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Old 06-16-2020, 01:28 PM   #16
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I don't see anything wrong with you asking these questions because there are plenty of discussions on these formums that are based upon racist things towards black people so if you want to ask a question about why there's racism in the sex industry you have every right to
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Old 06-16-2020, 01:31 PM   #17
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My only thing I can say to black men or men of color is stop begging providers to see you if they don't want to see you move to providers that are more and willing to see you which there is a lot of us

there's no way in hell that I would beg someone to see me that can't stand the sight of me if you need a list of providers that see African American men I suggest going to Twitter as they announce who they see

Don't attempt to spend your money where it is not welcomed
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Old 06-16-2020, 03:34 PM   #18
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Seems to me it should be up to the provider and/or her "manager".
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Old 06-16-2020, 04:01 PM   #19
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It’s not Racist!!! A provider can see “ anyone “ they like... anyone!!!
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Old 06-16-2020, 04:11 PM   #20
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See where I said "just a guess"??????????
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Old 06-16-2020, 04:26 PM   #21
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Yada yada yada....women seeking an abortion. But That’s the republican way, isn’t it? Hypocrisy at its best. I have found so much entertainment here recently. [/QUOTE]

You sure appear to be hung up on "Women Seeking an Abortion". This is the 3rd time you've cried about it. Is there something that you need to get off of your chest...?

I agree, this shit is quite entertaining But, it feels like I'm playing Connect 4 up in this B Not even Checkers, and I prefer Chess...

Off to cardio and enjoy this beautiful sunny day, toodles!
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Old 06-17-2020, 03:33 AM   #22
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I think most women say they want the ability to choose when it comes to their body. As a man I choose also. I say instead of thinking about the ones that disagree with your choice just seek out the ones that do. If you try to make someone do something they don't want to do are you not removing their right to choose. There's always someone out there in this world and the RW that has the same wants and needs as you
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Old 06-17-2020, 05:35 AM   #23
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The often reviewed so called "Illusion of Passion" is, it is just that, an illusion. Many providers try to compartmentalize their emotional involvement with their various partners during the sex act. And yet, no provider is a machine. I once saw a presentation on the psychology of sex, maybe it was on Dr. Phyll, or maybe it was on the radio . . .in any case, the "expert" guest made the point that most of what we call having sex takes place in your head.

I can feel attracted to many types of women. I once briefly flirted with a Cambodian woman. Her completion was as dark as many African American women. But when I hobby here in the USA, African American women just don't get me going . . .at all. This is far more complex than being a racist. Think of the exploitation that went on in the anti-bellum south, or during the days of reconstruction or the later Jim Crow era.

In all things, a woman in The Hobby or in The Real World has full controll of hersexuality, from birth control and "family planning" to who she chooses to be intimate with . . .Period.

What ever happened to the concept of "No means NO!"?
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Old 06-17-2020, 08:09 AM   #24
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Sure women and men have the right to see who they want to yada yada yada blah blah blah.

But it just seems odd that of all the different types of men out there, AA men and women are the ones that seem to stick out most. Usually by white men and women.

You sometimes see no asians or no mexicans but it pales in comparison.

You see people make it known in public the desire to avoid AA men or women, yet in private, I've had more than a few white women tell me they most desire AA men. Unprovoked. Yet you rarely see that put in public.

The whole "no AA" thing tells me a woman is willing to take a chance to see a fat, balding, stinking white man over a black man that looks like Tyson Beckford or Chico Debarge. AA men are as varied in looks and attitude as anyone else. So the whole thing is just odd.

So if you want to make your desire of "no AA" public, then people have the right to also voice their opinion about that in public.

Like or dislike it, people can see who they want, and same token people can discuss what they want.
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Joslynn... it’s not discrimination

Any one can choose what they prefer, even you!
It's not a preference either.
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This is not the BBB. You're PAYING for PUSSY... Stay in your feelings, there is someone for everyone and plenty of moolah to go around...

Another beautiful day, Happy Hobbying!
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So she won't see AA men . . .So What?

What exactly is wanted to change this?

How big a deal is this really? Will we see Antifa or Black Lives Matter doing anything about this? will we see Nancyu Pelosi bring a vote in the hAouse of Reps to require providers to be race-neutral? ?what about Hobbyist assistance in the next 3-4 trillion pandemic bill?
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I can feel attracted to many types of women. I once briefly flirted with a Cambodian woman. Her completion was as dark as many African American women. But when I hobby here in the USA, African American women just don't get me going . . .at all. This is far more complex than being a racist. Think of the exploitation that went on in the anti-bellum south, or during the days of reconstruction or the later Jim Crow era.
To biggy back on ICU quote above. I am a boob guy. I once dated a wonderful women who ticked off all the boxes, but I found her boobs unattractive, and it was a boner killer for me. I really tried hard to overcome that issue but couldn't.

I see providers of all color, white, Hispanic,black, and asian as long as they have the nipple sytle I like. It doesnt matter me to what color her skin is. But, if she does not have the nipple style i like it will be difficult for me to get off.
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The one comment that did bother me was that a young provider posted that she had been robbed by an AA male after a session. Another escort on this board posted that she should have expected that seeing an AA male. Using this logic will greatly increase her odds of being a danger to herself and others. I know that I would be nervous to see her knowing that her only criteria was that she didn’t see AA men.
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Old 06-17-2020, 12:13 PM   #30
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This is not the BBB. You're PAYING for PUSSY... Stay in your feelings, there is someone for everyone and plenty of moolah to go around...

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I dont think any of this is personal or about "feelings" since its not about a single individual.

If AA men got something to say about women openly saying "No AA", then so be it. Whats the problem with that?

I mean a "provider" can easily just say that "I"m highly selective" without singling out all AA men (and in that process still deny all AA men). Same outcome. But nobody hardly ever goes that route do they? Just brashly and openly "no AA".
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