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Paddy Daddy · 03-21-2017, 02:41 PM

Anybody out there familiar with the site "Seeking Arrangements"? I have heard some hit or miss comments about it. I created an account but before I go any farther, I have to submit a photo or "pay up"... I don't mind the possibility of paying, if their is some legitimacy to their site and it opens hobby doors. I am not using any type of real world photo. No way.
I'm getting supposed searches looking at my profile, but no way to converse without taking the next step.
Anybody out there familiar with the site or even approaching a possible SB??
Just looking for advice.

Pmon · 03-21-2017, 03:39 PM

There are several threads on SA in the Panhandle forum, this one in particular.
https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1971361&highlight=

Some guys swear by it. Since BP went sideways, I've seen more discussion about SA than before. I've poked around there a bit, and I've even seen some providers there that used to be on BP. I haven't taken the plunge, either, but I've seen some encouraging feedback about the site and the success rate of finding a good provider. Unfortunately, the site is attracting a few scam artists, and my guess is they're ladies who were previously on BP.

Guest071717 · 03-21-2017, 03:56 PM

IDK. You guys have your likes/tastes etc. But it seems to me if you go to such sites (SA/SB) you are asking for a bit of drama in the end.

With a repected provider, there is never an issue if it ends suddendly for what ever reason. Most will never bother you again. When you deal with the 'young uns', they might slip their info to a friend over a Margarita while talking about their newest purse. And gosh forbid, they become attached.... watch out for a scary confortation with you or your S.O.. I have heard several crazy stories over those 'arrangements'.

But, heck, we all enjoy different things in others company.

Just be safe, be cool and Have fun.

holmes50 · 03-21-2017, 04:35 PM

What little I've dabbled on SA the few I did see, the money spent with relation to hours received far outweighed what you get with a provider from Eccie or P411. Having said that, the time spent to cultivate an arrangement and weeding through the scammers I just didn't have that kind of time.......most are not pros, you have to lead them to fountain so to speak. So that was the good.

In Louisiana I had one who wanted 200 to meet and another 400 if she decided to go further........she couldn't understand why I said never in a million years would I agree to such. She wasn't that hot!

The 2 I did see, eventually one blew up my phone from 5 different numbers needing money for this or that. Once she said she was in Shreveport, her car broke down. 20 minutes later she offered to meet me within the 1/2 hour. Uh Shreveport was 3 hours away. Bless her heart she'd forget which lie she was on.The other, once wanted bail money for her mother........suffice to say neither was worth the drama even though I could get 3 or 4 hours for less than the going rate of a hour with a top tier provider. Both were great in bed.

Some swear by SA, for me it was time consuming with not much return when factoring the never ending drama. Biggest advice to those who go the SA route, GET A THROW AWAY PHONE!

Guest071717 · 03-21-2017, 04:43 PM

And that above says it.

I develop relationships with a trust that is built. Built on not a monthly allowance.

One that is built over time with affection, understanding.

My clients are the ones I have seen for months and years. We understand the importance of our NSA.

Best Wishes all.

Addi

Lovestolick66 · 03-21-2017, 07:09 PM

guys ,to me this type site has a very high risk factor that I'm not willing to take, and i have a friend that found his dream girl on a site and all was fine till he had to go see the DR. to cure his problem, Addison and Holmes are both correct, i want to know who I'm going to see. That extra $ is cheaper than a Dr. visit and a divorce, so stay with verified providers.

GigiGabore · 03-22-2017, 09:46 AM

I have a profile there, it never panned out for me. Just guys wanting escorts. To pay as they go...that's not what I was looking for. I basically just wanted one guy I could see whenever for a monthly rate.

And my asking rate wasn't crazy high either. I had Just wanted to get out of this escort life at a time and only cater to one lucky gent (:
This hobby is too fun to leave, I'll always come back

bladtinzu · 03-27-2017, 08:54 AM

A massive waste of time. If you want a real SB drop a hottie your business card and put the ball in her court. And not a stripper or provider since it is a proven fact they make shitty SB's. Go for the bank teller. She is looking at what you have in your accounts so she knows she will be well taken care of. Or not depending on your savings, investments, and disposable cash.

MOCHAakaMOCHA · 03-29-2017, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by GigiGabore

I have a profile there, it never panned out for me. Just guys wanting escorts. To pay as they go...that's not what I was looking for. I basically just wanted one guy I could see whenever for a monthly rate.

And my asking rate wasn't crazy high either. I had Just wanted to get out of this escort life at a time and only cater to one lucky gent (:
This hobby is too fun to leave, I'll always come back

Lol that was kind of my experience.
Only difference is that I dabbled in SA amongst a few other SB/SD sites for 18 months before "going pro".

SaltyDog71 · 03-29-2017, 08:56 PM

I've had good luck there. However it is more leg work than just booking an escort. I have a set of parameters that I use, and never deviate from them. Once you figure out the game the scams and flakes are easy to pick out. I have 2 from SA that I see once a week and I get an entire afternoon for what most escorts get an hour. I'm happy with what I found there but I did have to weed out some trash to get here.

VipAhyanaJames · 04-12-2017, 01:33 PM

Hummm well if you come across my profile on SA hit me up. Lol
Im open to a SD/SB arrangement and other NSA arrangments. Hell being new to Bama i just thought expanding my parameters further than ECCIE / P411 may lead to better options. I find the feedback here helpful. Thanks.

visual800 · 05-12-2017, 06:59 AM

these sites, IMO, are geared towards one thing...making the owners rich. Most are filled with fake ads and BS. I have signed up for several sites in the past few years and NEVER post a pic and the emails are flying thru at rapid speed, its all BS. they are making money off guys. Do not be stupid

john32540 · 05-12-2017, 11:44 AM

Actually you can have some very good luck on that site. There is fakes but also a lot of legitimate women that are really seeking a relationship in exchange for being taken care of. I discovered a few friends of friends on that site. Then you have those that are more looking for a transaction, but legit. Yes there is bullshit to sort through, but you learn to spot it. Ask to speak to them on the phone, if they avoid then cut them off an move on.

SaltyDog71 · 05-12-2017, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by visual800

these sites, IMO, are geared towards one thing...making the owners rich. Most are filled with fake ads and BS. I have signed up for several sites in the past few years and NEVER post a pic and the emails are flying thru at rapid speed, its all BS. they are making money off guys. Do not be stupid

Adult friend finder I feel you are correct, probably 75 percent of the profiles there are fake. There are one or two other sights similar to AFF that are just as bad if not worse. Seeking arrangements I am sure there are fake profiles, but there are many real girls there, and is a decent sight if you don't mind spending a little time weeding through them. I have made some very nice finds there.