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CharismaCaptures · 03-22-2016, 08:15 PM

Doesnt our safety matter too

Im not mentioning any names ,But I had a gentlemen out of 6 resv ,1 gave me a false last name ,wouldnt provide me with hes real work number using hes throw away phone as hes personal and work.How is that going to make me feel safe knowing hes hiding something and he cant be truthful.
I dont care or give a crap if your married with 5 kids ,or going thru a divorce ,you have 2 speeding tickets .means nothing to me as long as I know you say who you are and your real ,Your coming to visit with me for conversation and in making a new friend .WTF our safety doesnt count
.You can have 10 reviews ,to 100 reviews means nothing to me if you cant provide me with who you are .majority of new friends are so happy that I screen for safety and they feel safe knowing I care about my safety I contacted an an escort who told me her asst would provide me with anything I asked. her reply back alot dont give out .personal info to protect them selves ,so she really doesnt care about the escort shes booking but only how many appts she can book to collect her monies .
things happen when you dont screen ,1 girl I know of got murdered last yr why she didnt screen another girl down south knew the gent saw a few ladies she thought she was safe and he was another Dexter ,she almost died but instead protected her self, struggled with the guy who actually had been killing escorts for quiet sometime and he ended up dead with hes own gun ,had these ladies screened they both would have been alive to this day
\.i prebook and do my research before traveling anywhere ,so I know before hand all newbie friendlies are fine too see .i dont keep your personal info once I find out your safe I delete everything from my laptop and my laptop by the way doesnt travel with me Boys in Blue can write reviews join these sites in letting you think he saw 10 ladies with in the past yr ..threatens the escort to keep quiet All of new england has had several bust with in the past few weeks .I dont need riff raff and drama be real and honest or be gone you dont care about my safety that just shows you can care less what happens to us ,So sad and disappointed to learn alot dont screen . like they say they do .what do you have to say ?

tandyscone · 03-22-2016, 09:20 PM

How does knowing a hobbyist's real name and place of employment keep you safe? If you delete the information from your laptop and then he kills you, does it matter that you knew his name and place of employment? If you're worried about LE, I am pretty sure they can fake a place of employment and ID.

Looking at it from the other side, you say that you don't keep the information, and that you don't travel with your laptop. How do hobbyists know that is true?

python54 · 03-23-2016, 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by CharismaCaptures

Doesnt our safety matter too

Im not mentioning any names ,But I had a gentlemen out of 6 resv ,1 gave me a false last name ,wouldnt provide me with hes real work number using hes throw away phone as hes personal and work.How is that going to make me feel safe knowing hes hiding something and he cant be truthful.
I dont care or give a crap if your married with 5 kids ,or going thru a divorce ,you have 2 speeding tickets .means nothing to me as long as I know you say who you are and your real ,Your coming to visit with me for conversation and in making a new friend .WTF our safety doesnt count
.You can have 10 reviews ,to 100 reviews means nothing to me if you cant provide me with who you are .majority of new friends are so happy that I screen for safety and they feel safe knowing I care about my safety I contacted an an escort who told me her asst would provide me with anything I asked. her reply back alot dont give out .personal info to protect them selves ,so she really doesnt care about the escort shes booking but only how many appts she can book to collect her monies .
things happen when you dont screen ,1 girl I know of got murdered last yr why she didnt screen another girl down south knew the gent saw a few ladies she thought she was safe and he was another Dexter ,she almost died but instead protected her self, struggled with the guy who actually had been killing escorts for quiet sometime and he ended up dead with hes own gun ,had these ladies screened they both would have been alive to this day
\.i prebook and do my research before traveling anywhere ,so I know before hand all newbie friendlies are fine too see .i dont keep your personal info once I find out your safe I delete everything from my laptop and my laptop by the way doesnt travel with me Boys in Blue can write reviews join these sites in letting you think he saw 10 ladies with in the past yr ..threatens the escort to keep quiet All of new england has had several bust with in the past few weeks .I dont need riff raff and drama be real and honest or be gone you dont care about my safety that just shows you can care less what happens to us ,So sad and disappointed to learn alot dont screen . like they say they do .what do you have to say ?

I totally agree. Safety is #1 if we are to have an enjoyable stress free experience. I finally got P411 and DC accounts that help both me the client as well as provides in feeling comfortable that all will go well. I'm done with the BP ladies and all the scams the money I've wasted when I could have spent time with someone smart and fun ladies. This is an under the radar hobby that needs to keep itself separate from human trafficking, pimps etc. I've learned to be patient until the right lady passes my way. Makes fun for all

CharismaCaptures · 03-23-2016, 07:09 AM

there are thousands of ways these days on the internet to look someone up with the ip address ,know someone in the phone company etc,,, . if you do your research it might take me 1 to 3 hrs to 24 hrs just to look up 1 person ,when I travel I make sure the hotel has a biz center . My exp laptop stays with a dear friend near my home or home far away from my trip, just incase as a precaution ,Ive had guys sent me pic of there license,after being in the biz for quiet sometime they know Im safe ,when Im done traveling and I make it home safe ALL is cleared out of my laptop .,history cookies etc,,,Yes Le can get fake names and biz but then again youll still find out its fake with him telling you he has a website but the website its not up hm but hes been in biz for several yrs,doesnt pan out . after doing your research if the company is legit its public records and you still have to do your research all over again its a pain in the ass ..its time and patient which normally takes 24 hrs just for 1 person ,even if the gent kills ya theres always my laptop at home .When doing outcalls i have someone know where I am going and the info just in case .id rather be extra careful then not careful at all . ;

CharismaCaptures · 03-23-2016, 07:39 PM

Whats the point in lying if I say I dont bring my mac laptop I dont bring it,I dont have to lie . .my girlfriend in ny brought her apple laptop le knows how to get into your laptop and anything you have on there they use it against you , Im looking to make new friends thats it ,plan and simple .,if you travel and stay at a **** star hotel normally all have biz centers .its not that difficult to run downstairs and check your emails.twice a day .screen screen screen safety safety 1st . .

pyramider · 03-23-2016, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by CharismaCaptures

there are thousands of ways these days on the internet to look someone up with the ip address ,know someone in the phone company etc,,, . if you do your research it might take me 1 to 3 hrs to 24 hrs just to look up 1 person ,when I travel I make sure the hotel has a biz center . My exp laptop stays with a dear friend near my home or home far away from my trip, just incase as a precaution ,Ive had guys sent me pic of there license,after being in the biz for quiet sometime they know Im safe ,when Im done traveling and I make it home safe ALL is cleared out of my laptop .,history cookies etc,,,Yes Le can get fake names and biz but then again youll still find out its fake with him telling you he has a website but the website its not up hm but hes been in biz for several yrs,doesnt pan out . after doing your research if the company is legit its public records and you still have to do your research all over again its a pain in the ass ..its time and patient which normally takes 24 hrs just for 1 person ,even if the gent kills ya theres always my laptop at home .When doing outcalls i have someone know where I am going and the info just in case .id rather be extra careful then not careful at all . ;

If its so easy to figure out who one is then why do you need name, address, company name, and company phone number? Do you supply the same information to the fucktards after they show you theirs?

Kendall4U · 03-23-2016, 08:33 PM

If a gent has references that will vouch for him & he's been around a while why in the world would you need his RW info? Do you dole out your personal number, your birth name, and where you work....if you have a real job? Come on. If you are too scared to travel and feel like you can't trust the ladies in the area you are visiting perhaps you should stay home. If the guys are smart they won't give up any RW info. Too many BSC hookers on the loose.

anita · 03-23-2016, 08:36 PM

I only request personal information from newbies only. But do what makes you feel safe, you shouldn't have to explain why this is the way that works for you. The gents that want to comply to your screening requirements will, and those who don't can find another lovely lady to meet. It is that simple.

pyramider · 03-23-2016, 08:42 PM

I personally thinck all of the ladies should send me taint photos for evaluation purposes.

dearhunter · 03-23-2016, 08:49 PM

BSC whores always want real world info. It helps keep the fucktard in line. No bad review. No matter how bad the session was.

Wakeup · 03-23-2016, 09:16 PM

Your rules...ask for what you want...

We can decide if we want to give it to you or not...

twelvetypes · 03-23-2016, 09:32 PM

I would never give my RL info unless you DOUBLE-pinky-swear that you are not a cop! And then, when I text you "FR?", you better answer "FRFR, lol".

I also send a fake dick pic just to be safe. I'm a real left-leaner and I don't want that to be a deal breaker.

CharismaCaptures · 03-24-2016, 12:49 AM

I want to see your fake snake lmao do you send a big one,a long one ,a hairless one ,can you roll it up and make it look like a hotdog sitting on a bun ,if you bend it in half put your twins on each side it will look like a hamburger .

intldjgig · 03-24-2016, 04:32 AM

CharismaCaptures · 03-24-2016, 07:30 AM

Id rather new friends email me with references and tell me they belong to other boards as well ,if you dont plan on giving me your RL dont waste my time filling out my resv form ,its a waste of my time ,Just say i dont feel comfortable giving you my rl or my work # but i belong to this board and that board and if the references you gave me I cant verify then its my choice on whether I want to see you or not ,I dont want to make waves with anyone ,Im a friendly sweet person with a bubble attitude .and I can make you laugh and tell you funny jokes . I dont want any one to feel uncomfortable thats not what this is all about ..look at it from our point of view there are about 70% of providers that lie ,and the other 30% do not.and when Im givin references some providers are traveling they dont get back to you fast enough, or they cant remember,and by the time they get back to you its too late.and if you call them they are wondering how you got their number they yell at you .Ouch .