Jealousy/Arousal

[flinde]

When I read about one of the flinde harem doing something particularly nasty and degrading that I showed her with some lucky horndog, I sometimes feel proud.

[robexar]

I used to get pissed reading my regular's reviews because she will not do greek with me because my cock is too thick, so it would drive me crazy reading about the other guys.
I just stopped reading reviews.
Problem solved!

[Guest101618]

Jealousy is something I got over a number of years ago. It is the path to the Dark side, I know.

Envy, now that is an emotion that can rule my soul. I often feel envy reading reviews, and not just of providers I know or have been with. The envy is directed towards the mongers with more funds, or more imagination than I have. It is all good because I use it for motivation and inspiration. I've always believed in aiming high and some of you guys set an extremely high bar! Five hotties at once? Really?



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[pickupkid]

So if you are falling in lover with provider.....DON'T DO IT It rarely works out....you will be jealous,,,among other problems. Step back... See someone else.

[CoverMe]

Originally Posted by Rover14

....some of you guys set an extremely high bar! Five hotties at once? Really?

[Guest010619]

Originally Posted by Rover14

The envy is directed towards the mongers with more funds, or more imagination than I have.
Five hotties at once?
Really?



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That record will probably fall one day.
Till then... whoop whoop!

[Kimber Rose]

Originally Posted by Rover14

Jealousy is something I got over a number of years ago. It is the path to the Dark side, I know.

Envy, now that is an emotion that can rule my soul. I often feel envy reading reviews, and not just of providers I know or have been with. The envy is directed towards the mongers with more funds, or more imagination than I have. It is all good because I use it for motivation and inspiration. I've always believed in aiming high and some of you guys set an extremely high bar! Five hotties at once? Really?



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Wow! I love your honesty! You men are who you are ha ha and testosterone is something else..then again that’s what makes you which is very much needed! I say we all need to love and be loved and if you aren’t able to love ON a certain person at the time then what’s wrong with someone else filling in? Or at least turn that jealous energy into revenge sex the next time you see her/him, that’s so much hotter!

[sms918]

how do I respond?
I'm not good at emotions, so even though I hear about these issues all the time in hobby and real life. It's not something I grasp.

but in hobby, both sides need to separate sex and emotions, or stop hobbying.

Like strawberry skye said, it is all over the hobby world sadly. hobbyists and providers. it can a minefield.

Me personally, had providers get upset over me seeing other providers. had hobbyists tell me or a provider that they didn't like me seeing a certain provider. had providers tell me their SO didn't want me seeing her again. had providers tell me they couldn't see me again because they felt real emotions and realized it had to stop.

I like being friends with hobbyists and providers and some of my favorites sessions were because of their suggestions.

the arousal
yea I'm probably sick. oh well
I like hearing about sessions from hobbyists and providers. Like my own personal porn. During sessions, telling me the good, the bad, the unusual. being a voyeur sounds like fun.