm sure all the ladies get this at least once a day..........
Why schedule appointments? Telling the person what time you going to be there and not show up? That happened to me three times today it's getting old guys. If you don't want to see me don't call me don't schedule an appointment and waste my damn time. All the texts and all the calls I don't get why you guys do that. Not all you guys but a Lots of you guys do that. Come on grow up and quit playing games. I don't have time for this. Especially you new guys. Sorry guys but I have to say something it's pissing me off. The rest of you wonderful men on here have a wonderful day.

[KayC_K]

The only reason that a man could legitimately give for making a gaggle of phone calls, texts and plans over a several minute to hours time span then disappearing in two seconds is this....hes disrespectful. He considers this "his"time, his dime, his world and has no respect for his own uselessness let alone someone else's time he has wasted. I give callers the same treatment I would get if I had an appointment that I failed to show to. I delete their number and send them straight to the blow off box. You can't give someone more than one time someone to play games like that. I'm not that rude it doesn't need to be excused period.

[royamcr]

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

I'm sure all the ladies get this at least once a day..........
Why schedule appointments? Telling the person what time you going to be there and not show up? That happened to me three times today it's getting old guys. If you don't want to see me don't call me don't schedule an appointment and waste my damn time. All the texts and all the calls I don't get why you guys do that. Not all you guys but a Lots of you guys do that. Come on grow up and quit playing games. I don't have time for this. Especially you new guys. Sorry guys but I have to say something it's pissing me off. The rest of you wonderful men on here have a wonderful day.

Maybe they thought the day before was your last day and decided to see someone else.

[aztec.native.97]

Originally Posted by dumars

In my case, a print out of google maps was not correct. Add to that a good "high" from viagra! A 100mg tab will sometimes send one into a high altitude anxiety orbit! You'll do a "fuck this shit" at the drop of a hat. Won't talk about temper. Even your speech suffers to a degree. Running a lot of water over your head helps.

I've also gotten fairly proficient in the google maps app since then. When I take viagra I do it twice over a 15 - 30 min increment. So I learned something.

Sometimes there are valid reasons that we're sure you don't want to hear or most likely won't believe. I'm sure you'll find my reasons doubtful but as Lily Tomlin said before you were born, "that's the twooth".

Google maps screwed me up (on my phone) just last week. But I didn't "ghost" the person I was trying to get to. I called and let them know what was happening, that I wasn't just being inconsiderate. Now the viagra factor, I have no firsthand knowledge of.

Have you ever heard of the "Four Agreements"? It might help. Just saying.

[HeavyMetal913]

You act like this does not happen to us "Clients" everyday.
No shows, overslept, double booked. Wait in the car at the location for 30 minutes to have no answer - after we got the address..
This is literally happening to me as I type this.
Made plans yesterday, at the time we are supposed to meet 11:30 she asks where I want to meet. Then cancels 10 minutes after we are supposed to be started. "Just now"

[RocketSurgeon]

Kaylen, it definitely sucks. I've never stood up a provider.

This does happen to the clients too though. I've been on SA recently, and more than 50% of the women are no-shows. For escorts, the % is lower for me, but still unreasonably high ... maybe 10% no-show/ghost and 10% unreasonably late (more than 1 hr).

[Danielle Reid]

Part of the business sadly. Happens on both sides and no one enjoys being stood up

[dumars]

I did call, talked about the google maps thing. Left out the viagra thing. Come back was "you're blocked".

Side effects of viagra are listed everywhere. "Four Agreements"? No knowledge!

Some time later I had another meating scheduled with another. That too was interrupted by a "medical issue" I had. I explained to the lady what happened. I am about 90% sure she didn't believe me. It sounded phony but it was the truth, as far fetched and unlikely as it was. We rescheduled the next day.

Bottom line, stupid things do happen that are way, way beyond our control. "Murphy's Law" applies.

Originally Posted by aztec.native.97

I called and let them know what was happening, that I wasn't just being inconsiderate. Now the viagra factor, I have no firsthand knowledge of.

Have you ever heard of the "Four Agreements"? It might help. Just saying.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

I always find that screening better and doing a blacklist check helps me weed out
the NC NS if they have been listed .. just my 2cents

one thing that get's me tho is why go and do all the screening and refs check if then guy is going to NC NS , it's a lot work to screen and set a date up then he blows you off for what maybe be someone who's less or who will see then
RIGHT NOW

[Fsn57]

The excuses really don't matter. A NCNS is a NCNS. Simple courtesy is to call BEFORE hand to cancel should something come up. NCNS is just plain disrespectful!!