Providers who give references

[PricklyPete]

I am looking for recommendations for providers who are comfortable with giving referrals. I would like to see several of the well established ladies. They usually want a reference, but am having trouble finding those who are willing to do so. I guess maybe they don't want to give up the business? I would be inclined to return to a provider who will give a reference. Any help is appreciated. Thank you.

[Guest123018-2]

I really don't understand why a lady wouldn't give references. I'd be happy to give a reference for anyone I have seen. We need to stick together and watch each others back. No one else will!

[DallasRain]

amen with SweetM..and dittto

[looking4justtonight]

I personally don't write references or reviews.

I have explained why before...it is complicated and detailed.

I have been on here for a long time now and have seen several ladies in many other places. I have not seen anyone around here yet, since I recently moved here, trying to get things settled first.

If a provider needs references before they want to spend time with me then I just move to the next provider. I general only ever see the same provider and/or their personal froends, if I can help it anyway.

Anyway...I'll step off of my soapbox now...lol

[Ratchi66]

It does make it hard to get set up with someone reputable, if you dont have references. Then yoi have to roll the dice on someone you are unsure of.

[Jtrs61]

Originally Posted by looking4justtonight

I personally don't write references or reviews.

I have explained why before...it is complicated and detailed.

I have been on here for a long time now and have seen several ladies in many other places. I have not seen anyone around here yet, since I recently moved here, trying to get things settled first.

If a provider needs references before they want to spend time with me then I just move to the next provider. I general only ever see the same provider and/or their personal froends, if I can help it anyway.

Anyway...I'll step off of my soapbox now...lol

Agreed, especially since I devote less time to the hobby now than I used to.. If it's someone I really have my sights on I'll try to appease, but it does kinda suck not being able to see some of the more reputable providers after ya save up a bit to do so cuz they want 2 or even 3 "recent" providers, a p411, name, number, employer and blood sample lol. Some providers more, some less... However, i totally understand the reasoning and necessity behind the motion. gotta respect that!

[DallasRain]

Well when I am at home I am not as newbie friendly as when I tour..thats cause I use my personal private incall and have to be more careful.
I can sometimes use a work reference..you just gotta send me that info...you can be rest assured Im very discrete... ...you can trust a very reputable gal like me to not screw you over

[Guest123018-2]

I use to be very newbie friendly but not so much anymore. I hate to be paranoid but I also want to stay safe. I also use my home as my incall and I won't do an outcall. Trust is very important to me and I have built a very good regular clientele. I prefer to be low volume actually.

[Sarah Renee]

If a hobbyist doesn't habe current references, I do a meet and greet before hand in a public place. It's an investment into my safety and business.

If you are brand new, I do a newbie dinner date session.

I always give references and try to do so quickly.