seeing a provider who doesn't screen or ask for reference 🤔

[Hot Summer]

I don't even ask about jobs and your name could be whatever you want it to be lol ...but my screening does involve pictures .

[Hot Summer]

what's not true babe ?

[Greatfun36]

Is a picture the only way you screen?
Besides references?

[Hot Summer]

References is your best bet all the way around

[Luvmesum69]

My question is how do you verify a provider?

[Hot Summer]

You have 10 encounters I'd say you already know how hun.

[Luvmesum69]

I do but never really screened. Just went off reviews mostly.

[Hot Summer]

I'd call that a screening if you are only seeing verified providers with recent reviews

[Hot Summer]

But if you are picking a lady off skip the games and they ask no questions and are not verified....I couldn't tell you how to screen them . id say stick to whats working for you now .

[Sarah Renee]

I ask for several pieces of info that keeps from confusing two people with the same first name and age. I didn’t used to do that, but I started when one client (who is now a longtime regular) almost was denied because he matched up with someone of another race and criminal history. I used to keep the forms for six months and then delete them. Now I only keep them after the session if there was a problem. I always find something that stands out to help jog my memory later.

[Mrust]

From a noob pov I don't know how to answer this. Maybe that's why I haven't been a hobbies as much as I think about trying it. I'm married, very well known & respected in the community. I met a semi local girl off bp once and it turned into a SD arrangement until she got strung out and started calling and demanding tons of cash to keep my secret. Long story short we settled our differences. But I have never been screened, don't feel comfortable putting a picture out in the world, I do use a fake name and profile on fb to chat and have had pretty good luck with armatures but no one I would ask to be a reference. I am concerned with my safety and totally understand a providers need for safety but I don't know if I agree with ridged screening. I read once to simply ask to see boob's before anything is ever discussed and even to touch. A cop wouldn't show them, and for her to ask if she can see mine or touch it, cop won't do that either. Idk what the answer is and I just wrote way to many words here lol but as a conscious newbie too many questions would probably scare me off.

[Sarah Renee]

Actually an undercover detective can finish the session and walk out allowing the provider to be arrested after the fact. I know this to be true because it happened to me.

If someone doesn’t want to screen, then I do offer a meet and greet, if I feel like he has a presence on one of the hobby sites. It’s very easy to be sitting next to each other and strike up a conversation with a perfect stranger.

I don’t really have a problem with a fake name either. That would be a little hypocritical if I did.

I guess I have been lucky because I don’t see too many new clients these days. It’s a scary world we live in and I can’t imagine starting in this day and age. My guess is, a gal will gain spidey senses really quick.

[Mrust]

Totally agree with a meet and greet, I've bought many lunches and dinners a couple of years ago I even took a girl Christmas shopping for her kids just to get to know each other better. Maybe I need to stick to the SD role but that's getting harder as my free time becomes limited.