RIDICULOUS HARRASSMENT.

[SweetAubrey]

Some guy, I'm guessing, has been texting me saying really awful things to me, saying he's going to write a nasty review on me and I have no idea who it is. He has a Dallas area code, and I'm not even in Dallas right now. I know I haven't seen him because his number isn't saved. He's saying I'm in the KKK and other awful things about me personally. Just wanted to vent I guess. Idk what to do...what if he does write a review saying the same awful things he says to me?? I haven't even replied to him and he is constantly sending texts. This has been going on all day.

214-***-65** If you ladies want the number to watch out for, PM me.

[acp5762]

That could be some dudes wife or something. She discovered your number on his cell or something. I would text her back and teller it's not your fault that she can't give a dam blow job and her husband comes looking for it else where.

[Guest060513]

Call the number & if they pick up blow a whistle as loud as you can.
Or call them at 4am, see how they like the tables turned when it comes to unwanted phone contact.

[jframe2]

Sweet Aubrey, sorry for your troubles.
A couple of things you can do that might give you a little peace of mind-
- do not respond to this person at all, no matter what;
- see if your phone or phone plan allows you to block numbers and block this number;
- you might send a little of the information to your Mod, in case a bad review does show up. Probably be a little easier to get the review taken down;
- if you can, try and save these texts (and the phone# that sent them) in some manner, not on your phone. It will help you if you needed to go forward with a Restraining Order;
Keep Your Head Up.....

[DaniPlay]

Ladies Contributors anyone with decent advice:

I too, am in a bit of a similar situation, however, I know who it is... I've gone to great lengths and spent a lot of money to change phone numbers, my location every 2 days, etc.

I dated this (what turned out to be) horrible, HORRIBLE individual for a few months, broke up (breaking up with him took longer than we dated). He wouldn't take no for an answer, to get rid of him I googled and found out his home life information and shared intimate details with his wife, business partner, his wife, etc.

When the wife found out she filed for divorce the next day. This didn't ruin his life because they reconciled. He harassed me just after this happened and I recently came back to "work" and he's at it again.

He uses dozens of phone numbers to call, he uses a voice altering app. He calls me to get me to expose my location, he sends his friends (to pull pranks, I'm guessing). I don't know what his ultimate goal is.

I am very paranoid. I have joined P411 and Date-Check, these sites have not generated any traffic for me. I've been very UTR. I have not been in any trouble and want to keep it that way. I've now started wasting my money on posts in cities where I am not. I take new pics every week. I have 6 phone numbers.

I came back to work because I love being a GFE and I need the money (I'm being honest). I need a solution for getting him shut down so that I can conduct my business without all of these rediculous expenses.

I'd really love to hear your experiences or how you've eliminated this type of problem.
love and peace~
DaniPlay

[DrHouse]

Aubrey---from what you've described, I second jframe's suggestions...mainly of which is to avoid feeding this psycho's obvious intention of getting a rise out of you through some sort of response. Simply ignoring pests like this will usually do the trick.

[Anita Lay]

Aubrey,
Get a google number for free by using a zip code thats assigned to your main cell phone and you can change the google number as much as you want. The best part about it is blocking a number. You main cell number is never exposed. It;s all done with google voice.
Another thing is when you screen, always deal with experienced men that has seen a verified provider. You can call her and see if the guy is legit or you will figure out if its a ploy for finding you.
Change up your look and blur out your face, different hair color, some fake tatoos, different style of clothes , etc.
What ever you do, don't let them know its getting under your skin or it will continue.
When I get a caller acting silly I just say Im flattered they are thinking of me and hang up.
Don't give up.

[CharminEyes]

An alternative to a Google number is to get phone service thru Vonage (requires high speed Internet access). It is $25/month for their unlimited plan, they have very good number blocking (free), provide call forwarding so it can go directly to your cell phone so no one ever has to know your cell number, and - for $5/month - allows you to have a completely different phone number in any area code you want that acts just like your real number and you can change it as often as you want.

[Makayla of Missouri]

I am in the same situation with another provider. After much conversation with the mods and administrators, I have been advised to simply 'not feed the trolls' and report each and every action she does, save all messages, and to be the bigger 'man' and to continue being professional. Since this is a client and not a provider, my suggestion is to continue non-response, save, and be vigilant. Soon, as with the provider, people will be able to see the evil for what it is and will avoid him/her at all costs. He will have no place to hobby, and only high-risk girls who know nothing of date check or other review sites. If he posts a bad review, post a concise, professional rebuttal under co-eds.

MUCH LUCK!!!!

Makayla

[gamerfx]

you should all move to cedar rapids ia and start over

[Makayla of Missouri]

Originally Posted by gamerfx

you should all move to cedar rapids ia and start over

LOL! You are a hoot, gamer! Well, my neighbor to the north.... many of us are in the midwest. Maybe you could tempt someone to head that way! hehehe!

To stay on topic, has the issue gotten any better? Worse? Keep us informed! Good luck!

[JackBlackTn]

As far as saving the texts, and record of the calls, just photograph them. Even a cheap camera can handle this.

I agree that ignoring is the best way to handle it. Most cell providers allow you to black a number. Of course he can change it.

Good luck. Don't overreact. You are apparently a good person. That will be apparent to everyone over time.

Good luck

[mikkifine]

I like Ring Central. You can block as many numbers as you need. There is also google voice which is free.

[CalvinHall]

Run an ad on Craigslist saying you are selling your ex-boyfriends flat screen for $50.00. Put your tormentor's phone number in the ad as the contact info.

It won't stop the harassment, but it may give you something to smile about.

[Capt. Lincoln F. Stern]

Originally Posted by CalvinHall

Run an ad on Craigslist saying you are selling your ex-boyfriends flat screen for $50.00. Put your tormentor's phone number in the ad as the contact info.

It won't stop the harassment, but it may give you something to smile about.

Eh, before you do this, find a public wifi spot to post to..the ADs can trace back to an IP