A Polite Reminder to the Ladies of Things That Should Be Perfectly Obvious

[Jemma Martin]

Originally Posted by NIKKILOVE

LMAO, so what? You would like us to just take clothes off and get to it? Well, I understand all the complaints you guys must have, but you should also realize, that although you may not want the small covo to warm things up, some do. In fact, most of my visits are started by conversation STARTED BY THE GUY, asking how the day has been, etc...some guys talk about their wives, kids, bills, businesses, trucks, cars, etc.. because some are paying for TIME, so, some times, unless we have seen you before and know what NOT to say, we just start talking. I mean, I wont talk about kids, late bills, or dramma, because I dont have any. But i am pretty personalable with my visits, when its a mutual convo. Iv'e had a lot of guys walk in, never say shit, I try to talk to them, they still dont say shit, and that's just rude in my book, but i guess we are all different.


Note to self: DO NOT SPEAK TO ECCIE guys, just take your clothes off and get to it..

I agree with you on this. If I don't get comfortable with the guy then our time isn't going to go well. If a guy didn't say shit and was rude to me then I'd ask him to leave because I'd just feel awkward. But then there are certain times where the guy just talks and talks and talks and I just want to gag him LOL! I think talking is fine to get to know someone, but not to the point where it drives the other person crazy. I guess it all depends on the situation really.

[Guest071514-1]

Originally Posted by NIKKILOVE

LMAO, so what? You would like us to just take clothes off and get to it? Well, I understand all the complaints you guys must have, but you should also realize, that although you may not want the small covo to warm things up, some do. In fact, most of my visits are started by conversation STARTED BY THE GUY, asking how the day has been, etc...some guys talk about their wives, kids, bills, businesses, trucks, cars, etc.. because some are paying for TIME, so, some times, unless we have seen you before and know what NOT to say, we just start talking. I mean, I wont talk about kids, late bills, or dramma, because I dont have any. But i am pretty personalable with my visits, when its a mutual convo. Iv'e had a lot of guys walk in, never say shit, I try to talk to them, they still dont say shit, and that's just rude in my book, but i guess we are all different.


Note to self: DO NOT SPEAK TO ECCIE guys, just take your clothes off and get to it..

You are correct, lots of guys like a little chit chat before getting down to business. I usually greet with a hug and a kiss and it helps to lighten the mood. Some just come in and throw down the donation and give that look that its time for business, so I drop to my knees and handle mine. I don't care if they look at me like a human being or not if they are paying lol. All I can offer is a great experience either way. Take care of their fantasy and they always come back. If they want a little chit chat then alot of those I become friends with and we have a mutual respect. I don't care, its up to the guy. Donation out first and counted then I'll be your sex slave and give what you want!!!

[NIKKILOVE]

... when are you going to learn that?[/quote]


I don't need to learn that, Im not an idiot by any means. That's why I chose who I see. I don't feel real comfortable just sticking some guys dick in my mouth when he walks through the door. Just as you want your dick hard so you can fuck, id like my pussy to get wet so you can fuck me and not get a shitty session from me, so I chose to talk to kind of get comfortable. But, that's just how I am. May not be that way for every one. Remember, YOU chose who you go to see, WE do not, so for us it may take a little more than seeing your dick or lack of to get in the mood.

... When are you going to learn that?

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by NIKKILOVE

... ... When are you going to learn that?

A long time ago ... when I decided I preferred the company of ladies.

[enderwiggin]

With regards to conversation, ladies... Personally, I welcome it. But when you start talking about your home life, husbands, kids, etc, you start to sound like the teacher in a Peanuts cartoon to me. "WAAA-waaa-WAAAA-waaaaa-WAAAAAA-waaaa-WAAAAAAAAAA."

I don't care. None of us do. We may fake it and nod sympathetically, but secretly we're just wondering if we keep it up long enough, will you throw us a freebie?

[Eva Damita]

I dont have kids.

[Kammye]

Thank you Nikki someone said it....

Originally Posted by NIKKILOVE

LMAO, so what? You would like us to just take clothes off and get to it? Well, I understand all the complaints you guys must have, but you should also realize, that although you may not want the small covo to warm things up, some do. In fact, most of my visits are started by conversation STARTED BY THE GUY, asking how the day has been, etc...some guys talk about their wives, kids, bills, businesses, trucks, cars, etc.. because some are paying for TIME, so, some times, unless we have seen you before and know what NOT to say, we just start talking. I mean, I wont talk about kids, late bills, or dramma, because I dont have any. But i am pretty personalable with my visits, when its a mutual convo. Iv'e had a lot of guys walk in, never say shit, I try to talk to them, they still dont say shit, and that's just rude in my book, but i guess we are all different.


Note to self: DO NOT SPEAK TO ECCIE guys, just take your clothes off and get to it..

[boardman]

Great Post Ender.

As far as conversation goes I like it. I want to try and find some kind of connection.

My most memorable sessions have been with girls that I have found both physically and intellectually stimulating. Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for brains over beauty necessarily but if a girl can hold her own in a conversation and even be witty or appropriately sarcastic then I usually find that very attractive.

If you don't want a conversation and a little intimacy then why should it bother you if she is watching TV while you are fucking her.

[carkido45]

I said it before " listening to a woman is some of the best foreplay you can give them ".
They feel more comfortable with you and it shows you're not so selfish and into yourself and that she matters.

[Kammye]

*high fives you*

Originally Posted by NIKKILOVE

... when are you going to learn that?

I don't need to learn that, Im not an idiot by any means. That's why I chose who I see. I don't feel real comfortable just sticking some guys dick in my mouth when he walks through the door. Just as you want your dick hard so you can fuck, id like my pussy to get wet so you can fuck me and not get a shitty session from me, so I chose to talk to kind of get comfortable. But, that's just how I am. May not be that way for every one. Remember, YOU chose who you go to see, WE do not, so for us it may take a little more than seeing your dick or lack of to get in the mood.

... When are you going to learn that?[/QUOTE]

[Kammye]

You are so right!! If we as providers feel uncomfortable the session is gonna suck. Most of the time the client engages me in conversation as soon as i walk thru the door. It loosens us both up. Leading to great sex.

Originally Posted by carkido45

I said it before " listening to a woman is some of the best foreplay you can give them ".
They feel more comfortable with you and it shows you're not so selfish and into yourself and that she matters.

[boardman]

Originally Posted by carkido45

I said it before " listening to a woman is some of the best foreplay you can give them ".
They feel more comfortable with you and it shows you're not so selfish and into yourself and that she matters.

Damn, CK, we actually agree on something...

....No wait...that really isn't you posting. It's that other fucktard that hacks your account from time to time. You know, when your posts actually make sense....

[boardman]

Originally Posted by Jemma Martin

I agree with you on this. If I don't get comfortable with the guy then our time isn't going to go well. If a guy didn't say shit and was rude to me then I'd ask him to leave because I'd just feel awkward. But then there are certain times where the guy just talks and talks and talks and I just want to gag him LOL! I think talking is fine to get to know someone, but not to the point where it drives the other person crazy. I guess it all depends on the situation really.

There may be hope for you yet sweetheart...

[carkido45]

Originally Posted by Kammye

You are so right!! If we as providers feel uncomfortable the session is gonna suck. Most of the time the client engages me in conversation as soon as i walk thru the door. It loosens us both up. Leading to great sex.

Yup and return sessions are even better because she knows she's not seeing an asshole.
Also a lil gift of chocolates or a small inexpensive boutique of flowers or a bottle of wine or whatever she likes to drink ask her first, will work wonders in the bedroom.

Deep in the heart of every woman there's a lil girl remember that.

Yes I know there's a donation involved but what's wrong with being nice about it.

[Traveltheworld]

I had a great conversation and sex with Kammye. So, yes you can have both.
I don't mind a little ice breaker but we all need to know when to stop and move on. Some are just clueless.