When to Ask What's NOT on the Menu?

[Oralist]

Originally Posted by tbone2u

Unless she's new. I just do my homework. Works for me.

Read her reviews. Any information you need on menu or service will be there. Don’t see any Independent Companion unless she has at least 4 or 5 Reviews. LE works both sides of the coin. If you have P411, add a Profile. P411 Companions can learn about your preferences, appearance, etc.

[VENUSNOVA]

?!
Really?
No way!
DOES THAT REALLY HAPPEN?

Thinking about it has me craving an MfM..right now.
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Hey Pyramider..😘

[tbone2u]

Originally Posted by Oldrogue

I guess there is no good answer or solution here, especially when trolling for the bottom feeders on LC or equal.

This

[Sistine Chapel]

Any and everything is on the menu if you got the cash. That's it and thats all.

[Kammye]

Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

Any and everything is on the menu if you got the cash. That's it and thats all.

On whos menu? Yours? Because your obviously speaking for yourself love.

[Sistine Chapel]

Originally Posted by Kammye

On whos menu? Yours? Because your obviously speaking for yourself love.

Name something not on your menu and watch me make an offer$ you cant refuse.

I respect how you feel but I've come to know that public posture is different from private actions.

[Fizley]

The other item I have done in the past is to go and see her, follow her lead. When your time is up and as your tieing your shoe laces to leave, I have asked if we could consider x service next time. You will know immediately by her reaction.

If she says yes, I follow up with a text a day or two reminding her of the conversation and asking to see her. If she responds you know she is receptive to the idea of the service.

This method is non confrontational and still allows her to have control.

[Solarsystem]

regardless of what their ad "says", I have made it a practice to ask them(via email) in advance if they are comfortable discussing what's really off limits and what's not. since I have seen several providers over time, I had some who consented to communicating via email very specifically(at least 3) and 2 that wouldn't. of the 3 who would, I ended up booking the appointment with 2 of the 3. I very much appreciated the 3 doing this as and it was time very well spent. of the 2 who wouldn't consent to communicating about it in advance, I didn't book ome of them and the other one after initially booking me,then cancelled me( a very well established provider). one scenario that is very frequent with some providers who are very random in the screening and flakey. I had one provider who turned me down because my p411 profile said I didn't like a provider wearing perfume(its preferred not mandatory)and apparently she didn't want to be restricted in whether she wore perfume or not. go figure. fortunately there are enough really good providers in Houston who are consistent

[Kammye]

Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

Name something not on your menu and watch me make an offer$ you cant refuse.

I respect how you feel but I've come to know that public posture is different from private actions.

But why are you speaking on behalf of providers? Regardless to what they may or may not do for $ isnt anyones concern. Its up to them. And last time i checked some of us still have a bit of dignity. I think youre statement was disrespectful hun.

[Oldrogue]

Fiz, good suggestions, but it still results in going and seeing a provider for the first time "blind" and not knowing if you're both on the same page with your expectations. Mind you I'm only speaking of the UTR's and bottom feeders from LC, etc.

The providers here and on OH2 are fairly clear on what's on, or more importantly, what's NOT on the menu. But for the UTR's and LC providers I think B3's suggestion of stating what we enjoy in a session is probably the most tactful way of getting it on the table, then if the provider quits communicating, it may be disappointing, but it's probably also 3 hours and a couple of bills saved.

[Sistine Chapel]

Originally Posted by Kammye

But why are you speaking on behalf of providers? Regardless to what they may or may not do for $ isnt anyones concern. Its up to them. And last time i checked some of us still have a bit of dignity. I think youre statement was disrespectful hun.

I wont go back and forth other than to say it's just an opinion. However, I will say that I apologize to you Kammye that I made you feel some type of way. Wasnt my intent and I can see your point. Please accept my apology and this rose @---

[Russ38]

It’s a bit blurry....But still trying to make out the attached image about 10 posts up^^^^......I’m thincking someone failed to heed the warnings of Pancho’s buffet and shit the bed.....

[Guest083119]

I can't tell WTF it is but it does appear to be an Image Violation, LOL

[Russ38]

Guess IKE is on vacation this week......heh

[pyramider]

I always ask if there are fries and a soda upgrade.