Racial Scenes?

[Caitlyn]

In the past week, I have had 2 requests to do racial scenes. I don't really feel comfortable with that.. am I weird... or do some of you feel the same? I just don't like it... Makes me feel funny....

[papadee]

What do you mean by "racial scenes"? Racial namecalling and degradation? Or just interracial. The former I'm no fan of either. Degrading namecalling isn't my thing period. The latter is always your choice.

[TexTushHog]

I'm with papadee. What the hell is a "racial scene"?

[Caitlyn]

The name calling and degradation as stated above by papadee.

Tush.. How have you been???

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

I've done them before... one of my first BDSM clients was really into BD and after our first session he sent me this afterwards with thank you note. I may have to read it.

[Kitten]

Originally Posted by Caitlyn

In the past week, I have had 2 requests to do racial scenes. I don't really feel comfortable with that.. am I weird... or do some of you feel the same? I just don't like it... Makes me feel funny....

Caitlyn,

I am the kind to follow my true inner self. I am a submissive , not degradation , just a natural sub. I am not sure I would or could even bring myself to something of that degree. I have never been asked to do something of that nature. I am positive I would decline if I had.

Perhaps it is because I do not see race as a color. I see the person and make my judgement based off that. Bad people come in all shapes , colors and ages so I guess that makes me bias to racial issues.

[Randall Creed]

Racial scenes for a massage?


Interesting.

[nubuzz2010]

Degradation is a hard limit for many, seems to me this falls into that category.

[Nikkiforfun]

I am not comfortable with racially degrading scenes. It's just not something I'm into or interested in.

[Waldo P. Emerson-Jones]

Originally Posted by Caitlyn

The name calling and degradation as stated above by papadee.

Would you be doing the name calling and degradation or would it be him? Not sure it really makes a difference.

[Iaintliein]

It's supposed to be entertainment. If everyone is an adult and everyone agrees with the plan then I don't see anything wrong with it. Fantasies can be based on race, or myth, or history, or just a vivid imagination.

Some scenarios that come to mind would be the black male dominated by the white provider in an anti-bellum themed encounter ending with role reversal. Even hotter IMHO would be to substitute a black provider for the black male in the scene. I know some guys (presumably raised Catholic) get off on the Nun fantasy, and here's a really twisted one. . . would a Jewish client get off on the Illsa; She wolf of the SS fantasy? My guess is that if you can dream it up, someone, somewhere, will think it's great!

Just be safe, have fun, and realize it's just a fantasy. And no one wants their fantasy to become reality, in my experience.

[Caitlyn]

@RamboCreed-- I do Massage AND Domination, and have for 11 years.