Quote:
Originally Posted by siberia
The common excuse when they
won't give a reference is
I DON'T REMEMBER HIM.
A provider seen a guy 3
times & can't recall, really?
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In my defense (not saying you're talking about me...that I know of) I usually don't remember. A girl contacts me about "Joe Blow" that I saw last month in Conway and that's all the info you gives me to remember this guy. I saw a lot of guys in Conway, a need a little more. Maybe a screen name, something he said/did that stands out, a phone number, email, something. He can easily say I've seen him 3 times but was that 3 times over the course of a year or 3 times just last month?
When I check references, I give the girls ALL the info he gave me. I get screen name, phone number and/or email that he contacted me with, when/where he last saw her, and if there's something that would easily trigger her memory (talked about fav food, house keeping knocked and scared us, exchanged gifts, etc).