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Old 02-25-2019, 09:53 AM   #1
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How do you think meeting with girls from escort strongly affects the real relationship?
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Old 02-25-2019, 12:21 PM   #2
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Honestly, not at all. I treat them the same, with dignity and respect. After all they're no different than anyone, they have hopes, dreams, feelings and a life outside of their practice.
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Old 02-25-2019, 04:13 PM   #3
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It makes it better for me. If my wife didn't put out, and I don't get anything else, I'd be a bigger asshole than I am now.
Men need sex. After I get a nut, I am no chill it ain't funny.

If I don't get sex, I begin to resent my wife for giving me sex, then stopping. Makes me wonder if she married me.
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Old 02-26-2019, 05:11 AM   #4
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...Men need sex. After I get a nut, I am no chill it ain't funny.

No chill ain't funny at all!!

If I don't get sex, I begin to resent my wife for giving me sex, then stopping. Makes me wonder if she married me.
Pretty sure that, if she is your wife, she married you!!
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Old 02-26-2019, 05:18 AM   #5
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I was bangin my real world girl multiple times a day. Now its only every other day. She can sense somethings up and she's starting to ask questions. So yeah, whoring definitely affects the real relationship.
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Old 02-26-2019, 09:18 AM   #6
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If you are careful, this shouldn't affect your real relationship. I had a period when I often used the services of an escort agency. But my wife did not know about it))
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Old 02-26-2019, 09:32 AM   #7
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I'm in an open marriage with full transparency so there's no cons here. I prefer escorts to hookup sites or the swingers scene because there's no emotional investment required. The wife also gets burnt out on the 'friends' aspect of FWB and constantly teases that she is jealous that true NSA sex is easily available for me.
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Old 02-26-2019, 10:55 AM   #8
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Pretty sure that, if she is your wife, she married you!!

Fucking Cell Phone thing. Either fat fingered or auto correct fixed something that didn't need fixing.
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Old 02-26-2019, 02:46 PM   #9
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My wife completely stopped after about 5 years of marriage. It is a long story, but there is a medical reason behind. We have had many arguments on the topic. During one of those arguments, the stress triggered her to have a heart attack [yes the heart attack was real, she spent a week in a cardiac ward, and I was there with her during most of the medical procedures, etc]. She is prone to stress-induced heart attacks and arguing about her obligations to provide sex stresses her.

Having other ladies around, available to me, has greatly benefitted me.

Last Summer my wife ran a campaign for Representative in our state legislature. The only bill that she really wanted to present to the state legislature was a bill to decriminalize prostitution. Even though she refuses to have sex, she does recognize that sex is important for mental health.

Unfortunately, after I retired, we moved to a very rural state, and there are very few providers in this area.

I am pretty sure that if we had a provider living near us, my wife would schedule my appointments and would send the provider the needed donations.
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Old 02-26-2019, 06:12 PM   #10
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I think if sex is the only thing lacking in a relationship having a sex buddy w/o emotional attachments can & does help that relationship. If you are used to having it several times daily i/weekly then stop or neglect the family &/or homefront in any way to carry on with someone else it will kill that relationship.
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My friend was very shy with girls. Escort helped him to become more self-confident. And now he has a good relationship.
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Old 03-14-2019, 09:09 AM   #12
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It seems to me that it should be a good thing. If your wife is a lousy cook, isn't it okay to go to a restaurant and have a nice meal? If your husband doesn't know a dipstick from a crank case, isn't it okay for a wife to take her car to a mechanic? People get massages for sore muscles......why is it so wrong to have this need taken care of by a professional?
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Old 03-14-2019, 04:23 PM   #13
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It seems to me that it should be a good thing. If your wife is a lousy cook, isn't it okay to go to a restaurant and have a nice meal? If your husband doesn't know a dipstick from a crank case, isn't it okay for a wife to take her car to a mechanic? People get massages for sore muscles......why is it so wrong to have this need taken care of by a professional?
Sounds good to.me.
Now would you come over and explain your theory to my wife?
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Old 03-14-2019, 07:03 PM   #14
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I love seeing wives that are "no longer interested in sex." Could be many of them are just not interested in sex with fuckwaffles.
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I love seeing wives that are "no longer interested in sex." Could be many of them are just not interested in sex with fuckwaffles.

Lol! I think you're right pyramider. Both parties can lose interest sexually in the other partner. If a couple doesn't make an effort to stay intimately connected, it's easy to fall into a sexless marriage. It's not just the wifes' fault, of course.

However I do know of cases where the wife announces she's done with sex. I also know of cases where the husband is not interested anymore, because of low testosterone or impotence. If a man can't get it up very well, the woman naturally thinks he's not attracted to her anymore and she takes it personally of course. And is no longer interested in attempting to be intimate when her partner is unable, and doesn't make her feel desired and sexy.

And naturally; "strange" is frequently attractive to men. But if a marriage is strong, neither partner cheats. I've had no less than TWO clients who had shaky marriages to start with; divorce their wives after a few sessions and move me in, to be wife #2. I don't mind at all being a kept woman for a year or two, when he gives me a credit card and pays for absolutely everything. But as far as taking the place of the wife? To a man that cheats and doesn't really value marriage? No thanks. I AM okay if we mutually agree to invite the occasional 3rd or 4th person into our sex lives. Nothing wrong with that as long as we do it together.

If it's an open marriage that's different. And I DO love my married clients; I have about half married and half single. The married guys are just looking for the fun and intimacy that they don't get at home. Many marriages can survive that, especially if the partner doesn't know. There's NO good reason to come clean and confess. It just causes pain.

I've also had several clients who said that they loved their wives very much and had no intention at all of leaving her and would never hurt her by letting it be known that he sees escorts. Many times she can no longer have sex because of medical reasons. And sometimes she just has no sex drive. But seeing an escort is MUCH different from having a real relationship on the side. It's not emotional, not love and there's no strings attached.

And of course this is just based on my own personal experience and is IMHO.
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