personal protection (mostly for providers to read)

[sexy_blonde_gymnast]

I was reading through the alert section and caught some deeply saddening stories about providers being robbed, raped and worse.
The problem is, being independent can leave a provider vulnerable and left to fate when it comes to matters of security. As many of you know, I am a major firearms enthusiast, owning several boomsticks myself. However, the reality is if I had a dead grip on an XDM everytime I was meeting a new client, it would be an uncomfortable experience for both the client and myself.
We all know mace is going to do little more to slow an assailant down, and tazers are iffy. Bringing a friend-turned-bodygaurd to every meet and greet is awkward for all parties involved and won't do much good if shit really hits the fan anyways. So what's a girl to do to keep herself safe in a non-invasive/disruptive manner?
Well, here's my advice:
Executive protection: Hire a professional. If you find the right one, a bodygaurd is a trained professional (typically with military experience) who has been trained to respond to hostage rescue situations if need be. Not to say a client-turned-nightmare is going to hold you hostage per se, but Holly's rapist for instance is a situation these people are no stranger to.
It's not quite what one might picture based on movie experience. I don't tote a bodygaurd with me to every meet. It takes a bit of coordination and effort to make a deal like this work flawlessly without being invasive to my profession. If I'm meeting someone I don't know, I let them know and they have a specialist in the area I'll be monitoring to ensure the meeting goes smoothly. The main one I typically work with is a former B.O.P.E officer from Rio De Janiero who worked as a counter-terrorist (neat huh?!). Knowing you have your own legal Jack Bauer ready to pull you out of a bad situation guns a'blazing is pretty comforting and lets you just relax and provide an excellent experience without reservation for security!
The fees I've arranged are nominal, they really let you 'reserve' them for a small amount, only charging a full fee if you actually require them to go all S.W.A.T team on some hapless jackass (which unfortunately I have had to do at this point, and all I can say is "woah"... wouldn't want to be on the receiving end of that ). But shopping around, as with anything, is always a must. One of the first agencies I reviewed was going to charge thousands just to keep me on standby...
So ladies, PLEASE, keep yourselves safe and happy. Piece of mind is too valuable for any bank account to hold, and being a nervous wreck around your clients isn't going to let you provide a great experience that you'll both enjoy.
Be safe!!

REMEMBER:

• From what I've seen, agencies sometimes say whatever to make themselves look meaner, tougher and more capable. Do your research and verify the agency to ensure you're working with people who actually have the capabilities they say they do!
• Shop around, some agencies seem to charge an arm and a leg to keep you safe. Explain (in vague detail of course lol) your situation and try to work out a payment that won't dent your budget to an insane level.
• Some agencies will actually do background checks at your request. Neat huh!
• Technology is crazy these days, and using it to your advantage can keep the need for a man-in-black to remain posted outside your hotel room door. There's OVERT and COVERT protection. You'll want COVERT. Nobody wants to look passed your curves to see a blackwater agent standing there just checkin' in lol.

[papi7770]

kick the guy in the nutts when he tried something fishy

[acp5762]

My God you sound like a real life Laura Croft, lol. Good luck to ya.

[sexy_blonde_gymnast]

haha security is important! and i grew up looking up to laura croft so thats a particuarly good compliment <3

[Guest053013-01]

Somehow this makes you more attractive to you. Can't wait to get back into town and see you!

[BigBadBazookaJoe]

Speaking from the heart, Shit! Glad I'm not a provider. I mean even with endless supply of pussy, and a built in audience that wants the drug your selling. The fact that you are girding your world with SWAT like resources simply make me shutter. Reminds me I need to be extra cautious about being a hobbyist. Ur a bit scary, cute, but scary little sexy blonde gymnast.

Personally I think I lean toward the FWB sort of relationship anyway. Less automatic weapons, tear gas, and seal team six engagments. The only "covert" shit happening is what interesting location we can find ourselves to fuck. Elevators, stairwells, park benches? LOL! That's fun COVERT shit!

And I call myself BigBadBazookaJoe, nope! Ur sporting the bazooka baby!

[sexy_blonde_gymnast]

Originally Posted by BigBadBazookaJoe

Speaking from the heart, Shit! Glad I'm not a provider. I mean even with endless supply of pussy, and a built in audience that wants the drug your selling. The fact that you are girding your world with SWAT like resources simply make me shutter. Reminds me I need to be extra cautious about being a hobbyist. Ur a bit scary, cute, but scary little sexy blonde gymnast.

Personally I think I lean toward the FWB sort of relationship anyway. Less automatic weapons, tear gas, and seal team six engagments. The only "covert" shit happening is what interesting location we can find ourselves to fuck. Elevators, stairwells, park benches? LOL! That's fun COVERT shit!

And I call myself BigBadBazookaJoe, nope! Ur sporting the bazooka baby!

haha classic post!

i like a carefree and fun session where i can do what i do best and make sure everybody's happy! and i like to make sure that just in case my date doesnt want it to go as smoothly as we all hope that i've got my bases covered!

a 100ish lb girl can never be too safe!

[BigBadBazookaJoe]

Thanks! Much like tv adds 10 or 50 lbs to an individual, an XDM45 adds about 150lbs to a 100ish lb girl LOL!

You would probably be pretty fun with someone you trust! LOL! (put away the hand cannon missy...my wang needs to be the biggest barrel in the room.)

Originally Posted by sexy_blonde_gymnast

haha classic post!

i like a carefree and fun session where i can do what i do best and make sure everybody's happy! and i like to make sure that just in case my date doesnt want it to go as smoothly as we all hope that i've got my bases covered!

a 100ish lb girl can never be too safe!

[Poet Laureate]

First let me say this: to heck with the provider guide, I wanna do Papi's avatar!
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All kidding aside, here's something I've been wondering about; tell me if it would work or if there's something I'm missing: You have your incall in a hotel and you rent adjoining rooms. You don't even have to leave the connecting door unlocked, although that would be optimum. In the other room is either your security guy or another provider that you travel with, and that person has a spare key card for your room. If it's another provider, you just try to schedule your appts so you're not seeing someone when she is, and vice versa.
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Now I know that as a rule when I go to a hotel room I check the bathroom and closet, and always chain the door, and I know that I would always check the adjoining door as well, but I have always wondered how many other clients would be that conscientious?

[threepeckeredbillygoat]

If I ever hear of a provider keeping a pimp/bodyguard/cousin, whatever you want to call them, I am done. I understand a lady wants to stay safe, but so does a guy. How do I know its a so called bodyguard. In my eyes any guy hanging around during a session is a pimp just waiting to catch me vulnerable with my pants around my ankles to rob my ass. It has happened to many times for me to take a chance.

[Guest013121]

Originally Posted by threepeckeredbillygoat

If I ever hear of a provider keeping a pimp/bodyguard/cousin, whatever you want to call them, I am done. I understand a lady wants to stay safe, but so does a guy. How do I know its a so called bodyguard. In my eyes any guy hanging around during a session is a pimp just waiting to catch me vulnerable with my pants around my ankles to rob my ass. It has happened to many times for me to take a chance.

AMEN! Im with u babe.... its not rocket science, shit, if a girl doesnt know how to defend herself, then she shouldnt be in this profession. I AM not paying a fuckin bodyguard with the money i just made! (and i dont have a pimp or a 'cousin' around the corner) And im not going to bring a thrid-party to my discreet location and have the gentleman feeling all awkward and uncomfortable. I can open a can of whoop-ass anytime on my own

[sexy_blonde_gymnast]

Originally Posted by BigBadBazookaJoe

Thanks! Much like tv adds 10 or 50 lbs to an individual, an XDM45 adds about 150lbs to a 100ish lb girl LOL!

You would probably be pretty fun with someone you trust! LOL! (put away the hand cannon missy...my wang needs to be the biggest barrel in the room.)

LOL Hahahaha!!! EPIC REPLY!! <3

[sexy_blonde_gymnast]

Originally Posted by Poet Laureate

First let me say this: to heck with the provider guide, I wanna do Papi's avatar!
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All kidding aside, here's something I've been wondering about; tell me if it would work or if there's something I'm missing: You have your incall in a hotel and you rent adjoining rooms. You don't even have to leave the connecting door unlocked, although that would be optimum. In the other room is either your security guy or another provider that you travel with, and that person has a spare key card for your room. If it's another provider, you just try to schedule your appts so you're not seeing someone when she is, and vice versa.
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Now I know that as a rule when I go to a hotel room I check the bathroom and closet, and always chain the door, and I know that I would always check the adjoining door as well, but I have always wondered how many other clients would be that conscientious?

I think that would probably work! I'm a bit more concerned with being less intrusive (not that your idea is at all intrusive, but it seems a bit more... concerted than I'd like). Using a voice-command-triggered cellphone app to signal your security detail (who may not even be in the hotel at all) is how I prefer it to go. That way you don't have a lumbering bodyguard making your life awkward... unless he's absolutely needed!

[sexy_blonde_gymnast]

Originally Posted by threepeckeredbillygoat

If I ever hear of a provider keeping a pimp/bodyguard/cousin, whatever you want to call them, I am done. I understand a lady wants to stay safe, but so does a guy. How do I know its a so called bodyguard. In my eyes any guy hanging around during a session is a pimp just waiting to catch me vulnerable with my pants around my ankles to rob my ass. It has happened to many times for me to take a chance.

Meh, to each their own. My reviews speak volumes about the lack of robbery, though. And it's not a matter of if you know whether or not he's a professional bodyguard... unless of course you'd be willing to start paying them for me

I can't really knock your paranoia, that's the reason I went with executive protection in the first place. But the results speak for themselves, with 0 'pimptacular' occurances and 2 'high threat responses' (with reviews definitively pointing away from your worries, and pointing towards my vaildity).

However if I went towards your line of thinking and decided to dive into uncertain situations on a wing and a prayer, I'd probably end up being a victim of circumstances much the same as the onces you described having gone through.

And that's not gunna happen, capice?

[B.Wayne]

Ineresting topic. Protection is a pretty important issue. Maby some of the guys should start hiring 5 man tactical entry teams in case of potential theft/scams from unsavory ladies or pimps for those uncertain situations, because I'm sure most of the guys will have went through screening as well as the lady being checked into before either party meet eachother. But I like a little insurance too so I may look into this for myself. Always nice to know that I'd have backup right around the corner....too. Good idea SBG this hadnt really occured to me before.