Recovering (sort of) from radical prostatetectomy & compliations. Any suggestions for "patient' gals?

[Big Roscoe]

I recently had a radical prostatetectomy and am not really up to par yet. Being a 'cocksman' was always part of my makeup, I suppose. Indeed, more than I realized, lol.



Any suggestions for "patient' providers who might deal with a guy in my situation without making me feel like a total shlub? My self-image is sort of in the dumps right now. Hair and muscle mass loss from the chemo and radiation, and of course my best pal, Roscoe is "quite confused" and not fully cooperating.



A couple of 'bros' reached out (thanks again fellas) but my cursory research revealed the "no black men' thing. I don't really know what the deal is, lol. Except in Nebraska and it's environs, I've never ran into that even in "southern" venues 'such as New Orleans and Houston during 30+ years of mongering. So... I grabbed a stock internet avatar entitled "Black Nerd" to add to my profile, b/c after all, this sh*t is supposed to be fun, lol.


Cheers,
bigRoscoe

[rodneylarue]

Hey man, best wishes to you in your situation. Regardless of what you find here, I wish you the best.

[farmstud60]

Best of Luck to you man, sounds like you have had quite the health battle going on.


I think the big thing with No Black men around here is that too many of them would rather act like a pimp or cause other issues that make women feel unsafe. Easier to just say no to all of them instead of trying to sort the high percentage of people out. Sucks for the good guys though.

[Lolove]

Myself , or my friends Farmers Daughter Jane & Lora Lay are all very accommodating.

Best wishes

Xxxo
Bliss

[Luxie]

Messaged. <3

[Big Roscoe]

Originally Posted by farmstud60

Best of Luck to you man, sounds like you have had quite the health battle going on.


I think the big thing with No Black men around here is that too many of them would rather act like a pimp or cause other issues that make women feel unsafe. Easier to just say no to all of them instead of trying to sort the high percentage of people out. Sucks for the good guys though.

@farmstud: Yeah... maybe. Still, years ago I recall a few gals who were relatively new at that time (e.g. Saraxxx, Lexi Layne) telling me that they just did it b/c ''That's what everybody around here does" and that the den-mothers and matriarchs instructed them to do so.


On the other hand, I also had other gals say that their 'boyfriends' (read that as you will) didn't want them to see black men, notwithstanding that those same fellows were either men of color or white guys who fancied themselves more streetwise than the average bear. See, those types of cats don't see "EARNies & Bobs" as presenting any type of threat to peel their females as they have little to no game.


Any road... it's ALL based upon assumptions and bs anyway, lo.


Peace,


bigRoscoe

[Big Roscoe]

Thank you dear. Please check my response to your pm.

[Big Roscoe]

Originally Posted by Lolove

Myself , or my friends Farmers Daughter Jane & Lora Lay are all very accommodating.

Best wishes

Xxxo
Bliss

Thank you for reaching out, sweetheart. Do your aforementioned girlfriends also have showcases on here?



Nota Bene: I responded to your pm.


Cheers,


bigRoscoe

[Ellieinkc]

You should consider a edging session with me. I am very skilled and patient. Also a cancer survivor, so I understand your pain. I will be in town next week!

[LayneLaughlin]

I would be happy to spend time with a gentleman, regardless of color. You are welcome to reach anytime if you are interested. :-*

Hope things will start looking up for ya dear...literally and figuratively! Good luck to you.

[tinman483]

I think you should do an encounter report on who the lovely provider was that helped you thru this!