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Originally Posted by Zhivago52
...There's something about the anonymity of it all. Walking into a room and seeing a provider waiting for me whilst wearing a mask. She can see who I am, but I wouldn't be able to recognize her....adds a lot of intensity, especially first time meetings.
You're right...blindfolds are a submissive thing. Blindfolds on first dates I've only tried a couple of times....both went spectacularly well. In one instance, one lady waited for me in bed wearing one (she was quite brave) and "squirted" for the first time in years it was so intense for her. We both loved the experience and plan to play it out again.
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Originally Posted by badbadgirl2013
I have a client who I still haven't seen. He let's himself in and I wait for him, usually kneeling, naked apart from a blindfold. He drives me crazy! I love wearing blindfolds, but he is the only client I have never 'seen'.
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Originally Posted by Zhivago52
badbadgirl: I have a lady here who has not seen me yet either. ...
I instructed her to lie on the bed blindfolded with legs open. She left the door unlocked. She heard me walk in and I showered off while looking at her lying on the bed. She knew I was watching. ...
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We meet infrequently to play out this scene with a few variations. Infrequent so that the "stranger" element remains fresh and exciting every time. I knew I was on the right track when she told me she tells her provider friends about it.......
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yep, a blindfold is much different than a mask. the former about deprivation. the latter about anonymity. both are deliteful!!
years ago, i met Doll, a provider who was very submissive. after several months, she asked if i wanted to meet her sub friend Lilly. she said i could use her in anyway i wanted, except anal. Doll vouched for me and Lilly agreed. i was to call her when i got to the hotel. I asked Doll if i could have Lilly do specific things for me and she said Lilly was a good sub and would do as i asked.
when i arrived at her hotel, i called her and told her to be naked on her knees facing away from the door, be blindfolded, and leave the door unlocked.
being the good sub that she was, she did all that - i walked in to admire her nakedness from behind as i locked the door. i did talk w/ her and told her she was there expressly for my own delites. what followed was 85 mins of oral, sensual, sexual, and deliteful pleasures and orgasms, mainly for me, but i let her have an orgasm or two. i never told her what i was planning on doing next, i just told her to do what i wanted.
after i was thru and showered, we sat on the couch in the room and had her snuggle up against me - i complimented her on her subness and all the delites she just gave me. she asked if she could take the blindfold off and i told her NO! i told her she would be able to see me in another week and find out then. she agreed, but a few minutes later, i relented and let her take it off and see me just before i left the room.
i met her several more times over the next few years and she often would waiting for me naked, in a bustier or in stockings but
always blindfolded, facing away from when when i got in. each time, i would command her to remove my pants and take lil delites into her mouth for quite a while before we started more delites.
several times, i would put earplugs in her ears to do even more sensory deprivation.
several times, i would tie her legs and arms to a table's legs. or tie her to a bed.
then use her for my pleasure. she was a very very deliteful and obedient submissive!!
occassionally, i would let her dominate me for the 30 mins or so of our encounters. tho not as obedient as her, i enjoyed that activity as well.
i've blindfolded many other provider subs and a few non-submissive providers.
but i sure wish i could meet another provider sub like Lilly or Doll.
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Originally Posted by texasvisitor
That is soooo hot! I love the idea of a 3some with one person blindfolded so they don't know who is doing what to them. Naked and kneeling blindfolded certainly paints an interesting picture as well.  |
i did several threesomes w/ Lilly and Doll - blindfolding and restraining one while the other woman and i used and directed her.
one time, i let them blindfold and restrain me. tho is was deliteful, i was not a very good submissive.
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Originally Posted by speeedracer
i never thought of masks as being erotic until i visited Venice, and after walking through shop after shop of some of the most gorgeous pieces of work i've ever seen, they're now my favorite. ...
every time i see this pic, i melt
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that is a great mask!!! and a great looking woman.
imagine finding her like that as you open the door to her boudoir!!
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Originally Posted by JennsLolli
A yard of nice lace can be purchased at any fabric store and it serves as a decent mask -- easy to see-through for the wearer, too. Hoods seem to be another fetish all together. Beyond making things feel anonymous, hoods are more about stripping identity. The wearer gets to experience extreme sensory deprivation and the non-wearer is more able to dehumanize their partner -- makes a person a set of fuck-holes/stick and less of a person.
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now that's a great idea - lace or something knitted or crocheted to partially deprive her of sight. plus, i can imagine that the feeling of lace on her face is sublime.
i'll ask one of my fav slightly sub providers to pick some up for our next encounter.
kinda like what i just found in the Beautiful BDSM photos thread.
http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=123
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Originally Posted by Zhivago52
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one of the hoods that Lilly had was shaped similarly to this - but it covered all of her head and face and just left access to her mouth.
i would blindfold her, put that on her and then make her fellate me for a long time! talk about face fucking!
when i get to my stash of photos, i'll post an image of her wearing it.
also found this in the BDSM photos thread - deliteful!!!! oh, and the bed's pretty nice too. :^)
http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=127
