left without service...any advice?

[jenesys]

Originally Posted by MartenWarner

Plus, how is the clean-cut cop going to explain to his future girlfriend why he did what he did for a bust? I am assuming these were cops that didn't have girlfriends/wives.

I doubt he would share that with his SO or future SO. He'll justify it as work and it's confidential information that he shouldn't share with her or some BS like that.

Cops that cross the line and wind up doing indecent things or committing lewd acts in the midst of the bust will probably lie about it. If not and they are able to, they will do whatever in their power to cover it up. Obviously, in the case of the AMPs this was not possible but in the case of a single, independent provider, it would just be a he said/she said and who's going to believe an escort?

[PODarkness]

If a busted provider wants to tell the newspaper and the judge or jury about the 30 minutes prior to her arrest when the officer was naked, giving and receiving oral, and making a mess on the bed spread? The DA would be ok with that.

In order to tell that story you have to tell how you went to a hotel to have sex with a guy you had never met, got paid, then spent the next 30 minutes getting him off, and that's with YOUR lawyer asking the questions. The cop is sleeping on the couch tonight, but you just told the court you are guilty, THEN you get cross examined by opposing council. Where do you think you'll be sleeping?

[Laz]

I need some advice in the same line. I am a newbie and have no references as a result. I am registered with Preffered 411 and have reviewed their listing of available ladies. The problem is that my preferred choices all require references. Unfortunately for me I actually consider that a plus because I have very similar concerns about LE and physical security. The fact that they are careful gives me comfort also that they are not going to try to scam me. The question is what is the best approach to get one of them to take a little extra effort to screen me in an alternative way so that they are safe. I am willing to comply with just about anything they would want given the situation. The ladies I am interested in seem to be very proffesional so I do not have a problem trusting them.

[MissTThick]

Everyone can go around and around about this for years.
How do you get references without seeing a provider that doesn't screen...
And how do you get screened without any references?
Its a catch-22 no matter how you look at it.
To the OP, I think you did the right thing in leaving an uncomfortable situation. However, you need to put yourself in her shoes. She didn't trust YOU not to be LE either, apparently. She waited for you to make the first move to prove that YOU were not going to bust HER. Then when you left, I'm sure she immediately texted/emailed/called someone and told them she either just avoided being busted or else she just had an incredible jerk come and leave, wasting her time without compensating her for it at all.
As far as screening goes... I always screen. I've had several gentlemen PM me asking for a session and as soon as I ask for screening info... *poof* they are gone. When they do that it just screams "LE", whether they are or not.
The only advice I can give you is to join P411. They do an excellent job screening you via their own methods. In no way is it completely fool-proof, but its a HELL of a good tool to use, especially when jumping in as a newbie. Then find a newbie-friendly provider and get one "ok" and you should be good to go.
Good luck and happy hobbying!

[gcamaro]

i doubt a cop will let you feel her up, french kiss you, or expose herself, that would be entrapment. so i require that before i ever take the money out.

[Melissa Madyson]

I am newbie friendly. As I have said many times before, I am OLD SKOOL..I have my own techniques for proper screening, and 9 times out of 10 they work well for me. Now with that said, my methods may not work well for all providers, but it has kept me safe from LE for the last 20+ years..If you want to get in and make a name for yourself as a newbie hobbiest, check ads for NEWBIE FRIENDLY providers. Good Luck. melissa012

[mssassy]

Hi First of all one thing to remember LE has no boundaries period. They can do what they want. and they know all screening processes. There is nothing that cant be faked aged or hacked if they want to .
2. In her defense she probably did screen
3. For your safety have her come to you the first time . This gives you some comfort and if she has done her screening for her as well. Avoid rooms with connecting doors.
4 p411 is the best way to go nowdays
5 If you chose to see a backpage girl see if she is on p411 or datecheck. Some are
6 CHeck the bathrooms closets lol
MOst providers will not discuss money up front ever and services together.
Good luck and be safe

[daratu1]

Originally Posted by gcamaro

i doubt a cop will let you feel her up, french kiss you, or expose herself, that would be entrapment. so i require that before i ever take the money out.

Doesn't really qualify as entrapment. Entrapment is convincing you to do something you never would. Baiting you with an offer. However, ads are not an active tool. They do not come up to you directly and convince you, you go out seeking them and reply and set up an appointment. You have already gone out of your way to see this person, and that is why it is not entrapment. Now, if you were picked up in a bar and then got back to the hotel (or up to the room from the hotel bar) and then they lay out the price, and convince you to pay for it, then bust you, that could probably be seen as entrapment.

[daratu1]

Originally Posted by mssassy

6 CHeck the bathrooms closets lol
MOst providers will not discuss money up front ever and services together.
Good luck and be safe

I have never heard this one...why?