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Guest042514 · 03-24-2014, 11:51 PM

Ignore ignore ignore

Glenn Quagmire · 03-25-2014, 12:11 AM

It's infected a lot of cities. Houston and Dallas are no better. I really miss the old days.

Some will point the finger at a few lightning rod ladies, but in my mind, it is the handful of men that react so venomously that are more to blame in my opinion. Same story in Dallas. Houston's been an extremely aggressive for a long time.

I feel for you ladies, being treated like a commodity instead of a person on the other end of that keyboard with feelings, and issues that got you into the biz in the first place.

Guys will talk shit, but why they do it in coed and not in our leaky assed private forum, I don't know. Then again, the threADs are tiresome and I wish we could do away with all sig lines.

That's my PWI 2 cents.

Lazrback · 03-25-2014, 02:02 AM

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Due to the constant onslaught of personal attacks, bile, drama, nonsense & hostile negativity by 3 (very obvious) posters --

#4 - Blatant insults or hostility toward another member will be met with staff intervention. This applies to using our coed forums for name calling, personal attacks, or vulgar slang terms to describe fellow members. If you have legitimate concerns about another member here, share them tactfully in the appropriate private forums or with staff.

I've decided not to continue participating in the banter on this board.

Many of our other valued posters have obviously already made the same decision. If that's YOU, please let the mods know how you feel. The more people that speak up, the more likely it is that something will be done.

Personally, I will not continue to allow these 3 people to have a negative impact on my mood.

I will post ads and answer PM's... And that's about it.

I might be back -- IF the mods can 'reign' them in and make this a friendly and inviting place for everyone.

Until then...

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Originally Posted by bladtinzu

Insulting remarks again?? Seriously??

I don't see your name listed anywhere in her thread,,, guilty conscience much?

But in actuality, can a fact be an insult?

I don't know, but I do know staff is definitely not asleep, however if this is the only thread you have read in co-ed today I can see where you might think so. The problem is, I told St. C when I took this job, that I would enforce the guidelines equally. That means the same for everyone, not worse for trolls or better for the people I actually respect, but equally.

You guys are lucky, you can use the ignore function, I can't,, talk about unfair... But that is what I suggest you do. If you find any members input unacceptable then by all mean put them on ignore, that is why we make the function available to you.

How to add people to your ignore list.

Flyboy182 · 03-25-2014, 06:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Hogfan69

If everyone would just put them on IGNORE and stop responding, stop quoting, and just fucking IGNORE them, they won't bother you. If the mods won't do something, do it yourself.

I was here before these childish idiots and I refuse to let them get to me. They're fun to slap around and make fools of when they do and say stupid things, but they're harmless if you take control of the situation yourselves.

The above post might be the most mature and practical response of all even though many threads will become quite confusing. I happen to agree with Lazrback's statement....a good mod needs to enforce the rules blind to their views as to whether one is participating in making the board better or pushing their own strange little agenda.

This can be a good thing. Less time socializing on the board, leaves more time for making money, yielding more hobby funds to make more wonderful experiences possible. The threads can be fun, and it is nice to see a glimpse of one another's humor or insight, but it isn't fun and is a waste of time to engage trolls. I'm not sorry I did so yet, but I would be if I did it again.

These ladies put up wonderful showcases and take their time to respond via PM or their preferred form of communication. Reviews can go a long way toward determining the probability of mutual fun. If you are only after singular fun, or only in it for the money, viewing your partner as only a john or a hooker, then you are truly experiencing no more than half of the reward, whether that is monetary or sexual.

Hogfan69 · 03-25-2014, 06:05 AM

There also needs to be a reverse ignore feature where you can block them from seeing what you're saying. If everyone was able to do that, they would know we were laughing at them, but it would drive them crazy not knowing what was said. I doubt it's possible, but that would be very effective.

LittleRockLover · 03-25-2014, 06:26 AM

Ginger, thank you for posting this. I couldn't agree more. Many times I find myself wanting to respond to their venom but then I sigh and realize their not worth the effort or attention that they so obviously crave.

prettiniceguy · 03-25-2014, 08:14 AM

This is the first post I've made on this board in exactly one month (look at my stats) and it's been over a month since I posted a review....the reason is the negativity! ECCIE = Escort Client Community Information Exchange. I try to post information and useful comments, but with the remarks that sometimes follow, it's just not worth it. There are occasional threads posted that are VERY helpful and members actually work together on ideas and opinions which improve this site. Those threads are few and far between. Until the attitudes are dealt with....I'm out. (those causing the issues here really won't give a crap)

Ladies' Gent · 03-25-2014, 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by prettiniceguy

This is the first post I've made on this board in exactly one month (look at my stats) and it's been over a month since I posted a review....the reason is the negativity! ECCIE = Escort Client Community Information Exchange. I try to post information and useful comments, but with the remarks that sometimes follow, it's just not worth it. There are occasional threads posted that are VERY helpful and members actually work together on ideas and opinions which improve this site. Those threads are few and far between. Until the attitudes are dealt with....I'm out. (those causing the issues here really won't give a crap)

There are many of us that feel the exact same way. I've seen this day coming straight at us like a freight train for quite some time and have even raised multiple flags that it was happening...yet the arsonists are allowed to continue to set the fires and make sure the house burns completely down...I'm out too.

Wakeup · 03-25-2014, 01:52 PM

Look at all the little children taking their balls and going home...

Grow up, or get out...either way, the board won't miss any of you...

urhuckleberry · 03-25-2014, 02:24 PM

Lazrback said:

You guys are lucky, you can use the ignore function, I can't,, talk about unfair... But that is what I suggest you do. If you find any members input unacceptable then by all mean put them on ignore, that is why we make the function available to you.

How to add people to your ignore list.[/QUOTE]

You can also ignore interlopers whose sole purpose is to ridicule and stir the pot of discontent.

Huck

Wakeup · 03-25-2014, 03:36 PM

Nice try huck...but no one gives a shit about them...least of all a moderator...

Flyboy182 · 03-25-2014, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Sexy_Brittany

Defending oneself from constant personal attacks can be exhausting. Sarcastic, witty chiding cannot be compared with the mean spirited, unprovoked, hateful comments I've been reading lately.

I'm ashamed to admit that someone like Blad could have any impact on my daily life, but.. His attacks on my personal appearance have caused me to have an extreme case of BDD - Body Dismorphic Disorder. I can't work, I can't go out with friends, I can barely leave my apartment. I absolutely hate myself, and the way I look and everyday is completely horrible for me. His insults and horse face comments ring in my head every minute that I'm awake.

I'm not fishing for compliments and I definitely don't need any sympathy so please don't PM me with praises or appointment requests. I'm also not editing this because if I do then I'm afraid I'll talk myself out of posting, so please forgive any spelling or syntax errors.

Damnit. Just damnit.

Thank you for sharing it, as it couldn't have been easy to do. I think people need to realize the harm that can occur from attacks like have occurred here. Honoring your request not to compliment or state the obvious....we can't always control our brains and anyone that intentionally causes such to another person should feel like shit....or in case they aren't capable of that, have the shit kicked out of them.

AmishGangster · 03-25-2014, 04:32 PM

Do all the whiny asses around here realize they are on a hooker board and not eharmony?

BabyDallass · 03-25-2014, 04:39 PM

Wow! Brittany! I had no idea that happened to you. Your gorgeous and one guys stupid opinion shouldn't stop your show and shine! Fuck him and Don`t let him win! It goes to show that some people do not handle ridicule well at all, and what a low life he is for putting you through that! Come back and post sexy pictures like before! Fuck that loser, ugh what a real piece of shit!

masterlock · 03-25-2014, 04:50 PM

This is why I don't like to post on here. It's like high school all over again on here. Somebody hides behind a screen and starts crap just to get off on it. Is life really that bad ? I think ecciebook is a better name for this site since it reminds me of Facebook. Sometimes in life just got to learn when not to respond to the ones that starts it because they know they done their job when you reply back. Who cares what someone thinks? What they think don't matter its what you think means the most. To the ones on here cyber bullying needs to look in the mirror. I just hope your getting of good because it won't last forever.... Treat others like you want to be treated on a message, off, and in your personal life. It really comes to show you who has morals and respect on here....

Follow the buzzards !!!!