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AidanRedd · 07-17-2010, 12:31 AM

I went to a "burner" " burning man" event where a women showed me how to make a girl cum by spanking her just the right way with a wooden paddle.

I didn't even know this was possible.

Although seeing it done made me a believer.

Most people spank on top of the butt cheek or in the middle of the butt cheek. That is all wrong. You spank just below the butt cheek where the thigh starts to curve into the ass.

That is where the same nerves are that run up the leg, through the ass, and then into the gentiles that make a person cum.

This is done with steady light spanks at a constant tempo. Throw in a few harder spanks in between but keep the tempo steady. Rotate between both buns to keep them evened out. When you spank harder, pull your arm back further for more motion, don't put more "muscle" into it.

When done correctly, it's not about pain, but about complete pleasure.

Make a girl cum hard and she will love every bit of it.

I now have two nice new wooden paddles.

I understand that this may not be for everyone, but please keep your mind open.

Happy Spanking!!!

Gryphon · 07-17-2010, 07:21 AM

One other point: it doesn't have to be done with a wooden paddle. A hand, leather paddle, hairbrush, or even a cane can do the same thing. It just has to generate enough force that the shock waves travel.

Guest050911 · 07-17-2010, 07:31 AM

Remember,

The girl has to be predisposed to this. Not everyone can be thrown over a knee and spanked to an orgasm. It is a learned activity from both sides.

PPE

Goddessmaria · 07-17-2010, 07:52 AM

Hmm I wonder if I bend a man over, spank him in the same spot with a nice tempo ........ Wait I think I may have done that : 0

ElisabethWhispers · 07-17-2010, 07:59 AM

Aiden,

Although I LOVE this topic, the naming and everything, and I'm SO GLAD that you're here, if someone gave me a spanking like that, I would probably turn around and bitch slap them. Well, maybe not.

But I'm telling you that the average woman who likes a spanking might not really like THAT type of one.

Hitting the "sweet spot" between the thighs and buttocks hurts like hell. And although I'm not a spanking expert by any means, suggesting that this one type of spanking is the one for everybody ... well, I just wanted to interject that it might not be.

Be with that being said, what is YOUR favorite type of spanking? Sometimes, no spanking is my favorite (just remembering an event from yesterday!).

Hugs, Aiden!!!

Elisabeth

AidanRedd · 07-17-2010, 01:47 PM

Of course it's not for everybody, but the girls that it is for will volunteer for this. I have yet to make a guy cum with the same techniques. The girls I have done this with have come over and begged me to do this with them.

awl4knot · 07-17-2010, 02:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AidanRedd

That is where the same nerves are that run up the leg, through the ass, and then into the gentiles that make a person cum.

I understand that this may not be for everyone, but please keep your mind open.

Happy Spanking!!!

What, this only works on gentiles? Those goyim have all the luck.

Guest080311-2 · 07-17-2010, 02:37 PM

I really like being spanked with a crop, the leather touching my Butt feels good...if I get spanked by someones hand they have to start slow, I hate it when someone just wacks me and leaves a huge hand print on my ass...The pleasure I have learned is starting slow, rubbing a bit starting again...switch tools,
I also like being bent over a knee like daddy's bad girl...
makeing it part of role play rocks....an I can understand you cumming to the pleasure
I use to giggle when it got to a certain point..
but now put a towel underneath me....

KlassyKelliAnn · 07-17-2010, 07:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AidanRedd

I went to a "burner" " burning man" event where a women showed me how to make a girl cum by spanking her just the right way with a wooden paddle.

I didn't even know this was possible.

Although seeing it done made me a believer.

Most people spank on top of the butt cheek or in the middle of the butt cheek. That is all wrong. You spank just below the butt cheek where the thigh starts to curve into the ass.

That is where the same nerves are that run up the leg, through the ass, and then into the gentiles that make a person cum.

This is done with steady light spanks at a constant tempo. Throw in a few harder spanks in between but keep the tempo steady. Rotate between both buns to keep them evened out. When you spank harder, pull your arm back further for more motion, don't put more "muscle" into it.

When done correctly, it's not about pain, but about complete pleasure.

Make a girl cum hard and she will love every bit of it.

I now have two nice new wooden paddles.

I understand that this may not be for everyone, but please keep your mind open.

Happy Spanking!!!

Hot Damn! I need a spanking now after reading this! That's effin hot!

MMMMMM Good!

KKA

houston_switch · 07-18-2010, 01:54 PM

EW... maybe not.. the bitch slap...as I remember...
This tread is why i like being spanked... all the nerves flow through the legs, up the butt into the groin.... yup, a good spanking might start soft and slow with lots of rubbing, but in the end I do want some heavy strokes...

TexasStarr · 07-20-2010, 05:47 AM

EW,

If you re-read what Aidan wrote, He didn't say "spank the sweet spot".. he stated "That is where the same nerves are that run up the leg, through the ass, and then into the gentiles that make a person cum".

I've had but only one Dom who can cause me to just soak the floor from a spanking like this... And I would owe that to PPE. He is a very good "Spanker" and not only can he bring me to orgasm by spanking, he can cause me to reach "supspace" which is a lot more intense. With either of these there will be a very nice sized puddle left on the floor between my feet.

Living in the Houston area, I sure do miss Him bunches and those nice spankins He knows how to give so well.

Starr

DallasRain · 07-20-2010, 06:27 AM

SHE made me cum.....lol

toyrrific · 07-20-2010, 09:13 AM

+1 to TexasStarr. It really is all about getting your partner to "subspace" which is much deeper then orgasm. Start out slow with muscle massage, change implements often, stop and kiss and whisper in her ear, pick up the pace, note her twitching, at the end it is about heavier play until she slumps against her restraints, almost passed out. Take her down gently and hold her wrapped in her favorite blankee until she recovers. Ahhh, she says that is total bliss.

Krunkman · 07-20-2010, 09:53 AM

The wonderful thing about spankings is that they are always going to be different. Every bottom is going to respond differently to stimulus. Some will wear you out taking everything you can throw at them and just look back at you and ask you for more... others will find that after a few firm swats they are done. Even getting your bottom into subspace is going to vary from spankee to spankee. Some will never get their, some always go there, and everyone else is in between.

Course, if you wanna have some fun and see some real squirming... cut yourself a nice piece of ginger root and insert it into their bottom just prior to giving them a spanking.. and then hold on while they squirm and squeal and beg for it to be removed!

Ginger can be fun to play with if you are comfortable with your partner. And it works equally well for boys and girls. Yay for equality?

Gryphon · 07-20-2010, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Krunkman

Course, if you wanna have some fun and see some real squirming... cut yourself a nice piece of ginger root and insert it into their bottom just prior to giving them a spanking.. and then hold on while they squirm and squeal and beg for it to be removed!

Ginger can be fun to play with if you are comfortable with your partner. And it works equally well for boys and girls. Yay for equality?

Ah, figging. Making the sub watch (restrained) while you peel and carve the ginger builds anticipation, and the swats usually make her clench down on it, making the sensation more intense. Of course, I think it was originally an English public school thing dating back to Victorian times.